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JustThinking · 22/05/2005 22:36

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colette · 05/07/2005 08:19

Jt Hope you had a good weekend and are ok .

lemonice · 05/07/2005 22:01

Justthinking

About you so I hope you are OK.

I started a thread once on here about nightmares because I wanted to be able to turn them round and I can't find it now but I think Spacemonkey gave some ideas but I'm not sure she's still here or more likely I don't recognize her with a different name but maybe ask for some advisors over the nightmares because it's kind of easier to say do this and see if it works when I know eg that nothing works over all...I have nightmares where I am in x situation and I can't escape and for me it's trying to speak or scream that I can't do...I'm lucky now if dp is there he wakes me up but if he is working nights it's much more difficult and I dread going to sleep I just drink wine and keep the TV on..sorry I haven't been around for a while, I'm a bit struggling..

JustThinking · 06/07/2005 12:31

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colette · 06/07/2005 18:31

Jt really sorry you lost your job. Have you tried aloha's remedies. Kids always get ill at the worst times. Hope you get to see your gp soon.

colette · 06/07/2005 18:32

Sorry for the abrupt post ds is throwing a wobbly whilst climbing on me.

Blu · 06/07/2005 18:55

Did you get hold of Spacemonkey? Shall we put out a call for her?

lou33 · 06/07/2005 19:01

she doesn't have internet access at home blu, so is only on via a cafe from time to time

lemonice · 06/07/2005 20:08

I've found a thread I started about nightmares, no spacemonkey is this a figment of my (fevered) imagination??? i think maybe I was thinking of something else either not using ADs or a spiritual thread...

Anyway here are the thoughts on ...

Turning Nightmares

JustThinking · 07/07/2005 09:08

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JustThinking · 07/07/2005 09:09

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ggglimpopo · 07/07/2005 09:14

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PeachyClair · 07/07/2005 09:29

Just saw this thread for the first time. Unfortunately I went through something similar when I was 17 . I just wanted to say that you do learn to come wo terms with it, but it takes a time and you have to let yourself 'go through' stuff like nightmares to get out the other side- it's your mind and bodies way of handling it all.

Look after yourself and yours, thinking of you, remember you deserve only the best and no-one has a right to change that.

hellomama · 11/07/2005 10:16

hello JT. How has your weekend been? Have the homeopathic sleeping remeies been working? Sorry I haven't posted for ages. Think of you often though.

Aero · 11/07/2005 11:41

Just read this all through - (took ages) and want to add my support. Sorry to not have opened it earlier to add support ages ago. Hug too from me. Hope you can get some sleep soon.

JustThinking · 12/07/2005 22:40

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Mummyloves · 17/07/2005 00:31

Sweetheart, remember what i said, If you want me to put calls in for you, for what they may be worth, you've got my number. This is disgusting how you are being left in the dark and I'm getting as mad as you are about it. Call me again any time if you want. I still think you've got so much to be proud about. Keep going!!

colette · 25/07/2005 12:11

JT still thinking of you and hope things are improving( at least a tiny bit)

JustThinking · 27/07/2005 23:07

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JustThinking · 11/08/2005 13:59

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JustThinking · 12/08/2005 13:34

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munz · 12/08/2005 13:40

JT - how about for now u just get to know a man as a friend and see whta happens, if things work out and he's a true understanding gent he won't expect you to do anything u're not ready for. you set the rules hon.

(not read all the thread) but just a bit of 'general' advice.

JustThinking · 13/08/2005 14:03

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oops · 13/08/2005 14:40

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colette · 22/08/2005 21:04

Jt - hope you are getting on alright and sleeping better. I agree with munz it will have to be a very gradual thing , but I think this is often the best way. You deserve to have a new special relationship and it will happen when you are least expecting it. In the meantime look after yourself

JustThinking · 13/09/2005 17:38

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