More interesting info from everyone thank you.
What strikes me most is the amount of tangible information we're all able to find and debate compared with the utterly meaningless hot air spouted on various testimonial vids, "training days" etc, etc. I find it really hard to explain how confuzzled I feel after listening to the uber bots like James Lavelle and his "secrets of success". He just talks . . . . . about nothing really. Is it the tone of voice that's drawing people in? Body language? A kind of emperor new clothes; no one wants to be the first to say "you what mate?"
And they all say the same stuff. Here's one of Lavelle's compadres:
www.facebook.com/NTWKMRKTREV/?pnref=lhc
Yesterday I was approached by an ex-JP, now Ariix bot, at a popular location for parents to drink coffee whilst their children rampage (!) I vaguely know her, our children will be the same school year. It was a rushed, one-sided conversation as she obviously wanted to get to the good bit of the script "not long til your child start's school - how do you feel about that"
I think it was in the last thread that an ex-mlm'er revealed that all recruitment should heavily feature the "feels". Unfortunately for her I replied that I couldn't bloody wait.
I really would like to go to one of these Ariix events in a big posse that includes an accountant, a trading standards officer and Derren Brown.
More info on Ariix. Dr Fred Cooper, one of the founders also created and founded a company that sells software for "direct selling" iCentris:
www.icentris.com/blog/
Tim Sales, another of the Ariix founders has the Brilliant Compensation a DVD to give to those harshing your mlm squee; apparently its "A 100% No-Hype, Logical Explanation of the Network Marketing Industry" 
^What If You Could Silence Those “Pyramid Scheme” Objections… Once and For All?
Whether you like it or not, a lot of your prospects misunderstand what network marketing is all about.
And when they find out your “incredible opportunity” is one of those “multi-level deals” they cover their ears. They run for the hills… and don’t give you the time of day. They tune you out completely.
It’s tough to have your dream stomped on time and time again by “well-meaning” friends and family without taking it to heart.
And what if you are a “grizzled veteran” of MLM, “impervious” to these annoying objections? Well, there are likely hundreds, maybe even thousands of people in your downline who are nowhere near as thick-skinned as you.
What If You Could Silence Those “Pyramid Scheme” Objections… Once and For All?^
firstclassmlmtools.com/portfolio-item/tim-sales-introduces-brilliant-compensation/
If you have a stiff drink handy it's worth watching the embedded clip at the top of the linked page.
That was a long post, I'm really pissed off about all this, thank you for reading. 