D'y ever wonder if FrumpyGrumpy's holidays will EVER end?

[MarsLady]

hello girls, jsut had 2 nights away without DTs here now to catch up with you lot...

jeez dingdong, time away from your children!!!!!!! None of us would ever do that

I fear you are almost a harlet.

shucks ooogs, I just open my bottom and let it rip...........

there hen, just peel it off slowly, it'll all be fine AND WHEN IS THE WEDDING DEARIE, Y'KNOW I LOVE A GUID GREET

You held Prince?

Did it make you even just a tiny bit broody?

Gwan, be honest.............

Love to Pixi!

Evening girls..............................I am
I have just checked on the cancerbackup forum I have joined, which so far has been s supportive and helpful. Anyway someone had sent me a private message, and its all about Matthew. Now I have re -read all my many posts on there and have mentioned Matthew a few times, but not really that many. There is another lady who joined after me and whose circumstances are very similar, husband has bowel/liver, same age and also lost a son, and I once said to her how much I could identify with her and that to lose your child is as far as I am concerned the worst thing that could happen to you. Anyway I havent mentioned Matthew for ages, and this private message is saying I must not keep on about him, that I love him and he means more to me than the other children and that they must think I love him more!!!!! I just dont understand what has made this person write such a long letter now? She also said she knows she has probably upset me, but thats the way she is!! I have sent her a short reply, asking why she has written to me, and that I love all my children equally and actually feel hurt by her message. What d`y think?

go Mars.......why?

Oh trips

My gut feeling is that truly, its none of her damn business. I'm angry for you.

And, if I had lost one of my adored children she is damn right I would love that one a little bit 'more'. The one I couldn't hold and kiss or even look at. Yes. I would be trying to make up for all that somehow. Trying to fill that space with something. Oh I am mad!

Of course you don't love Matthew more than your trio, you love him differently, don't we all?

FFS, your trio won't feel that you love him more. Your trio have each other to run, laugh and argue with. They understand balance. Its a given!

And she can stick my angry face up her arse sideways with a blunt, rusty nail on top

Its only helpful if its helpful.

And if you don't have something helpful to say, don't bloody well say it.

Think maybe I should have a Horlicks?

My DT2 is crying, I have to go. Night Trips, I'm sending love, don't let her pull you down. You do amazingly well in your life darling and she only knows her own.

My DT2 is crying, I have to go. Night Trips, I'm sending love, don't let her pull you down. You do amazingly well in your life darling and she only knows her own.

Thanks Frumpy.......................I just dont understand though what prompted her to do it? I havent mentioned Matthew for weeks anyway, she seemed to know she would hurt me...........why?
Oh bugger, its thundering, Becca or James will be up soon! Better get to bed, thanks for being on my behalf!

Trips you want the truth my darling.....ignore the stupid pissing woman. Pardon my french BUT you are not in the wrong. You dont love your Matt more than the Trips....you love them in different ways and the same ways all at the same time.

Your circumstances change from day to day like all the rest of us. You have emotions every day that are different. You have memories of Matthew that you dont have of the Trips.

STOP WORRYING my love. Stop fretting about things and people that you cannot change. You are an ace mum and wife. Things will work out for you, because good things eventually come to good people. You are my rock, my inspiration and my best friend. Tell anybody who trys to rain on your parade to feck off bugger off. If the person who made the comment would like to speak to a Northern mate of yours please feel free to give her my contact details. Oh please Trips.....I need a good argument

Go pinkfrog!!! She's taken on not only Trips, but a whole gaggle of hot, steamy, emotional, hormonal, stressed, FRIENDS of Triplets

She can gaun bile her heid as we say.

As ever you speak wise words Shabs, its just that it was so unexpected, when it said private message headed "Matthew" it shocked me. Just don`t understand why? Its not as though she is one of the ones I regularly keep up with, strange woman. It was aslo the fact that she said she expects that she has upset me by this! I might have to say that rude word again Shabs Glad to see there is a little light in your tunnel about Em, what news of Beth? Must go to bed, its thundering, one of the kids is bound to be up! Kale Nits, sagapo, xxxxx

I'm off.

Loved your post on that Doula thread Magic!

Trips, she upset you. For what reason?

For that reason, I don't know that you need her in your life. Sleep well, hope the thunder passes without waking your darlings xxxxxx.

Trips what an incredibly stupid, mean woman! I so want to demand that you give me her email. I could tell her a thing or two about herself.

Don't let the anger be part of you. For whatever reason she wants to hurt you don't let it take root and damage you. What goes around comes around. She'll get hers!

FG.. thanks for your lovely post on the doula thread. I've had too much wine and keep posting when I think my point is already made lol!

Beth is still the same Trips - heavily sedated, on a ventilator. Dont know if you know anything about the syndrome she has. If you google it you will get all the gory details.

Yes we have a chink of light with Dan and Em. Danny was at my home all day yesterday and kept falling asleep and crying in his sleep. He said 'I just want to go home after a hard days work and see my partner and my son.' I told Ems today that us lot, as a family, can sort anything.

Hiya Mars....please forgive the bad language earlier. But Trips is my buddy and anybody who upsets her can (are you ready for this) FECK RIGHT OFF. xx

Will bring in a note from my mam in the morning Mars.....hope I dont get detention.

As Frumpster said Tell her to go and boil her head. Her stupid head should be boiled!!!

Trips! on your behalf. Can't believe somebody could be so mean and hurtful. Is there any way you can block her messages now?

Looks like another miserable day out, what am I going to do with the kids?