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d'ya every wonder how life carried on and on and on.....

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Kelly1978 · 27/11/2006 11:47

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Too much waffling, you know who you are

I jsut wanted to psot to say good luck hm, hope you can hold out, but it really sounds like things are moving. Jsut think you could be cuddled upw ith your baby by tomorrow morning!

Glad to hear dt2 is better, fg.

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MarsLady · 14/01/2007 15:03

Nuts.....? Don't be daft. Of course you're nuts... and yet you're not nuts! I think having another is a fab idea (I do have 5 lol) and whilst it's nuts... why not be nuts? We couldn't afford our first baby and here we are with 5!

You go girl! It'll be great. The fun you will have (once you're past the spd) and the joy in watching your family grow...........

Welcome to the multiples btw!

largeginandtonic · 14/01/2007 15:27

I agree with Mars, go for it. The more you have the more fun it is, you worry less and are much more relaxed (apart from bath time, breakfst, lunch...oh and tea time..)

I love it (have 5, #6 due in May) the other kids get a lot out of it too, mine love having a new brother\sister.

Am off to make scones if i can drag myself away from MN.....

MarsLady · 14/01/2007 15:28

Don't forget to bring us a batch of scones. I'll pop the kettle on!

largeginandtonic · 14/01/2007 15:42

Course i wouldnt forget you guys....am going now, really i am...

Overrun · 14/01/2007 21:32

Estar - go for it, but think carefully if you are trying to have a girl this time, and you may well not be ( a bit of projection going on there , I have three boys) I have decided not to go for a fourth, for many reasons, but my main motivation would be to dress the baby in something other then blue

dolly1972 · 14/01/2007 22:08

marslady and lapinrose

i have left a message on the wanted thread for a set of twin reins...please dont think i dont appreciate the offer of yours...i do!
i sent you an email l/rose.

dolly x

throckenholt · 15/01/2007 11:20

hi folks - my 2 are four today - where did the time go ? We had their party yesterday - just us and both sets of grandparents - and granny made a fabulous cake - Old Macdonald theme - with about 50 little marzipan figures.

MarsLady · 15/01/2007 13:11

Happy Birthday wee Throckenholts!

Fret not dolly.

frumpygrumpy · 15/01/2007 14:16

Welcome 3pints! Is your name after the 3 pints of b/milk or 3 pints of gin?? Just trying to get a feel for you my love

Hi estar, glad you joined us. What an appropriate discussion you started. I have dd who is 5 (almost 6) and DTS who are 2.5. I have had a yearning, desire, passion (lately) to have another baby. I know the time is not right for me but I'm projecting into the next couple of years and I know I don't feel like our family is finished. I'm not sure if you ever feel finished?? Ladies?

I do know that I think its beyond me to have another set of twins so thats where my problem lies. I can't guarantee one baby! My mum is adopted and so I'm trying to get my brain into that line of thought and try it for size.......so many little darlings out there not getting a fair chance at life. My hairdressers mum fosters he told me about the little boy she is looking after atm.

He is 2, when she got him he was not really eating food just milk from bottles, couldn't walk and had cigarette burns on his bottom . My heart broke in two. I wrapped up Christmas gifts for him and his sister and its been on my mind ever since. I don't mean I'd adopt him, I'm just thinking about life ......

Anyway, that wasn't what you asked!! If you feel you'd like and could manage another child, you already have your answer

Mars, fill us in on the weekend my love, any getdownanddirty secrets to share?

Talking of which, does anyone have Paolo Nutini's cd? It is on permanent repeat in my house/car atm. I know he's a nubile, wiry nineteen year old, but he has the voice of a MAN and I so want to pin him against a wall and share my world experiences with him

frumpygrumpy · 15/01/2007 14:16

AND

Happy Birthday mini Throckenholts!!

