spongebobette I started to become miserable with it all. I was trying to get to manager and had a plan of contacting 5 people per day about the opportunity. Most ignored me or weren't interested. If they said no, I didn't want to pester them in a few months to see if they'd changed their mind (I was told to do this) put it in your diary to contact them again. *I didn't contact them again.
I developed a small team but you had to be positive about everything (spew problems upline not downline) Don't let your team see you're struggling. It felt so fake and I felt I had conned people afterwards (at the time I thought I was doing the right thing, I would be changing mine and their lives)
You attend online trainings and success days and spend money on travel and products for people to try. Oh and don't forget to be your best customer. It became exhausting and it was all I thought about. Oh and if you're out and about in town, don't forget you can approach people, giving them a compliment and connecting with them, (I only did this a couple of times and was genuine about what I'd said to them) but in the background you're hoping you can talk to them about the opportunity. It actually made me very miserable. Even my partner noticed a change in me.
When I realised I wasn't making money and actually losing it, trying to get my 4cc's to be paid on my team (don't forget you have to lead from the front, if you want your team to succeed and do 4cc's each month then you should be too) I knew I had to stop and take a step back.
I'd also been told in a roundabout way that it was all smoke and mirrors and it was like some of my upline only really spoke to me when I was doing 4cc's (don't get me wrong some of them are lovely but I wish I had know them away from FL)
I started to do a little google search and these threads popped up. I must look back and see when I first commented but pretty sure it was about thread 2 or 3? I also chatted a lot to 'the one who sees' and was great to get that side of things and see out of the FL fog.
What I hate reading on social media are the comments of people (within mlm) saying they don't understand how people lose money and if you follow the plan and don't give up you won't fail. That's just not true, no matter what they say