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So, we're getting married, best ways to irritate all our guests here please

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Madascheese · 18/09/2010 06:02

Well DP pitched up with a very pretty bit of jewellery yesterday and proposed! How excited am I?

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Suncottage · 23/09/2010 14:49

jux

We are now the wedding planners - whatever you do please do not consult the bride about the arrangments. Brides are strange creatues with minds of their own.

The date she has in mind is not quite convenient for me? I can make the week after or the following August - that is the 2012 one. What about you?

I think she actually wants family and friends there. This is odd. How can we convince her otherwise?

Also the matron of honour and Madascheese seem to getting on too well. We need to drive a wedge there - cannot start too soon.

Are you okay to start there and I will sort out the canapes?

ElephantsAndMiasmas · 23/09/2010 15:17

Tell me at least some of that is made-up, Kiwicat?

Although him taking her name is too normal. They both need to take a new name, preferably the worst possible combination of both of their names, either double-barreled as in Mr & Mrs Black-De'ath, or spliced together as in Partington & Hooper -> Pooper.

Madascheese · 23/09/2010 15:48

You are all making me laugh so much - and I'm especially thankful for the generosity of spirit being shown here by SunCottage and Jux so selflessly giving of themselves to hijack plan their my perfect day.

Please enjoy yourselves at my grooms our expense and just let us know what time (ish) to turn up on whcih day and I'm sure all will be well in your capable hands.

The power of MN never ceases to amaze me

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expatinscotland · 23/09/2010 15:53

There was a poster here a few years back who asked if it would be tacky if she showed off her burlesque skills at her wedding reception by doing a lapdance for her new husband.

Ach, what a thread that was!

Madascheese · 23/09/2010 15:57

expat, I can't see how that would be even remotely tacky, I mean what mother and father wouldn't want to be fully appraised of the potential bedroom activities of their children?

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expatinscotland · 23/09/2010 16:00

One poster suggested they go ahead and consummate the marriage then and there and put it on YouTube :o.

Suncottage · 23/09/2010 16:37

I think I may have it

[rubs hands together]

mad sweetie, darling.

Would you consider letting the guests do the Prince Charming dance from the Adam and the Ants video?
You could do it with your bridesmaids walking up the aisle and your fiance could swing from the candleabra and land next to you at the altar.

There is no reason whatsover for this apart from me wanting to perve at watch guys in THAT PIRATE outfit.

[swoon and thud]

Wakes up embarrassed Blush

We shall stick to the canapes and cream wedding stationary at the moment then.....

KiwiKat · 23/09/2010 16:58

As long as we stick to the Pimm's colours, I'm in agreement. And the cushions.

ElephantsAndMiasmas · 23/09/2010 17:21

I think the Prince Charming idea is actually quite good

There was a nice lustful thoughtful thread about Adam Ant s leather trousers in the Feminism section recently. :)

Inertia · 23/09/2010 17:56

I take it Littlemad can play Prince Charming on the recorder ?

Are you planning to to tell guests that , prior to their 6 month residency in Kasakubekikistahn, they need to obtain a visa which is only available from one man at the Russian Embassy on the second Monday in June ? Or are you just going to wait until they are turned back at Customs in Kasakubekikistahn, then throw a hissy fit BECAUSE THEY SHOULD HAVE CHECKED OUT THE DETAILS WHEN THEY GOT THE INVITE 5 MONTHS AGO !!

Inertia · 23/09/2010 18:18

And on the subject of Russian Customs, don't forget to invoice the guests for the duty payable on the pimms.

Just wondering what the wedding planners had in mind for all those leftover rabbit skins ? I'm thinking hat-making competition - saves the bother of providing entertainment for the children too.

soccerwidow · 23/09/2010 18:20

wedding abroad and stag/hen do's abroad

Madascheese · 23/09/2010 18:21

I was thinking glockenspiel actually (we're very enviromentally conscious in this house and a specially commissioned instrument handmade by one legged orphans in the out reaches of South Amercia is actually the only thing we'd counntenence for him)

Obviously guests are free to make conrtibutions towards the purchase of aid instrument which is a very reasonable £3995 via our web page wwww.justgrabbing.co.uk in advance of the 'big day'

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Suncottage · 23/09/2010 19:15

Mad

I am so touched that you are so pandering listening to your guests' needs.

Last night dahling I was a tad perturbed when I was lurking prowling walking by your house last night I could see you were having fun with your fiance and seemed happy.

This is wrong dahling. I have managed to get three members of your family and two friends on my side agreeing with me.

Bring out the inner Bridezilla - Mumsnetters will applaude you and your family will show some respect.

You are being far too nice sweetie.

Now back to the guests. I have over ordered on the food and drink. The Tesco value brand orange squash and the value pack of Gregg's sausage rolls will only spoil them.

My friend has a newborn litter of puppies though Hmm

Suncottage · 23/09/2010 19:23

Kasahkkasiiffystahn is not an option anymore on account of their human rights violations popularity of their wedding services and resorts.

