I'm crap at advice Someone help!!
Chop,sorry you are having such a pants time.
I think kids do it not because they want to go but because they are too young to put into words how they are feeling. So in the end they just react.
I can remember packing my bag,waving goodbye and toodling off down the road with a humungous suitcase,I think I lasted for 5mins before I decided that home was not such a bad place after all