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Recurrent Miscarriage Support Thread 26 - tests, treatment and trying again

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bythesea82 · 17/06/2015 14:40

Tea, hugs, a wealth of collective knowledge and lots of hand holding as we try again. This thread moves like lightning so hold on to your hats!
Previous thread here

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Kazz2112 · 23/06/2015 06:44

Good luck to all you lovely scan people today!

sebsmummy1 · 23/06/2015 06:49

Good luck girls, everything crossed for you xxx

Marchgirl · 23/06/2015 07:06

Forgot to say good luck to bootles for the scan today lovely. Keeping everything crossed for some peace of mind for you

And good luck once again for little and erica

Erica21 · 23/06/2015 07:11

Thanks ladies, good luck for you too bootles - will be filling my morning with food shopping to attempt to keep sane Hmm x

Minnie74 · 23/06/2015 07:18

Good luck to all the scanners today xx

Floweroct · 23/06/2015 07:31

Good luck with the scans x

bootles · 23/06/2015 07:40

Thanks all. Bricking it. But also feeling very sick and exhausted the last few days which gives me some hope, but hope its not false hope... Think I should get checked for the green cm in case of infection, and the pink for obvious reasons.

Erica and bear big hand holds for you both.

gemma not sure if I welcomed you, sorry for your losses and I hope you find us helpful.

bootles · 23/06/2015 07:46

Good news on the in-laws flen, everything crossed for you for this month

mrsconfusion if you have had a previous ectopic, the 10th July sounds like a while to wait for a location scan? It must be an added fear into the awfulness of RMC, to be thinking about ectopics. Could you push for an earlier scan?

bumblebee glad you got your meds. I hope you find the pred OK, it does make me feel a bit funny at times but its hard to separate what is general anxiety and what is a side effect.

Sunandrainbow · 23/06/2015 08:28

Good luck today for everyone with scans. Keeping fingers crossed for lots of good news. x

longestlurkerever · 23/06/2015 08:47

Good luck everyone! Xx

SashaKerr · 23/06/2015 09:25

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Marchgirl · 23/06/2015 09:30

Not me. Still only cd7 Sad. Maybe tomorrow sasha, there is still time.

Lovemylittlebear · 23/06/2015 09:46

Scan went well, good luck everyone else today x

OneStep2015 · 23/06/2015 09:49

Great news Littlebear. X

Marchgirl · 23/06/2015 09:50

Brilliant little! Star

OneStep2015 · 23/06/2015 09:52

Well this mc#4 is the slowest yet, at least the pain up the bum is easing now when I cough or sit down. That was like getting an electric shock every time I sneezed, coughed or sat down. Body is very slow to let this one go...

Flen · 23/06/2015 10:23

sasha hugs hugs hugs. I'm 8dpo tiday, testing on Sat. Also got sore boobs but had that for last two months too so not holding out too much hope... Man, it just sucks doesn't it?

Flen · 23/06/2015 10:24

Thinking of you bootles and those of you having scans today...

bythesea82 · 23/06/2015 10:38

Great news little Smile

2ww is utterly crap and horrible and soul destroying. Flowers for those in it. sasha sorry for bfn.

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barkingtreefrog · 23/06/2015 11:47

bythesea one positive about infertility (always find a bright side...) is that my expectations of a bfp in any normal cycle are greatly reduced, so although I'm gutted I haven't got pg each time AF arrives, it's not the crushing disappointment that I experienced for the first two years when I had more hope it could still happen!

I'm still not in the 2ww as I'm on cd19 and no signs of Ov, not even a faint line on an opk yet...

onestep so sorry this is still dragging out. My 1st mc was still going for 7 weeks, it was hideous as I didn't feel I could move on at all. I was bleeding on and off for longer than I was pg!!

That Tommy's story made me choke up! My friend had similar after a still birth, she 'knew' something wasn't right at the end of her pregnancy and shouted and screamed until they did a c section. They found that if they'd left it until the next day she would have lost it.

Great news little!!!

Good luck Erica and bootles

freckle that sounds lovely, all of my 'home' friends moved away, as did I, so there's no one to visit when I go to see my parents. My old room was no longer mine as soon as I left for uni - my younger brother moved straight into it and anything left behind he put in a bin bag within hours of me leaving the house!!!

On my break so don't have time to do a mammoth catch up, but I read up to date last night, just fell asleep before I could post.... Will continue later!!!

MrsConfusion · 23/06/2015 11:54

Great news little

Thinking of you erica and bootles

Sasha hugs, and to all others in 2ww stresses and anxiety and disappointment. flen it may be wrong but I'm relieved your in laws have cancelled so you have one less thing on your plate.

sasha I know exactly what you mean about not being able to 'read' your body any more. I'm the same - on/off nausea for months and since the ectopic surgery in March I have so much more abdominal pain/twinges that I just don't know what means what - or what to worry about. I think my body and I need some relationship counselling.....

bootles · 23/06/2015 13:17

Great news littlebear !

The stillbirth stories are frightening. To have 16 mc, and a stillbirth is utterly horrific. The message clearly being to listen to your body.

Scan went well! Measuring 9 weeks (meaning it has gained a day as by last scan I would be 8+6). No signs of anything causing the pink cm, and they weren't concerned about the green. So that will calm me for an hour.

bakingtins · 23/06/2015 13:29

Yay littlebear and bootles Smile great news!

mrsdiddlydoo · 23/06/2015 13:36

Hooray little and bootles!!