Dagnamit. Nearly chipped a nail with my sheer frustration.

Booboobedoo · 23/09/2010 19:31

pmsl @ www.justgrabbing.co.uk.

Suncottage · 23/09/2010 22:34

mad

There has been a disaaater Dahilng-Heart

The caterers have lost the recipe for orange squash and watery gravy.

Is it 15 parts squash and three parts gravy or 20 parts water or the other way round?

And do you say Mr Bowie or Mr Bowie?

He will be singing you see. His Tin Mchine stuff.......................

Your dress needs more bows and frills.

expatinscotland · 24/09/2010 12:08

How could I have forgotten? You must have a wishing well! A big cardboard box, covered in wedding wrapping paper and any other tacky ornament you can think of, with a slot in it for everyone who tried to forget about your tacky poem to put envelopes of money in!

Madascheese · 24/09/2010 12:23

Oh HOW utterly fab! I was thinking of providing a laptop and wifi access incase anyone hadn't had chance to log on to the website (above) prior to arriving.

I could get littlemad and some of his friends dressed up like cute little something or others to go round with collecting tins as well...

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Jux · 24/09/2010 12:29

There are a couple of things you can do with the rabbit skins. You either hire a dressmaker (use the one making hte dresses, she's obviously quick and she'll probably chuck on this extra for nothing if you let her stay for the food). Said dressmaker will quickly make you and your new dh Tarzan and Jane outfits which you will change into for the reception. We will hire some apparatus (I have some contacts in the rigging world and there's one company who could do things - a little shakily admittedly - for extremely low prices), anyway, you'll abseil among some treetops in your rabbit skins to entertain your guests while they're waiting for the caterers to heat up the sausage rolls.

Or said dressmaker can make the skins into a large blanket which you can lie on to consummate your marriage. If you slip her a fiver she'll give you some blood to spread on it when you show it to assembled guests to prove you were a virgin. Everyone will cheer and the villagers in Kasakubekikistahn will adopt you and you can stay there forever.

Suncottage, I am driving wedge between those two sly ones. It is very subtle so they haven't realised it yet. It will come on them suddenly, ending in explosives on the Big Day. Always nice to finish off a wedding with some Sky Sparkles, don't you think?

Adam Ant is good. I like the juxtaposition of Pimms and Glam Rock Saddo Revival; very fitting. The Pirate Costumes should be in Pimms colours, we'll have to add that to the list for the dressmaker.

The dress definitely needs more bows and frills. I am wondering about a certain amount of real meringue attached, to make sure everyone gets the point; perhaps the bride's head-dress? She could try a garter of meringue which will crumble as she walks down the aisle. A flock of birds could come and eat the crumbs; they could then perch on her head and eat the head-dress too. Or do you think that's going a bit far?

I think it's quite important that the guests are made up mainly of people the bride and groom don't know or don't like.

Suncottage, I'm wondering if we could add to the occasion by having a serious disagreement over arrangements a few weeks before the wedding and being incommunicado?

Also, August is bad for me for the next few years. Could we move the whole shebang to late Jan/early Feb? Skimpy dresses look so much nicer in the snow.

Madascheese · 24/09/2010 12:31

Laughing.Out.Loud.At.Work
That's all

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Suncottage · 24/09/2010 14:50

JuX

We can leave Mad out of the emails from now on - it will be on a need to know basis only.

Okay her fiance is being dressed as Adam Ant but in Pimms colours - he will be wearing more make up than the bride and roll on lip gloss.

Rabbits feature heavily.

Sterling work on the driving of the wedge between matron of honour and bride - just thought - can we spray favourite perfume of matron of honour onto the fiance's jacket - just to start a bit of suspicion going?

Meringues I like the sound of. We can whip them up ourselves and she can wear them over her ears like Princess Leia in Star Wars.We can stick them in place with jam.

They will also give the groom something to nibble on during the 12 hour ceremony.

I actually think we should just change telephone numbers and addresses now, brides tend to get a bit tetchy about now. We don't want her contacting us really

I have started a mail merge of the guests names and addresses, they all start with:

Dear Mug

You are about to be fleeced by this couple etc etc

Will that do?

mollyroger · 24/09/2010 15:04

oh how could i forget to mention? The wedding I tried to forget...
The happy couple insisted everyone dress up as a cartoon character. Which is always good for the whole sincere sanctity of marriage thing...Hmm

But you have never seen anthying coming closer to the purest definition of ''regret'' then when we looked upon the bride's face as she - looking beautiful despite a Disney princess frock - surveyed the advancing groom, in a VERY homemade SpongeBob outfit, complete with badly executed cardboard and patchy yellow facepaint all over his arms and shaved scalp....

dear friends, the marriage lasted not a year...:(

PfftTheMagicDragon · 24/09/2010 15:49

molly Shock!!!

Spongebob is NOT a Disney character. This is clearly why the marriage failed.

PfftTheMagicDragon · 24/09/2010 15:50

that will teach me to read, was sure you said "disney character".....

The thought....