not particularly woo, compared to some of these stories but.... (trigger warning for anyone who has had a loved one pass from cancer)
(bit of a back story)
in july this year my nan was poorly with vomiting and a sore back...the gp diagnosed a tummy bug and osteoporosis pain. forward a few weeks and shes still the same and losing weight, so my Dmum asked for her to be sent for tests. she was then found to have a huge liver tumour.
a couple of days later, she was transferred to hospital as she was losing too much weight, and it was found that the tumour was inoperable.
The consultant explained to her that she wasnt going to get better, and asked her if she had any questions or thoughts on the matter.
She said I cant....i WONT, go before i have seen everyone...all my children, grand children and great grand children....at this point the consultant said that she had maybe 4 weeks left, so we put wheels in motion to get the entire family to visit (no mean feat as there are 3 children, 8 grand children, 21 great grand children and 2 great great grand children who all live across the north and north west of england and north wales.
the next day we found out that she had less than 2 weeks to live, so it was probably going to be impossible for everyone to be able to get to her house to see her before she passed. (she asked to be sent home so she could pass at home.
anyways, over the next few days, family managed to get there in dribs and drabs, making long journeys to sit and hold her hand for a while, or chat to her....she was in and out of consciousness.
exactly 5 days after coming home, (and just 2 weeks after her MRI scan and diagnoisis of liver cancer) there was one remaining great grand child who hadnt managed to get to see her. She managed to get a half day from work, and her dad brought her all the way to nans, although at this stage, nan was no longer conscious at all)
She walked up to nan, and held her hand and said 'im here grandma, i love you.....nan, from having been unconscious for a day or two, murmured. I love you too....then she made a big sigh and passed.
We said afterwards that she must have somehow been mentally checking off the family members in her head, and knew that one was missing, and the minute she had 'seen' the last family member as per her wishes, she finally let go and went to join my gramps.
She was a stubborn old bird my nan, and I dont think, as ill as she was, that she was off to be with my gramps until she had seen every last one of her family!