Shabster, I caught the thread that you were on lately, giving solid support to that poor girl with the teenage daughter and the 5yr old and the awful hubby.
Forgive me for saying this on here, I hope its ok, I'm trying to be discreet in case its something you want to keep to yourself. I just didn't want to hijack the other thread.
I could feel it across the wires that there was something else going on with you apart from the bits you talk about on this thread. Just couldn't put my finger on it. You stay strong honey. I don't know what else to say. I could say what they all said to you but you seem like you have made your peace with it.
Girls, please don't go asking Shabster about this in case she doesn't want to explain. I feel awful for posting what I just have in case its private but I just wanted to send her my love. Just carry on as before.