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"This is a crisis for everyone": How you can support midwives ahead of Sunday's March for Midwives

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JuliaMumsnet · 16/11/2021 16:14

Hello - here's something from March for Midwives (scroll down for what you can do and tell us below if you're getting involved):

"Four weeks ago four doulas were lying in bed on a Sunday morning having a whatsapp conversation about how hopeless we all felt about the state of maternity care. A Royal College of Midwives (RCM) report last month revealed that 60% of UK midwives are considering leaving the profession, and sadly none of us were surprised. We all had stories to share of midwives in tears and birthing families neglected or coerced through their maternity journey.

One of us, Paula Cleary, who lives in March in Cambridgeshire, said that she was considering having a ‘March in March’ to protest against the understaffing in her local hospital. The rest of us all responded that this needed to be everywhere because this is a nationwide issue!

So March With Midwives was born that morning. Becki Scott set up a Facebook group and we all invited our birthworker friends. It grew rapidly, to over a 1000 people that first week.

We quickly realised this was tapping into the zeitgeist. Maternity workers and families were joining the group in droves, anxious to share their stories. The group became an emotional maelstrom as midwives and parents shared their trauma and sadness. We realised these voices needed to be captured so that the powers that be could really understand the depths of the crisis. So we set up an online form for service users and health professionals to write about how the staffing crisis has affected them, either anonymously or with their name.

We rapidly realised we needed help. The group was growing exponentially and we were inundated with people asking us for guidance on all number of things - are midwives allowed to attend? What is the RCM and NMC saying? How do we risk-assess a local demonstration? Do we need insurance and do we need to alert the police? (All questions we have answers to in the group now - just check our announcements and shared files).

We gathered a steering group around us of fellow doulas and midwives. We knew we needed a diverse group that represented parents, lay birth workers, NHS midwives and independent midwives. And, given the outrageous statistics on increased risk of maternal death for Black and Brown mothers and birthing people, we were also determined to include people from marginalised communities so that their voices could be amplified.

We realised we had an opportunity here to gather a diverse range of maternity voices under one banner, so we embarked on writing a manifesto summing up the issues and calling for some simple, emergency crisis management measures.

We also wrote a template letter for people to send to their MPs. We called for everyone to stand up around the country on the same day, at the same time, and called these gatherings vigils, to underscore the deep grief so many of us feel at the broken state of maternity services.

Meanwhile, the group grew. And grew. At the time of writing the facebook group contains nearly 20,000 people. Our Facebook, Twitter and Instagram pages are growing by the day. Our inboxes are flooded with people sharing their stories and wanting to help. A handful of distressed doulas has grown into a grassroots movement with real momentum.

So what exactly is up with the service? To cut a long story short, we quite simply do not have enough of anything - too few midwives, too few beds, not enough resources or time, which leads to not enough energy or compassion for the families needing support. The result? Parents that are damaged by either too much medical intervention or, conversely, falling through the cracks and not receiving the medical care they need. Those of us working with families in the postnatal period were not surprised when research found that up to a third of mothers/birthing people have symptoms of trauma.

As Elsie Gayle, experienced midwife, says, "The inevitability of the 'shoehorning' of maternity care into structures that continue to cause the systematic erasure of midwives, avoidable damage, deaths and long term trauma to families. It pains me to watch British maternity care diminish to its lowest point ever in the pursuit of the economies of scale."

Burned out midwives are abandoning the wrecked ship in droves; physical and mental health in tatters. Recent research found that midwives are increasingly suffering with PTSD. Urinary tract infections are common because they have no time to go to the toilet and they’re often not drinking on shift to reduce the urge to go. The pandemic has merely exposed an existing crisis in staffing and worsened staff retention. Meanwhile, students are also leaving their courses before graduation or shortly after qualifying, as the work conditions are so horrific. This means that the Government’s assurances that many new midwives are being trained is simply not the solution.

This isn’t a looming crisis. We have known about the staffing issues for years. The stuff has now well and truly hit the fan and we urgently need the voices of parents, midwives and doulas to be heard by the government. This is a crisis that affects everyone. We all have loved ones using this service and potentially carrying the ripple effects of trauma into the rest of their lives.

If you want to get involved, this is what you can do:

  • Join the March With Midwives Facebook group
  • Repost our Twitter and Instagram content
  • Make a 30 second video about why you support the campaign and post it with the hashtag #MarchWithMidwives
  • Write to your MP
  • If you can, find your local vigil (there is a map in the announcements in the Facebook group) and come join us on Sunday 21st November at 2pm

Together, we can amplify the voice of those who are so often silenced."

"This is a crisis for everyone": How you can support midwives ahead of Sunday's March for Midwives
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Izzy24 · 16/11/2021 22:11

I really hope people will get involved with this.

I started a thread about it yesterday but hardly anyone seems bothered.

Thedogscollar · 17/11/2021 00:09

@Izzy24

I really hope people will get involved with this.

I started a thread about it yesterday but hardly anyone seems bothered.

Hi @Izzy24 Fellow midwife here. Will be marching with my colleagues on Sunday.

It seems so sad that such a women centred topic hasn't had the reaction I thought it would and should have achieved on this site.

Maternity services are at crisis point. We as midwives need to be heard and listened to. We are fearful for the future of midwifery in this country.

Lifeisbeautiful01 · 17/11/2021 06:23

My daughter is currently training to be a midwife and is in despair at the state of the system. It’s wonderful to see this group and realise she’s not alone.

Lightswitch123 · 17/11/2021 06:30

I support you!

