You will be booting me off of the thread soon for what I am about to say.
"God I am so bloody fed up with life atm".
Today looked promising, Becca put a coat on.
Then a big disappointment, my lovely youngest brother txt me to say his wife had found out his plans for her 50th b/day party. We were all looking forward to a family meet up for 24 hours in Durham, we were all coming up from Deal, got everything booked. She is hysterical and has made him cancel everything, she does not want to be 50!
Then my other two local brothers phoned up and took me out for the afternoon................it was really nice.
Got home at 3.45pm and dd had come home alone.............then she tells me that Dad says she can go into town at 7pm with 2 friends to see the Christmas lights go on, its gale force 7 and they were walking.
Then another brother who lives local (I have 4 brothers, no sisters) phoned at 6pm to ask what was going on re the 50th party. So told him, he said my brother should have known better, that my sil did not want a party she wanted to be whisked away for a surpise w/end abroad. My brother cannot afford it, he has no money of his own. I said I just cant understand her, she has a husband who loves her and wanted so desperately to do something for her, as did her best friends, they had arranged a stretch limo etc. He then said that his wife would have been the same, she too was 50 in June, she would have hated a party. I asked why? What reason did she have for not wanting to celebrate with her family and friends who all loved her and wanted to make it special. His answer was that my sil did not want to be 50. I know I should not have got angry, but I just felt that rush of anger, and the tears followed as I said that I thought they were both being stupid as they both look 40, have their health, have no worries re money and looking after young children and should celebrate every birthday as they may not be here tomorrow. I then was almost choking as I said that Matthew only had 14 birthdays, he would bever celebrate his 18th/21st/40/50th etc and they should make the most and enjoy every single one and be thankful. He was shocked I think and we hung up. Then dds friends phoned at the very last minute to say they had decided not to go into Deal to see the Christmas lights and would I tell Becca they were sorry.
She was told then slammed her bedroom door on me.
I am thinking of putting an ad in the Lady.
Mature lady with gsoh seeks live in position.
Not good with men or children.
Can cook, enjoys a drink and stimulating adult company.
Wages negotiable, previous post unpaid.
Used to working very long hours.