AIBU to ask DH to wear underpants?

[JuniorMumber]

Ever since we've lived together my DH has always enjoyed relaxing around the house with just a t-shirt on and no under garments. We jokingly refer to it as 'Donald Ducking'. Now that we've had a baby (six weeks ago today!) I think it's time he started wearing under crackers around the house. It just seems more appropriate. AIBU to ask this of him?

Shatners: no, no socks or slippers, just the t shirt. Like Winnie the Pooh.

Sorry I know I shouldn't but "like Winnie the Pooh" make me snort.

Does he have a special t-shirt, for the occasion? A his is what I where when I feel like Leting it all hang out t-shirt?

OP, you seem more bothered about the ridiculousness of the t-shirt rather than the unpleasantness of the bare behind on the furniture...

He says this is how he has always relaxed in the evening.

So he used to sit around his parents house with his knob out before he left home?

Does he have yellow fur too and likes hunny?

Are we talking Giant Sausage or Chippolata? (just trying to get a good visual)

Pacific: of course, it's our sofa.

The only thing I can say in his defence is that his nightly ritual is to have a bath and then indulge in the pantless lounging. He also prides himself on having a meticulously clean starfish (it's come up in unrelated conversations). But yes, still grim and still unacceptable. I will tackle this issue head on tomorrow.

Nanny - both concern me.

Honestly, I am just dying laughing at this.

OP, you mentioned he said hes always done this... What, in front of his parents?

Pacific please do link the fart thread, I haven't seen it and it sounds like I need to!

Fully nude would be far less weird. Why be coy about your chest when your penis is just sitting there like a sleepy aardvark on your thigh?

Pants should always be the last garment left on when undressing. I can't even take my pants off before my bra or I feel all off kilter.

TheBuskers : not sure but wouldn't surprise me as he's from a family of hippies. Well, relatively speaking compared to me (it's a sliding scale isn't it).

Shatner, I nearly choked on a piece of orange!

ohbdear lord after a night of awful news this thread has cheered me up no end

"room pants" and "like winnie the pooh" genius

It's all very well invoking Winnie The Poo and Donald Duck, but I think you should point out to him that they a) had no obvious hygiene concerns, b) didn't sit on shared sofas, and c) are completely asexual.

Put the sleepy aardvark back in his hammock.

Or if he insists on Winnie the Pooh free balling wherever he goes, get him a little mat like a cat to sit on so he can lick his starfish to his hearts content!

I'm not sitting on other people's sofas any more.

Could you get him a muumuu? Same idea, but less penisy.

Can you buy one of those waterproof matts for beds for night training toddlers? Then ask him to place his bottom on it

And on the asexual front, before anybody brings up Huey, Dewey and Louis, may I just point out that they were actually Donald Duck's nephews, and that we can reasonably surmise therefore that his brother/brother-in-law probably wore pants around the house.

Does seem odd to wear a t-shirt but no pants, what if someone knocks on the door?

I think having a baby is irrelevant.

So it's safe to say that nobody else's husband does this, then? I am alone in having to witness me DH's 'sleepy aardvark' lolling around the living room of an evening?

Sweetness - can't possibly answer the chipolata/Cumberland question. But he's hardly ashamed of it, put it that way.

Same idea, but less penisy.

Ledkr, I can't stop laughing at your post:)

do you stay in hotels and he does it? Am thinking of taking a special little towel out with me to friends houses just in case i know you and have inadvertently sat on your sofa.
Its a bit inconsiderate but didn't you say anything when you first lived together? " you've forgotten your pants?" A compromise will have to be reached. He wears pants and you don't sprinkle itching powder on the sofa.

Shatners, I just had to google a muumuu. In actually think he would LOVE that. It would allow for a nice breeze around the gonads. I could get him one for Christmas. You've solved two problems in one!