I wish you 2 cakes and 2 spoons

Overrun · 15/01/2007 15:38

Happy birthday little throcks Hiya Frumpy, I'm sure you are right and you never feel complete. I am sure there will be a part of me that is yearning for another child until I hit the menapause, and it becomes unattainable.
Adoption, wow, thats a big step, but certainly a way of getting round the likelihood of dts
I don't know how much you know about the adoption process in this country, I know a bit, its a pretty intense and lengthy thing.
There can all sorts of rules about age, health, weight, you name it. I am not trying to put you off, just some initial thoughts.
Mind you unless you are Madonna, the adoption process anywhere, is pretty damn complicated and protracted.

Harrogatemum · 15/01/2007 16:03

heeellllpp

does anyone know anything about chicken pox.

DT1 has suddenly got about 12 red spots on his neck/back/groin area........

is it the dreaded CP? If so does that mean DT2 will get it...and should I be worried about the baby, is it complicated in babies?

I rang my docs, they have no appointments until Thursday morning even though I told them what it was for, they suggested I ring the Health Visitor. I did, and left a message.

Great hey.

HOpe someone is around who can help!!!!!!!!

estar · 15/01/2007 16:35

Thanks people - the thought of adopting or something had crossed my mind, when there's so many undervalued children out there. I suppose I'm thinking in a year and a half mine will all be at school, therefore should I just enjoy the time and get some sort of life
I think that's the point, frumpy - its the question of 'is my family' complete? I am one of four kids and almost feel that I haven't done it properly until I've had four myself. I LOVE big families but I feel so tired all the time! Also feel like you're making a declaration to the world - 'I am doing such a good job of parenting that I'm going to add more children to my entourage' when in reality we have days when we're hanging on by our fingernails...

Harrogate mum, mine had chicken pox when they were three months old and it was by far the best time to get it. My 2yo scratched and wimpered and the babies didn't even notice. Have to be VERY careful not to knock the scabs off tho - one of mine still has marks on his face from them.

largeginandtonic · 15/01/2007 16:35

Oh HM, great timming....dont worry, even if it is the pox the dts will probably be fine with it. Mine had it when they were 2and a half and dd was about 7 months. They managed to stagger it so i was in for about 7 weeks before we were fit for outside company! That was hard... Just hope they both get it within a few days of each other! Ds #3 was not very at all with it but it's a rare reaction.

The spots start usually behind the ears and on the neck, spreading to the trunk next, i had this magic aqueous pink cream that was calamine but in spreadable non staining form. DD will probably be safe as she will have all your antibodies still in her system and she will have extra protection cos you are feeding her. I hope it is ok xxx

Happy birthday mini throks!!! Hope you have a lovely 4th birthday

Oh FG i know what you mean about Paulo mmmmmm, perhaps he would like someone who knows what they are doing.....if not i will help you pin him down...

largeginandtonic · 15/01/2007 16:40

On the family expanding thing....im pretty sure it does get to a point when you feel enough is enough. I am not as excited about this baby as i was the others, dont get me wrong he is planned and wanted very much, but i just dont feel that sparkle i used to. I was considering having another if this was a boy (which it is) but im not so sure now. I never thought i would say that! My friends would be gobsmacked!!!!!

We will see anyway......

frumpygrumpy · 15/01/2007 16:43

Hi HM, my 3 children all had THE POX back to back around November time. If it is then the spots will spread everywhere (if not today then by tomorrow). They will start off like little red spots and then get bumpy and hot and maybe itchy. Then they will crust and fall off.

The whole process was about 4-5 days I think with each of mine having one terrible night where they slept little.

Having just seen it, 3 times over I can say it was horrible having them all with it, overlapping BUT now I'm glad because it got it all out of the way.

My dds took it fairly bad with spots all over, in their front bottoms, up noses, in ears and all over their scalps. My ds took it worse.

I don't think it is complicated for babies (happy to be corrected) and in fact I think its better as some people have told me their babies had spots but no itch.

What can I recommend?

I will look back and find my posts then to remind me what I was using........but from memory I used, Calpol, but I also did Nurofen as its anti-inflammatory, Piriton (not Pririteze as its different I think).

My pharmacist also had a tub of aqueous calamine which was brilliant. Its so much easier than calamine lotion and the massaging when you rub it on can help the itch. Boots don't have it (they gave me a tube of something which was thicker and not so easy).

