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Recurrent Miscarriage Support Thread 28 - Tests, Treatments, Trying again, Trying to stay sane and most of all TREMENDOUS support!

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Kazz2112 · 19/07/2015 12:24

Tea, hugs, a wealth of collective knowledge and lots of hand holding as we try again. This thread moves like lightning so hold on to your hats!

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twilightstruggle · 30/07/2015 09:18

Absolutely massive good luck vibes to you Barking - willing little embie to do well. Xx

twilightstruggle · 30/07/2015 09:19

Just had a little scroll down. Massive luck to those having scans too. Virtual hand hold.

mrsdiddlydoo · 30/07/2015 09:24

Hand holding and rooting for you barking

freckle the dummy fairy came to ours last week and we're surviving somehow mainly by dh taking over bedtimes or I'd probably have given it back by now

Scan's at 11. I swear time has stopped. Good luck to all the other ladies with them today

And v pleased you booked another mrsC

barkingtreefrog · 30/07/2015 09:28

The embryo didn't make it. In my head I'm trying to stop myself using the word 'died'.

The second (final) embryo has been taken out and is okay to go in. She said I should take the progesterone 4 hours before transfer. I pointed out that transfer is in 3 hours. So she said bring it with me and put it in straight after. I might ask for a second opinion when I get to the hospital.

Well, if nothing else I know that I won't be going straight into the next frozen cycle if this one fails...

Fuck. Could really do with DH being here right now. Trying to control the tears because it's Thursday so the cleaner is here... Not succeeding very well.

cloudjumper · 30/07/2015 09:33

Just popping in quickly to with barking good luck with all my heart! So wishing that this will work out for you xxx

MrsD march bumble All the best for your scan today! Keep the good news coming on this thread!

Sorry if I have missed anyone, but I am rooting for you all xxx

Sunandrainbow · 30/07/2015 09:33

Oh barking - so sorry to hear that. But very relieved to hear that the other one is good to go. Best of luck for the transfer. xxx

cloudjumper · 30/07/2015 09:36

barking Deep breaths. You can do this. Have a hand-hold xxx

BumbleBee0 · 30/07/2015 09:41

barking sorry the first embie didn't make it but great news that the second one did. Could you lock yourself away in a room or in the car to have a good cry? You can do this barking, we're all rooting for you. X

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Kazz2112 · 30/07/2015 09:42

You can do this Barking. Sending massive hugs! We're all in a massive crowd behind you. Be strong.xxxxx

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Minnie74 · 30/07/2015 09:56

Popping in to hand hold barking willing it on with all my heart x

Good luck to all with scans today- more handholding

Last day of hols today so will try to catch up when we're home xx

Justonemoretime · 30/07/2015 10:04

Barking, fingers and toes crossed for you.
Good luck to all those with scans today.
just waiting at the children's hospital for Scott's blood test appointment, which he has to have because he was prem. Hopefully he'll be signed off from the hospital after this. 12 week jabs next week... the needles never end!

girliesaints · 30/07/2015 10:05

Big hugs and deep breaths Barking. We're all rooting for you x

mrsdiddlydoo · 30/07/2015 10:05

I know we're no real substitute for dh barking but we're here. Hand holding. Hug holding. Sod the cleaner. A good cry might help. You're still not out even though the odds feel against you. Xx xx

twilightstruggle · 30/07/2015 10:15

Massive hugs Barking. Xx

Marchgirl · 30/07/2015 10:53

Massive hugs barking. So sorry the first one didn't make it but glad you have the second one to go in. Wish we could be there with you to give you a hug. Best of luck for later xx

Good news from me. There was a small blob with a heartbeat! So relieved but somehow still feels like an anticlimax. (As you said, flen, like there is just more to lose). Also a big haematoma, which is worrying me. Obv she brushed it off as no issue, but i know it can be. Appt for heparin tomorrow.

bythesea82 · 30/07/2015 10:58

barking sorry the first didn't make it but glad the 2nd is going in. Huge hugs to you. What a mad emotional time for you. Just think of it like cycling up mountains, ups and downs but just keep peddling. You can do this!!!

march phew, I know harmatoma can be scary but often fine. You are over the first hurdle!

Frecklefire · 30/07/2015 10:59

I went for a shower and things Progressed massively barking**. So sorry the first didn't make it Sad. My heart jumped into my mouth - have a massive hug love xxxxxxxx. So difficult that you have to make these decisions for the both of you. But i think you've done the right thing. In for a penny, in for a pound. Go for it. Have another hug - xxxxxxx

Frecklefire · 30/07/2015 11:01

Good news march, very happy for you! Remember bumble had the same thing and two weeks later the blood was gone? I know you'll never feel safe, but i am very glad that today you are pregnant! Xxxxxxx

Fucking YESSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!

BumbleBee0 · 30/07/2015 11:05

Great news march Smile From what I've read about haematomas, the positioning is quite important and it can often pose little or no risk to the baby. If the sonographer didn't seem concerned then I would take comfort from this. If it posed a risk, they would have to tell you. Well done for getting through the scan. When is your next one?

BumbleBee0 · 30/07/2015 11:07

Yes freckle I had one too and it had gone 2 weeks later. I don't think it matters whether it is reabsorbed or bleeds out, but obviously the latter must be quite scary.

fififolle · 30/07/2015 11:13

Great news march Smile
Keeping everything crossed for you Barking.

Flen · 30/07/2015 11:22

march I am so glad for you! I have been having exactly that anticlimax feeling since yesterday, had a bit of a sob this morning as the feelings flood in of what I might lose... Very much today we are pregnant.

barking so sorry to read about your first embryo, like freckle, my heart sank. But glad to hear there's another little guy to try. Huge hugs and handholding xx

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cloudjumper · 30/07/2015 11:32

Yay march! One milestone passed!
I agree that if the sonographer is not worried about the haematoma, then that's a good sign. Also that they are going to give you the heparin - they wouldn't do that if it posed a risk.

Hoping for more good scan news!

Homeboddy49 · 30/07/2015 11:47

Hello ladies

Can I come and gate crash?
I've been reading these threads for a long time over the past 6 months and would love to get involved.

A brief history is I've had 3 miscarriages, I am 35 and I am waiting to have my initial appt in Bristol with Dr Cahill.
I am writing today because I am so sad that my appt has just been cancelled for the 2nd time. My last miscarriage was in April and now the appt has been rescheduled again for the 2nd time and has moved to the end of August.

Has anyone else been to Dr Cahill? I don't know if we are meant to be ttc at the moment or not, we haven't been given any info. I feel totally let down by the NHS but numerous reasons and just want to cry my eyes out.
I have had a letter in the post that they found chromosome abnormalities with my last miscarriage but I can't talk to anyone about what that means because they keep cancelling the appt.
sorry to dump this all on you when everyone is having their own traumas but only you know how it feels.

Lots of hugs to everyone today xxx

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