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devondoris · 01/01/2008 21:16

Look, look! Not only am I here, but I've started a new thread!

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inamuckingfuddle · 05/01/2008 14:22

Sorry to read your news Oooggs hope you are getting the support you need at home.

Tripley, you really are quite barmy

frumpygrumpy · 05/01/2008 14:39

Ooogs, sorry to hear it sweetheart. What a horrid time for you. All confusing.

Wilkie, you say they are happy to play with each other...........I'd leave it right there No need for any more stimulation right now and leaving them to find their way alone/together (IYKWIM) pays off later.

Mars, sleep is pretty dodgy in this house too atm. I blame later nights, later mornings, relaxed routine. The slightest change affects two of my children, the third is not too bad.

I lost the rag through the night. DT1 had been out of bed for the trizilbionthumpeenth time......."I need a wee", "I need you to chum me", "its too dark", "I need a drink", (when DP chummed her to the loo - "leave me alone". The camels back broke in 5 places when she wandered through carrying a cat someone gave her at Christmas. When you press its back it miaows and its legs move. She had snuck it into bed and then rolled over it sometime after she finally fell asleep. The damn thing miaowed and miaowed as she brought it to us and DP and I took turns in trying to find the off switch (somewhere in the caverns of her tummy).

DT2 then work up too and wailed that he had been woken up. DT1 wailed and wailed that she wanted her cat (quarantined) and proceeded to writhe and scream on the bathroom floor for 20 minutes as I lay in bed refusing to get any more angry. Finally I shouted my head off, marched her into bed and sat outside her room returning her to bed everytime she moved a muscle.

I really don't mind getting up if there is a problem - I've just spent 3 nights mopping up vomit and soothing her brow. BUT illness aside this girl has been like this forever. Any time the routine slips she slips back into the same old stuff.

rant done! Didn't mean to type it all, it just poured out

So. Tonights plan is rapid return. I will pop them to bed and wait, like a mouldy pea in the hall and return anyone and everyone to bed the second a toe hits the rug. Only wish someone would do that for me

cuppa anyone?

frumpygrumpy · 05/01/2008 14:40

dingdong.....nice night dear?

frumpygrumpy · 05/01/2008 14:51

Right, I need some ideas. In our house, DD1 (almost 7) brings her behaviour down to the level of the DTs a lot of the time. In return, she gets treated like them.

Lately, I notice she is rebelling a bit. She doesn't want to walk with me when we cross roads, that kind of thing.

I explained to her that there are some rules that she has to abide by. She must take care in car parks and not run to the car (even though she and I know she is wise enough) because the DTs would run after her and get into bother. I also explained that I felt it was time she did some grown up things that she wanted to do.

I said she could make dinner last night. She was delighted and made beans on toast with grated cheese, did everything herself including lighting the cooker, opening tins, making toast, grating, opening new milk, pouring drinks, setting the mats and cutlery, serving etc. She was proud of herself (me TOO!) but I know it was a novelty and won't last.

I need ideas of things I can do or let her do to (a) give her more responsibility and (b) thus grow her confidence. She is still the girl that cries some days about going to school and most days likes walked to the door.

I feel if she was not the eldest or didn't have 2 three years olds as her peers she would take her lead from better sources. She does have friends over as often as I can but thats not all that often.

I probably should have started a separate thread........

p.s. Tigger, are you a darts fan? Or just keeping us up to date with the sports calendar?

frumpygrumpy · 05/01/2008 14:51

can't stop myself

tkband3 · 05/01/2008 15:03

oogs, saw your post on the other thread and just wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you. Must be a difficult and confusing time for you. Hope you can get some rest so you can avoid hospital.

Right, a mountain of ironing is calling my name - aren't I lucky .

frumpygrumpy · 05/01/2008 15:10

ironing? Instead of my rambles? Am shocked!

p.s. your photos are fab!

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tkband3 · 05/01/2008 17:38

I know FG, it was a hard choice, but it had to be done . Thanks re the piccies. Are you ever going to post yours again? I managed to miss their last brief appearance .

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MarsLady · 05/01/2008 18:45

a quick hello. A nod to walkie. Just popping out to see a client. All well. Went to a client's baby's christening.... far too much champers if that's possible.

triplets · 05/01/2008 20:33

Hi all,
Dont know what happened yesterday but feeling fine atm, drank gallons of Lucozade today, swear by it! Just sat thru the trios version of Phantom of the Opera, my curtains will never be the same again! They use the bay window as the stage!Momma, did you get my e-mail re your address for the pjs, I haven`t forgotten! Hope everyone else is better tonight.......lucozade!

triplets · 05/01/2008 20:38

Ooogs.............big,big hug for you xxxx

inamuckingfuddle · 05/01/2008 20:56

evening all, nice lie in this morning

triplets, I meant to say yesterday, house swap could be a good idea - we are tied to school hols as are you I assume?

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PazzaPlusTwo · 05/01/2008 23:21

Hi everyone - Happy New Year!

Not much new here but thought I'd say hello anyway instead of just lurking.

Eagerly anticipating 20-week scan on Tuesday, will be nice to see them again.

DH got me The Krays on DVD for xmas. HA HA HA HA HA.

Byee

Pazza xx

MarsLady · 06/01/2008 00:38

Hi Pazza!

Hi all... would post but too much alcohol in system!

MarsLady · 06/01/2008 00:52

Ooogs ...

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TripleyTigger · 06/01/2008 12:45

Ladies!!!! Darts season is underway and I am getting in the spirit!!

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oooggs · 06/01/2008 14:39

everytime I cough I am passing blood clots which look like liver - normal?????

TripleyTigger · 06/01/2008 14:51

Oooggs whilst you wait for the more knowledgable to arrive,in my humble opinion yes it does seem normal. i think what you'll find is that it is just the lining of the womb that has become thicker over time so is much more heavy.

I didn't have a clue to what you were going through, I'm so sorry Oooggs.x.

frumpygrumpy · 06/01/2008 15:32

Ooogs, how awful darling. Sounds normal to my inexperienced self but you could start a quick thread for it if you need some solid advice....anonymously (ish, we'd know it was you but....) if you'd prefer. Or I could for you.

Triplets, your kids sound fabulous. Phantom of the Opera

Momma, thanks for the towel thoughts I expect it needs to be something a bit more glamourous/prestigious/responsible in a "I'm the only one that is allowed/capable" type of a way. I don't know. Maybe I'm just getting it wrong. Will think more. Things aren't the best in the fg house atm and I'm just exhausting myself trying to improve it. I'm not sad, I'm just worn out trying to get a balance with everything.

Went to the airport very early today to say goodbye to my little brother. He's going back to Oz after 2.5 weeks here. I cried quietly in the car all the way there (after failing to stop the tears by biting hard on the inside of my cheek - oouch!!) so you can imagine how I felt on the way home When he was born everyone said I was like his second mother I miss him. His relationship is rocky too atm and that makes it harder to say cheerio. He won't even talk about it.

Ah well, back to school for DD1 tomorrow so I'm off to prep the bags.

Does anyone else feel they need a life laundry?

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