A friend also got me Rhus Tox (30c I think). Its a herbal thing, little white dots of sugary tasting stuff which you don't touch but pop onto a spoon and administer quite a lot of for the first 6 doses and then until symptoms are better. It seemed to make no difference to dd and ds but for DT1 it seemed to make a huge improvement overnight. Its meant to calm everything down. It made me feel better to feel I was fighting it with everything.

I'll pop in again soon to see how you/he is.

Kelly1978 · 15/01/2007 16:44

happy birthday little throkenholts

Fingers crossed for you hm, that it isn't the pox. Do they look like little tiny blisters? My older two had it without a whimper though, so you may not have any problems. I think dd must have been 2 or 3 and ds was still in nappies. agree that the baby is unlikely to get it, and if she does get it the only concern normally iirc is if they get a temperature and are too young for calpol. Not sure how old she is yet?

dt2 woke up in a BAD mood today. Then proceeded to try to put mummy in a bad mood by being a general menace and then running off round the car into a lovely pile of dog s*!! I didn't even realise until after I had put him in his car seat and he got it all over his hands, yuck, yuck, yuck! Owners who don't clean up after their dogs need their faces rubbing into it.

Oh well, only an hour to go until bedtime.

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Kelly1978 · 15/01/2007 16:45

happy birthday little throkenholts

Fingers crossed for you hm, that it isn't the pox. Do they look like little tiny blisters? My older two had it without a whimper though, so you may not have any problems. I think dd must have been 2 or 3 and ds was still in nappies. agree that the baby is unlikely to get it, and if she does get it the only concern normally iirc is if they get a temperature and are too young for calpol. Not sure how old she is yet?

dt2 woke up in a BAD mood today. Then proceeded to try to put mummy in a bad mood by being a general menace and then running off round the car into a lovely pile of dog s*!! I didn't even realise until after I had put him in his car seat and he got it all over his hands, yuck, yuck, yuck! Owners who don't clean up after their dogs need their faces rubbing into it.

Oh well, only an hour to go until bedtime.

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MarsLady · 15/01/2007 16:45

Benadryl is the thing. If you need extra calamine lotion (which isn't as good as benadryl) I have loads and HD will have to come for his supper!

What can I tell you about my weekend?

1)large house in Kent
2)extreme amounts of champers
3)canapes by these people... neat eating.... YUM!!
4)cuban salsa dancing
5)going to bed at silly o'clock (alone)
6)waiting up to a cooked breakfast

I think that about covers it. Though I did miss out the fact that we left London early, stopping in Tunbridge Wells for shopping, lunch and more shopping.

I looked glamourous and gorgeous in my silver sheath I danced the night away "hic"

frumpygrumpy · 15/01/2007 16:48

Hi girls, just to say largegin, thanks for the offer but I'm not in a sharing mood where Paolo is concerned. I ain't doing 30 lengths of the pool 3 times a week for nothing y'know!! I will however, offer you this beautiful raspberry and nectarine smoothie and this muffin

Overrun, I didn't realise it could be so complicated. I have no secrets so I will keep running it through my head. It would be in a couple of years time I think. Is there an age limit still?

Kelly1978 · 15/01/2007 16:50

at fg being broody! Not sure why I'm so shocked, but I had this idea that fg was sensible

I'm defo done with babies. I'd love another girl, but there are no guarantees and I couldn't face another pair of dts. I couldn't cope with any mroe I dont think.

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frumpygrumpy · 15/01/2007 16:51

Oh bum, we're all here, I could have posted copius quantities of pictures. But I have to go (really).

Mars, long, long ago, sheaths were condoms. I can't get that picture out of my head

Bloody hell, I think I'm on heat. Paolo has me thinking about sex morning, noon and night.

frumpygrumpy · 15/01/2007 16:52

sensible

I'm letting that word travel around my head

Kelly1978 · 15/01/2007 16:52

mars! Mind you I'm plannigna child free weekend all of my very own next month....

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MarsLady · 15/01/2007 16:52

Well darling... it acted like one! lol

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