But I'd make your info snappier and less individual centric. Your first post is too hard to read and the message gets lost.

Tell us the hard brutal facts not 4 doulas life stories

MaddieM · 17/11/2021 08:49

@Lightswitch123

I support you!

But I'd make your info snappier and less individual centric. Your first post is too hard to read and the message gets lost.

Tell us the hard brutal facts not 4 doulas life stories

Here are some cold hard facts for you. BTW - It's definitely about not 4 doulas' life stories (although thanks for diminishing what we've achieved in 4 weeks), but a realisation that people like a story and want to know how this started and then grew so quickly. There are loads of links in the piece for you to learn more. Thanks x
"This is a crisis for everyone": How you can support midwives ahead of Sunday's March for Midwives
MrsIglesias · 17/11/2021 11:02

Really shocked to read how bad the situation is. Only a profession dominated by women would be expected to put up with this...

Thank you x 1000 for organising this, I'll try and do all these actions this week.

Izzy24 · 17/11/2021 17:41

Thank you all.

CharlottesWebinar · 17/11/2021 19:51

@MNHQ Thank you for supporting this.
It is hugely important that our maternity services are supported. We simply cannot continue as we are and the U.K. government needs to understand that and make national changes.

CharlottesWebinar · 17/11/2021 20:06

PS. Could you maybe pin this at the top of active convos please?

Izzy24 · 17/11/2021 20:42

@CharlottesWebinar

PS. Could you maybe pin this at the top of active convos please?
This would be so helpful. I don’t think people are noticing it really.
Hardbackwriter · 18/11/2021 16:12

Thanks for that infographic, @MaddieM - those are some awful, sobering and frankly terrifying numbers.

HyphenCobra · 18/11/2021 16:55

Honestly terrible the state of it all. Truly believe if it were men giving birth this wouldn't be happening.

Igneo · 18/11/2021 20:32

Birthing people?
I had to read it thrice to understand what was meant.

YesIamTHATmum · 18/11/2021 21:45

Birthing people?

endofagain · 19/11/2021 06:18

By referring to " birthing people" you will turn a lot of women off, unfortunately. That is a pity, because this is an important campaign.

Izzy24 · 19/11/2021 07:51

@endofagain

By referring to " birthing people" you will turn a lot of women off, unfortunately. That is a pity, because this is an important campaign.
No, we actually won’t.

We refer to birthing people AS WELL AS families and women so that we include all the people we care for. Because as HCPs working in maternity services we do our very best to extend warmth, compassion and inclusion to everyone.

PartridgeCoop · 19/11/2021 09:12

Crazy stats - 29/30 trained midwives don't start!! Do they go to other countries or leave the profession altogether?

I would happily join but don't have Facebook. Is there a list somewhere of vigil/march locations? (I'm in London)

Izzy24 · 19/11/2021 10:27

@PartridgeCoop

Crazy stats - 29/30 trained midwives don't start!! Do they go to other countries or leave the profession altogether?

I would happily join but don't have Facebook. Is there a list somewhere of vigil/march locations? (I'm in London)

@MaddieM

Maddie I think you may be able to help with a list of locations?

@PartridgeCoop

No, mostly it’s due to the stress of being unsupported and unable to give good care because of the lack of midwives…..and repeat….

MaddieM · 19/11/2021 11:08

@PartridgeCoop

Crazy stats - 29/30 trained midwives don't start!! Do they go to other countries or leave the profession altogether?

I would happily join but don't have Facebook. Is there a list somewhere of vigil/march locations? (I'm in London)

Here's our linktree - it includes a map showing all the locations we know about!

linktr.ee/MarchWithMidwivesUK?fbclid=IwAR00PMN6tguWDkb2q7xPkYtO0lp-9iF9xNM9kVLU6ooq7a37GzSdSzASKug

Clymene · 19/11/2021 18:30

Midwife literally means with woman. Only women give birth. None of us are birthing people.

Izzy24 · 19/11/2021 19:50

@Clymene

Midwife literally means with woman. Only women give birth. None of us are birthing people.
A very small number of those giving birth prefer to be described like this.

I have no problem whatsoever referring to this small number of people with respect and care in the manner they wish.

Clymene · 19/11/2021 20:02

There's about two of them in them in the UK. You're changing your language to exclude the 99.9% of women who use the word mother. And it's not an 'and' situation either - I've read some of your posts which misses out the word mother altogether in favour of the odious birthing people which doesn't even begin to encompass everything that mother means. And most of your posts avoid the word mother altogether.

If you are unable to centre women in your work, I'm not supporting you. How on earth can you support pregnant women if you won't even use the word woman or mother? It's an absolute nonsense.

I note that Milli Hill who the woke doula brigade hounded across social media isn't supporting this initiative. Wonder why?

Somebodylikeyew · 19/11/2021 20:22

Your poster doesn’t centre women.
Your language doesn’t centre women.
And sadly, there are hundreds of threads on
here about damage women have suffered due to not being centred in modern midwifery culture.

People on this thread have given you feedback and you’ve been defensive rather than listening. Once again, sadly there are hundreds of women here who have been damaged by midwives who didn’t listen.

I do wish you well. But i can also see why this hasn’t resulted in the groundswell of support you had hoped amongst this particular audience of WOMEN.

GinIronic · 19/11/2021 20:32

I too wish you all well - but I for one will never forget or forgive the awful MWs that ruined this woman’s birth “experience”.

endofagain · 19/11/2021 20:58

I was a midwife. I have carried and given birth to my own children. I have taught midwives and medical students.
The only advice I would give to midwives is to listen to women.

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