Meet the Other Phone. Protection built in.

Meet the Other Phone.
Protection built in.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Money matters

Find financial and money-saving discussions including debt and pension chat on our Money forum. If you're looking for ways to make your money to go further, sign up to our Moneysaver emails here.

See all MNHQ comments on this thread

Broke for a month

437 replies

Temporarilyskint · 11/11/2015 21:05

i know the way these threads can go - I am not asking for money and while I think it is incredibly sweet when people offer I won't accept

Sorry for above disclaimer.

Have namechanged as I'm a bit embarrassed and my ex stalks me on here.

We've no money. Well, £40. That's to get through to the end of the month.

We have no oven, or microwave. We do have a toaster.

No access to credit.

Fuel costs are high due to having to take my son to school. Not sure if there's a way around this. (He will hopefully be starting at a new school which is local in 2016 but for now it's tough.)

Fussy cats need food.

Argh. I am partly posting for advice, and also partly for emotional sounding off as I'm fed up of thinking about money.

OP posts:
AndNowItsSeven · 12/11/2015 20:00

Leaving tax credits are NOT affected by savings . Only the interest above £300 on savings is counted.

KatharineClifton · 12/11/2015 20:01

Jeez, some people here are too thick to see past their envy. so what if the OP has 20 houses, they do not mean she has money HERE AND NOW.

She does however have problems HERE AND NOW, like many others on MN and like all those others she is posting here. She said it is temporary and she said she didn't want anybody offering half of nothing etc.

I don't own a house, I don't pay a mortgage or have any equity in anything. But FFS, have a bit of heart!

NotTheSpiceOfLife · 12/11/2015 20:04

It's not envy KatharineClinton - I'm not a liar, and if I wasn't compassionate, I wouldn't have tried to help either, would I? Hmm

Leavingsosoon · 12/11/2015 20:05

Nor have I lied.

TheOnlyOliviaMumsnet · 12/11/2015 20:05

Just a reminder that much as Mumsnet's raison d'être is to make lives easier,
we do advise all our members to be aware that not everyone on t'internet is who they say they are, and that, although we're awed daily by the astonishing support our members give each other through life's trickier twists and turns, we'd always caution anyone never to give more of themselves to another poster, emotionally or financially, than they can afford to spare.

PEACE AND LOVE

mummypig3 · 12/11/2015 20:06

How can they diagnose the fault without coming out to look at it? It sounds dangerous and I would want it sorted asap? Can you borrow the money or ask the bank for an overdraft?

Leavingsosoon · 12/11/2015 20:08

I'm just repeating what they said over the phone and in fairness it's worked.

Thanks Olivia - I've requested the thread be locked or deleted if possible.

NotTheSpiceOfLife · 12/11/2015 20:08

You lied by omission, as well you know. And now it appears that you are a PBP too. It doesn't matter that you said from the beginning that you weren't begging. It doesn't matter that you haven't taken anything from anyone.

What matters is that you presented your situation dishonestly and have been uncovered - and now, you're shouting at people in a horrible aggressive manner, and telling people that offered help to fuck off. The absolute fucking cheek of you.

Maryz · 12/11/2015 20:09

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

PurpleHairAndPearls · 12/11/2015 20:09

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

Maryz · 12/11/2015 20:10

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Maryz · 12/11/2015 20:11

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Leavingsosoon · 12/11/2015 20:12

Maryz, I plan to, mostly, but I do feel embarrassed, rightly or wrongly, when its financial fuck ups and believe me I am WELL aware I am rubbished with money.

Think about it - you all recognise me; so do people from real life - none that I know of bar one and I trust her implicitly - but it's embarrassing. And plus I really don't want X giving me grief.

You mention an inheritance especially the one I have and people know you, recognise you - my circumstances are unusual and I tried to be a bit vague because I didn't want 'outing.'

I respect you don't name change but you do understand why people do?

ThroughThickAndThin01 · 12/11/2015 20:13

So, all bollocks.

Luxyelectro · 12/11/2015 20:13

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Leavingsosoon · 12/11/2015 20:14

Yes, I've been banned, because mumsnet thought I was lying.

I have explained to mumsnet in an email - they are fine with me being back (I assume.)

The only reason I wanted this thread deleted is I hate arguing. It's actually really upset me today - pathetic I know but it has - but that argument has been because of you purple and you do this a lot. You know you do, and you know you tried to befriend me under a name change when you'd previously been vile about me, you know you did. I've never done that. So don't act like you're so superior.

usual · 12/11/2015 20:15

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Leavingsosoon · 12/11/2015 20:15

Thanks usual

Thank you so much

ThroughThickAndThin01 · 12/11/2015 20:15

All bollocks op. You should be ashamed of drawing posters in.

Leavingsosoon · 12/11/2015 20:16

I have not 'drawn anyone in' - maybe you should be ashamed of not bothering to read my posts?

NotTheSpiceOfLife · 12/11/2015 20:16

I don't think it should be deleted either. At least if it stays we have the full story next time. Well, ish.

Leavingsosoon · 12/11/2015 20:18

Well don't delete it then. I only asked because I am sick sick sick of arguing when i needed a bit of help, got a bit of help - but somehow it wasn't enough for the posters who wanted a Victorian tragedy complete with barefoot limping and ragged clothes.

Maryz · 12/11/2015 20:19

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

ThroughThickAndThin01 · 12/11/2015 20:19

You know, people, don't bloody well offer randoms on the internet money

Amen to that.

Tis a total scam 99% of the time.,

atticusclaw2 · 12/11/2015 20:19

Erm, you were being given practical advice about how to get your electrics fixed. You were the one who started a long story about two people having a baby in 1978..