Hi all, sorry but I am struggling to keep up with the pace of this thread, wish I had time to read back and name check.
So my appt has come through for Mr Watts at Worcester, for 9th March. Have had blood tests done last week at my GP. The haem hbac1, tsh and clotting have come back normal. Am waiting for 3 more test results. I have long cycles. Based on cervical mucus I think I might be about to ovulate any day, after the last mc in mid jan. So if I were to get a BFP in this cycle, that would put me at 5 - 5 1/2 weeks at the appointment date. Which means if it is destined to be another early miscarriage, i may already know if it's a mc by then in which case I can plough on with whatever the consultant suggests, which won't be until next ovulation which would be April. Or it might just be ok and be a good luck sticky bean and no need to pursue investigations. With my age, and long cycles, I'm thinking that ttc this cycle isn't crazy but not sure if my logic is right, what do others think? We had sex last night, so there is a chance of BFP.
I can't help thinking I would be ideal for the Coventry clinic as I don't have any issue in getting pregnant. 5 pregnancies, all conceived first month of trying, but the last 3 ended in mc. So maybe the next one might be an egg that my body should be allowing to implant as after 3 bad ones the next one will be a good one? And can't shake that I keep reading comments that people have increased chances of a good pregnancy in the 3 months post cm and I don't want to waste those 3 months if it's true...as I MC in jan, could conceive Feb, and if I don't try/don't get BFP, I won't ov again until April which is the third month. Although I also read you don't always ovulate the first cycle after a MC? So much confusing data.
And for Coventry they wouldn't see me until after second cycle post cm I believe? So not until sometime in April or early May which feels so long away...so kind of thinking we have one shot at it, which shouldn't really affect the consultants appointment, as if no BFP or if MC then appointment goes ahead, if BFP then can monitor it and would they give progesterone or do you need it earlier? The nurse I saw after the MC scan wasn't sure re progesterone, she said that they had been prescribing it but that they think the new/recent research shows it has little benefit to people?
Sorry for poorly constructed ramblings, have no one to talk to in RL and DH just doesn't get involved, he thinks we have had 2 children and it will just happen if it's meant to be, and whilst he is onboard with ttc, if we only have two then so be it, he isn't as emotionally affected as I am. He is an only child and he just thinks they each have a sibling and it's not the end of the world if there isn't any more, but it is to me!