Recurrent Miscarriage Support Thread 27 - Tests, Treatments and Trying Again

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Tea, hugs, a wealth of collective knowledge and lots of hand holding as we try again. This thread moves like lightning so hold on to your hats!
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Thinking if you today flen, good luck! x

Emerald I think it's really difficult for people to say the 'right' thing because we all react differently. And sometimes it's not what they say at all, it's what they don't say, their attitude or what we interpret their attitude to be. I don't notice words so much but I'm hyper-sensitive to people thinking I shouldn't try again.

Flen good luck for later.

flen, big hand hold and everything crossed for you xx

Thinking of you flen, have everything crossed for you.

loopy think I missed your BFP announcement - congratulations! Hope this is the one for you.

Hugs to those struggling at the moment xxx

Hand hold today Flen xxx

Glad you've got the injections started loopy, even if it was a bit ouchy. I think someone mentioned injecting without pinching too (can't remember who. Maybe baking?), so might be worth trying different methods. Hopefully you'll get the hang of it soon (or dh will). I know what you mean about feeling conflicted. I felt so positive about this one at the start, it felt really strong and totally different to the last one, but then had a real panic last night as sore/enlarged boobs and bloating have gone and was convinced it was all over again. I'm now swinging between positive and negative thoughts (mostly negative).

Not mentioned the spotting to dh yet as I don't want him to think I'm not coping in case he bans me from trying again if this one doesn't work out.

Was thinking of going back to the response trial if this one fails, but as the closing date is now 1st Oct that doesn't leave me much time. Too much thinking!

How is the spotting today march?

Thinking of you flen, good luck for 2pm. Bleeds can settle and be ok so I'll keep hopeful for you while you do whatever you need to get through the day.

It's stopped again thankfully flen, but the pattern last 2 days has been afternoon/evening, so have to wait and see. Hoping the prog will calm it down or might just mask impending mc

Good luck for today Flen I have always hated afternoon scans. The day seems to drag. Keeping everything crossed for some positive news for you

Just come back from DS's sports day and it was so hilarious. He was like one of the riderless horses you see running alongside the others in the Grand National. I had to work so hard to make sure he didn't get in the way and spoil the races, he just had the best time though

Good luck Flen!!!

My lunching ladies, I've pm'd you all

Oh and it's properly kicking off on the Feb thread again!!!!

Posts getting reported and everything!!!!

And it's nowt to do with me this time makes a change

Sebs Lol watching school sports day is so much fun! xx

Good luck for later Flen

Loopy thank you, I'll look out for them now I know. Wishing you lots of luck for this one, hope the clexane will help.

Biscuits that's so true, it's often worse if they don't say anything at all like they haven't acknowledged it. They probably can't win whatever they do. I also feel sometimes that they think I should give up now.

March where is the response trial? Glad spotting has slowed again and hope no af today.

Brummie ooh what's the feb thread?!

Hah Emerald it's the February ante natal thread.

It's bat shit bonkers on there. All the other ante natal threads everyone is happily discussing babies, pregnancy etc.

February 2016 you don a hard hat! There were actually comments on the TTC threads about not wanting to join the Feb thread because it's so mental

It's not me I promise!!!! this time

Response trial is testing out the drug nt100 emerald, which i think is another immune modulator. It's already been trialed for ivf with promising results. It's running at various locations around the country, but this phase of the trial closes 1st October. Entry criteria are 3 mc, 37 or under and max bmi limit (can't remember what it is). I gather there will be phase 3 trials which might have broader entry criteria and more patients, so keep an eye out for the phase 2 results and start of phase3

Is it purdie causing trouble again brummie?!

freckle tantrum away. One thing, I am wondering if you are of irish extraction? Some of your language made me think that. I am pretty sure that my babby was as a result of the 5000 or do candles I have lit in churches across the globe. I literally could not pass one without popping in. Drove my dp nuts! turns out the catholic in me dies hard.
If you ladies want some light relief, I managed to leave the house with my right tit hanging out yesterday. Thankfully I noticed and stowed it away before I got to waitrose.

flen everything crossed for you today lady.
march glad the spotting has settled. Long may it last.

Belle me too, was in Jersey a couple of months ago, sat on the beach in St Brelades Bay and noticed a quaint little church on the bay, went over for a walk (gorgeous fisherman's chapel) my DH and I almost lit up the chapel with our candles!! lol!

Thinking of you today flen

March that is exactly who is causing trouble.

When MNHQ have to delete posts on an ante - natal thread you know it's all going a bit bonkers

I've just had a look on the Feb thread and it always seems to be the same person causing problems. Why doesn't she just wind her neck in and stop podding people off. It's an Ante Natal thread FFS not AIBU!!