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Recurrent Miscarriage Support Thread - Thread 17 - Tests, treatment and trying again

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Flower29 · 05/02/2015 12:28

Information, support, hand holding, tea, sympathy and a hell of a lot of combined knowledge - all welcome as we try to make sense of the RMC roller coaster of tests, NHS admin, heart ache and (hopefully) happy endings!
Please start with a recap of your stats Smile

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bythesea82 · 16/02/2015 09:35

cat & boozle good luck today! Hospital called at 10:30 last night to change scan to 2:50 so more waiting here.
purple & march hope work is ok today.
baking have you seen anyone more helpful yet?

bythesea82 · 16/02/2015 09:37

ourday glad they have agreed to scan you on weds, hoping it's just tailing off of symptoms x

ourdaywillcome1983 · 16/02/2015 09:39

Thanks bythesea fingers crossed x

twilightstruggle · 16/02/2015 10:34

Massive luck and hand holding being sent for today's scans. Xxx

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Flower29 · 16/02/2015 12:34

Good luck for wed ourday, how far on are you again?

[currently sat hitting refresh for scan updates Smile]

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cloudjumper · 16/02/2015 12:38

Good luck for all of you having scans today, I'm thinking of you!

ourdaywillcome1983 · 16/02/2015 12:49

Thank you flower Im 10+5 by my LMP dates but I'm 11+1 by the 10 week scan date. I feel very rough today, think i might have prematurely panicked on the not feeling as rubbish. Might have been given a break for a few days?

I am also frantically refreshing the screen!

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Flower29 · 16/02/2015 12:59

ourday I'm sure the random symptoms don't mean anything untoward but I can understand why it would cause worry, sure id be the same. Hopefully your scan will put you at ease until your 12 week one. X

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ourdaywillcome1983 · 16/02/2015 13:18

Thank you flower i wish i had a little window inside to see whats happening - i know we would all have that if we could though x

Catlover2014 · 16/02/2015 13:19

Thank you all for your kind messages of support, means such a lot.

20 week scan went well, baby looked to be in good form and it's a boy!!!

Waiting to hear you're ok Boozle and Sea xxx

Flen · 16/02/2015 13:21

cat that is ace news! Hooray!

Justonemoretime · 16/02/2015 13:22

Cat, lovely news! Yay team blue!!

bythesea82 · 16/02/2015 13:22

cat great news! That's really lovely news, bet you can't stop smiling Grin

Marchgirl · 16/02/2015 13:22

Brilliant news cat! So happy to hear all is well and glad they were able to tell you the sex. Is that your last scan or will you book an extra one later on?

barkingtreefrog · 16/02/2015 13:25

You've done it cat all those scan milestones! Grin.

Were the other scans all this afternoon?

ourdaywillcome1983 · 16/02/2015 13:26

Yay Cat woooohoooooo so happy for you! And yours and hubbys hunch was right!

TinyTear · 16/02/2015 13:30

hooray CAt!!!

Catlover2014 · 16/02/2015 13:39

Thank you all so much!!! I honestly couldn't have got through this last year without all your warmth, care and support.

All of you who are currently struggling (be it with infertility, mc or both) please don't please give up. I think better things are ahead for all you lovelies.

Good luck Boozle and Sea!

xx

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Flower29 · 16/02/2015 13:39

Yey cat!!! Grin

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barkingtreefrog · 16/02/2015 13:41

Oh, and to those who I was talking to about the Mind/Body connection book - I managed to get DH to read some of it and he's up for finding someone I can go to. There's actually a hypnotherapist at the practise I go to for acupuncture, but he does 90 minute sessions that cost £90 Shock . Yet more money to throw at this... Another one I found charges £60 an hour, so it's essentially the same cost. Shock
I should retrain..... There's obviously a lot of money in this!! The acupuncturist doesn't charge that much and she has to buy her needles!

longestlurkerever · 16/02/2015 13:41

Great news cat - am welling up for you! Congratulations on your lovely boy! I really hope you can let yourself feel a bit excited now. Have you been thinking about names and things?

Fingers crossed for the other scans. xx

longestlurkerever · 16/02/2015 13:43

Cat - wooooo! Welling up for you. Congratulations on your lovely boy. I hope you can start letting yourself feel excited now. Have you thought about names and things?

Fingers still firmly crossed for more good scan news. x

Brummiegirl15 · 16/02/2015 14:03

Ahhh Cat - on team blue!! That is wonderful news!!!!! So bloody chuffed for you.

Boozle and Bythsea thinking of you both too and anyone else with imminent scans....

This time next week I'll be in my consultants appointment - and it cannot come soon enough!!!!!!

I am dying to start ttc'ing again

tannyLoo · 16/02/2015 14:29

Cat, you said you thought it was a boy! Wonderful news! I can't believe it's 20 weeks already, it's a lovely feeling to get that far, isn't it?

C'mon you other scanners... (pompoms at the ready)

Catlover2014 · 16/02/2015 14:44

Thanks again all, it is exciting.

Brummie glad it's not too long away now, the waiting is just the worst part. Hopefully you'll get good treatment and support plans put in place to ensure your next BFP become a super sticky one.

x