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Recurrent Miscarriage Support thread 14 - tests, treatment, trying again

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Justonemoretime · 29/11/2014 17:38

Information, support, hand holding, tea, sympathy and a hell of a lot of combined knowledge - all welcome as we try to make sense of the RMC roller coaster of tests, NHS admin, heart ache and (hopefully) happy endings!
Please start with a recap of your stats :)

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Flen · 29/12/2014 07:24

bootles hope it goes smoothly today, thinking of you and, like the others, completely identify with the "maybe" magical thoughts. A scan for confirmation sounds like a good idea if you can request it. Lots of hugs.

TinyTear · 29/12/2014 08:35

Bootles good luck today. Holding your hand x

March, I took it for 7 days, got BFP, stopped, AF arrived in a day or two...

Daisybell1 · 29/12/2014 08:43

Thinking of you today Bootles. Think you're def right to ask for a scan, particularly if only one person was scanning you last time. Protocol is at least 2 people to confirm.

Hope they can fit you in swiftly.

tannyLoo · 29/12/2014 09:06

Bootles, thinking of you today x

cloudjumper · 29/12/2014 09:16

Bootles - thinking of you today, hope it all goes as smoothly as possible. Sending hugs xx

girliesaints · 29/12/2014 09:25

Thinking of you Bootles today x

mrsdiddlydoo · 29/12/2014 09:34

Hope it goes ok today bootles. Thinking of you x

bootles · 29/12/2014 10:13

Waiting to be seen now. Seriously how much time have I spent in this epu in the last 2 1/2 years..days probably. No march OH is looking after DS, I'm ok being alone though. God its busy..in for a long wait.

Marchgirl · 29/12/2014 10:15

So sorry you have to be alone for this Sad. Hand holding

bakingtins · 29/12/2014 10:36

Sorry you are alone bootles we are all thinking of you. Flowers

tannyLoo · 29/12/2014 12:00

Bootles, I hope you're getting seen. Sorry it's such a busy time there, and it makes me sad to think of all the anxious women there with you.

I'm trying and utterly failing to work from home today. Don't know if I'm ready to be back but we desperately need the money. Thinking I might have to bite the bullet and call it quits til next week...

longestlurkerever · 29/12/2014 13:03

Hand hold from me as well bootles. Hope you have been seen by now.

Sacking off work sounds right to me tanny. If I remember correctly yours is not a job where you can just lie low and have a quiet day x

Belleende · 29/12/2014 15:19

Hope they have managed to get you in bootles. Thinking of you.

tannyLoo · 29/12/2014 15:26

No, it's no good. I've given up and am watching shit films and eating chocolate.

Just checking in for signs of Bootles, I'm hoping that no update means you got the erpc sorted and you'll be able to start the recovery process. Sorry you've been on your own...

Purplefrogshoes · 29/12/2014 15:27

Thinking of you bootles

barkingtreefrog · 29/12/2014 15:32

Just checking to see if bootles had been in. Sorry you're on your own, have another mn hand to hold.

bythesea82 · 29/12/2014 20:05

bootles hope you're ok as can be xxx

bootles · 29/12/2014 20:25

Still here. ERPC over. It was delayed as the op before me took more time than expected. Been home about an hour. So all day to sit and think which wasn't great. Managed to act like a needy fool and cry over every person who spoke to me but what the hell, it helped at the time.

Relieved its over. Feel empty and sad now, but physically fine. Got signed off for work for two weeks.

Marchgirl · 29/12/2014 20:31

So so sorry bootles. Take all the time you need and we're here for you all the way Flowers

bythesea82 · 29/12/2014 20:33

bootles glad it's done and you're physically ok. Huge hugs, wish you weren't having this all over again, thinking of you Flowers x

barkingtreefrog · 29/12/2014 20:45

Glad you're home bootles, but sorry it took so long. Crying is good, better to get it all out. Nothing they won't be used to anyway. Take care Thanks.

tannyLoo · 29/12/2014 21:06

Glad it's over, if that's an OK thing to think.

Yes, crying all over nurses is something I'm a past master at, I'm sure they won't have minded.

I hope you sleep well tonight and are able to get some rest.

Huge hugs from me too x

longestlurkerever · 29/12/2014 21:33

Hugs bootles. Look after yourself. Glad you have been signed off. Xxx

girliesaints · 29/12/2014 21:37

Big hugs Bootles x

Justonemoretime · 29/12/2014 21:38

Bootles, wishing you a speedy physical recovery, and take all the time you need. Thinking of you. x

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