D'y ever wonder why its ALWAYS this time of night when we start a new thread!!

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Still searching the shag pile for my Faliraki flip flops!!!

Thats meant to say "people" and "On call". Working on iPod, sorry!

Thats meant to say "people" and "On call". Working on iPod, sorry!

Sorry, just have to tell somebody or I will go mad!! DK has really done it! He went round his brothers house all day,(from 10am-4pm) and then went up for a "knap" as soon as he got home, 2hrs later he came down and I said to him the dog had got out again (she has become a bit of an escape artist over the past few weeks). I bought some additional fencing wire over 5weeks ago, and have been asking for help putting it up ever since, as this would involve climbing a ladder and holding it in place, which I cannot do on my own, especially at the moment with my ankle playing up. I only mentioned it as I hoped it would kickstart him doing th job tomorrow. He flew into a massive rage, saying I was "having a go at him", threw the poor dog across the floor by her collar, then grabbed J, who was sitting in his chair, by the wrist, and dragged him out onto the floor, he didnt even as the child to please move, and then stormed off, saying I had not stopped nagging him all weekend, and showed him no respect! I lost it, and told him to grow up or leave, and he then shouts at me for "shouting and broadcasting our business all over the village. At the moment he has gone back upstairs, leaving a pair of crying boys, a wimpering dog and me feeling absolutly furious with having to sort it out. TBH, at the moment, I would be quite happy to have him leave and not come back

Thanks Ruby - As you know, we had problems earlier in the year, and I though we had got over them, but his temper reared its ugly head again today, and, TBH I frightened myself with my response to it, rather than backing down, I lost control as well, shouting and screaming at him to leave, I didnt want what had happened in the early spring to happen again.

Shabs xxxxxxxxx bless him xxxxxxxxx
I went back to the cemetery today for the first time, Mums lovely flowers fading already,so unbelievable, Matthews there, Dad there and now shes there. Found a locket today of hers, inside was a tiny photo of her when she was about 17 with her Mum, it all breaks my heart. I am <img loading="lazy" class="inline-flex mumsnet-emoji" alt="Angry" src="https://www.mumsnet.com/build/assets/angry-BLHnmhGV.png"> with my two nieces, the day after the funeral the are already requesting things out of mums house, the washing machine, fridge freezer and the 40" tv. Am I being too sensitive, I feel its insensitive and disrespectful. Mum has already left them all money bless her:( Bubs, I feel for you I truly do, you have been on here long enough to know I get very <img loading="lazy" class="inline-flex mumsnet-emoji" alt="Angry" src="https://www.mumsnet.com/build/assets/angry-BLHnmhGV.png"> with my <strong>DK</strong>at times. They are selfish and unreasonables bs at times. Go kip with one of the kids tonight, I have done that in the past, poor you {hug} xxxCould I have your honest opinions as to whether I am wrong about the nieces?
Dh is in a strop, we want and need to get away, we are strapped for cash, so it would have to go on c/c which rules out a private renting. He wants CP for a week, but I truly begrudge the price they are asking, around £1600 for a basic lodge. Oh Shabs got room for me at the Venezia??

No,he doesnt drink much. I've just spoken to Steve (BiL), to find out what happened over there, and they had been having a conversation about their mum, that always upsets them both. MiL is a uncomplient bi-polar, at the moment living in Spain (thank God!), its her 77th birthday tomorrow, and the 3 brothers are wondering if they should try again to have contact with her, as she has accused all of them and us DiL of all sorts of foul things, and we have had no contact for the last 5 years. This always puts him in a bad mood, he feels guilty for hating her, but cannot forgive her for allowing many things to happen to him and his brothers, both as children and again as adults (StepFiL related). Unfortunatly, this taints his relationships, but, for the most part, I understand and give him leeway, but it goes a little way to explaining his behaviour. I just wish he didnt take it out on us!

Trips- No, you are not wrong about the neices, it would upset me as well. Just say that, when you are ready, you are putting the whole lot on Ebay, and the funds will be split equally, and see how that goes down.

Nieces are out of order Trips - my Mums sister did exactly the same after my Nan died. My Mum, who had been Nans carer got nowt, nothing, nish. Auntie just marched in and took anything of any value and said that Nan said she had to have the items.

There is always room for you at the Venezia Trips - you dont even have to ask xxxxxx

Morning girls xx

Got a very impressive Mozzy bite on my back....the little buggers love me!!!

Afternoon All. I stayed up at 1am, expecting to sleep on sofa bed in dining room, but DK was still playing his xbox, so I took the bed, and told him to piss off when he came up at 2am! I slept like a baby, he is moaning because he didn't, and I don't care!! Still no apology, so I'm afaid I am being a bit childish and ignoring his presence.
Shabs- Dab the bite with teatree oil, it helps stop the itching.

LOL @ you being in the bed and sleeping well xx

Have tried everything known to man to stop mozzies from biting me and from itching the bite. Nowt works, nowt, nish, nada!!! My GP is a Greek cypriot and he said to me 'What the hell have you done to get all these bites!!' (few years ago) I explained that we had been to Rhodes and that mozzies loved me. He tried being polite and kind but said that mozzies like certain people - usually ones who have smelly feet and plenty of flesh on them He also advised me that I was obviously allergic to mozzy bites and not to go to Turkey because there mozzies carry malaria.......I normally take piriton (the drowsy one) so that even if I get bit I dont care - also always have air conditioning in the room and keep the balcony doors closed at night!!

Just started reading "50 Shades of Grey" as a friend lent it to me, WOW-I need a Mr Grey in my life, unending kinky sex with expensive pressies thrown in! Steamy Stuff!!

Maybe without the domiatrix/submissive stuff tho

Not coming back from Chelles till about 1 am.....raging hangover.....not setting my alarm....Dan ringing me from outside my house at 7am.....Lew here till at least 2pm..... I may be sick all over him if he talks to me for another piggin' minute!!!

'ANNNNNNNNNNNNNNNDMA' I have done a sloppy poo - please will you help me wipe my bum..... 'Of course love!!!!' 'Annnndma why are you being sick on top of my poo!!' 'Just cos Lew....just cos!!!'

Morning girls xxx

Morning girls!

Hope everyone is enjoying the sun? We've been down the park every day, making the most of it and starting off the suntan ready for hols!

Hey, shabs isn't Lew red haired? I have one coming out for the day with us today, and I am terrified that I am going to be presenting a mini lobster back to her parents this afternoon! How often do you put on suntan lotion? We're going to be in and out of water and there is no shade!

I don't have these problems with the boys. Being mixed race, they just tan, never burn or worry about suntan lotion unless it is approaching 40C!