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I’m so happy to finally not struggle I could cry.

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GratefulGreta · 23/09/2025 16:59

NC’d for this I have been a single parent…went through a messy divorce a while back. Met a new partner and we have finally bought a house together. Don’t worry everything is sorted legally etc!
my dc finally have their own rooms and a warm, non damp home.
I’m getting paid today and instead of scrambling and stretching after I have paid my half of bills and food, and saved a good amount I will have just under 2k left for the month! I actually don’t even know what to do with it! I have spent the last few months sorting out furniture etc for the dc’s rooms so it has been used up. But now that all of that is done I’m left with the reality of what Is left. I could actually cry. Just wanted to share my joy, not being goady at all, just wanted to share that things can change for the better is all. I never thought they would!

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Haggisfish3 · 23/09/2025 17:11

Yay! Delighted for you op.

WhattheFudgeareyouonabout · 23/09/2025 17:12

That’s amazing!! I hope you enjoy every moment ❤️❤️❤️

GratefulGreta · 23/09/2025 17:12

@Haggisfish3 thank you so much 🥹

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GratefulGreta · 23/09/2025 17:12

WhattheFudgeareyouonabout · 23/09/2025 17:12

That’s amazing!! I hope you enjoy every moment ❤️❤️❤️

This is a feeling I will never take for granted 😭

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Ihateboris · 23/09/2025 17:13

What a lovely post. Genuinely happy for you. Enjoy the cosiness and warmth of your new home x

ludicrouslycapaciousbags · 23/09/2025 17:14

Such a lovely post, happy new home 😊

DisplayPurposesOnly · 23/09/2025 17:14

Well done, that's excellent news.

(I still get excited that the cashpoint gives me money all month. I intend to always remain grateful every time.)

RuttleTuttle · 23/09/2025 17:15

That's lovely to read OP 😻

Now you can start thinking about Christmas, that will eat it all up 😆

Moveoverdarlin · 23/09/2025 17:15

So pleased for you. Treat yourself to something lovely. Xx

bigwhitedog · 23/09/2025 17:16

Well done! Enjoy this, you really deserve it. I'll never forget the day I got my first payslip after my apprenticeship. I bought myself a MAC lipstick and went home and turned the heating on 😂

GratefulGreta · 23/09/2025 17:17

RuttleTuttle · 23/09/2025 17:15

That's lovely to read OP 😻

Now you can start thinking about Christmas, that will eat it all up 😆

Oh god yes!! Christmas!! I will have to start soon, I can’t wait 😝

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GratefulGreta · 23/09/2025 17:18

bigwhitedog · 23/09/2025 17:16

Well done! Enjoy this, you really deserve it. I'll never forget the day I got my first payslip after my apprenticeship. I bought myself a MAC lipstick and went home and turned the heating on 😂

🤣 love it! I love MAC too! It’s been a LONG time! I always just browse longingly…but I may have to treat myself like a PP said!

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Indicateyourintentions · 23/09/2025 17:18

Treat yourself to a subscription to YNAB. It has a wonderful way of making sure everything is paid and lots of things saved get up for. Every week/month you have that same positive feeling that your finances are doing what they’re supposed to do.
well done for perseverance and keeping on keeping on.

GratefulGreta · 23/09/2025 17:20

Indicateyourintentions · 23/09/2025 17:18

Treat yourself to a subscription to YNAB. It has a wonderful way of making sure everything is paid and lots of things saved get up for. Every week/month you have that same positive feeling that your finances are doing what they’re supposed to do.
well done for perseverance and keeping on keeping on.

Oooh I will look into this. Right now I’m doing it all in my notes in my phone. It’s handy to have it all there at my fingertips! An app would be great 😊

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beansontoast85 · 23/09/2025 17:21

Ahhhh what a gorgeous post OP. I remember that feeling so well. There really is nothing like it. Wishing you and your children a very happy life in your new home ♥️ xx

ItsFineReally · 23/09/2025 17:23

What a lovely post! Enjoy your new home.

Motnight · 23/09/2025 17:24

That's brilliant, Op!

Happyholidays78 · 23/09/2025 17:25

I love this post & am so happy for you. You will never take it for granted ✨️

ArtesianWater · 23/09/2025 17:27

This is wonderful OP, congratulations!

If I were you I would spend a little bit of your new disposable income on a pizza and movie night with your kids in your cozy new home.

IceLollyMolly · 23/09/2025 17:28

Well done! Nice to read some joy for a change.

GratefulGreta · 23/09/2025 17:38

Thank you everyone, so so much, I was afraid it would sound boastful (and I would get slated) but I can’t share my joy too much with family. I’m so grateful and blessed. Thank you

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feathermucker · 23/09/2025 17:43

What a lovely thing to read ❤️

HateThursdays · 23/09/2025 17:43

Well done! It sounds like you’ve been through a lot and deserve every bit of your newfound peace of mind and happiness. Enjoy it and treat yourself as others have said.

CoralPombear · 23/09/2025 17:44

Congratulations! It’s a blessing not to have to worry about money.

Pineconesandpetals · 23/09/2025 17:47

Honestly? That is bloody fantastic! Good for you, enjoy 🥰🥰🥰