Along with seemingly dumping morality behind the goalposts, gotta, it's as if they're 'encouraged' to ignore all the small pointers of interpersonal behaviour.
If the average person, say, lives at 3 or 4 on a scale of 1-10 (a glance here, a suggestion there etc etc) these people blast in at 10. All the time. Most people become too tired to resist all this relentless attention.