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Recurrent Miscarriage Testing, trials and tribulations...Part 7!

987 replies

squizita · 07/06/2013 19:04

Hi all, carrying on from part 6. All kinicker-checkers, blood-testers, clinic-attenders and finger-crossers welcome. Nothing but love and crossed fingers...

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butterfly86 · 23/10/2013 12:54

I know Baking I'm just so paranoid I had geared myself up for when I fell pregnant and thought I was going to be all laid back about it...no chance! Im constantly checking for blood my cm has been ever so slightly brown on and off I wouldn't notice if I wasnt scrutinising the paper I hope it doesn't end up a chemical and af just arrives a day or 2 late :( I've rang the hospital this morning the secretary was going to speak to the consultant and ring me back.

butterfly86 · 24/10/2013 10:07

Morning everyone :) the consultants secretary rang me this morn I have a scan on 8th of nov which is 2 weeks tomorrow I'll be 7 weeks by then but I'm fine with that actually, there was no mention of progesterone so I asked her and she said oh the doctor hasn't mentioned that in her note and I can't speak to her because she works at a private hospital on a thursday so will have to. ask her tomorrow. Im really anxious to get it started I hope I can pick some up tomorrow I'm annoyed that I'm. having to wait for it!

nearlyreadytopop · 24/10/2013 10:15

baking today is scan day? if so hope it all goes well.

butterfly86 · 24/10/2013 10:27

Good look for today Baking what time is your scan?

Bakingtins · 24/10/2013 10:29

Thanks. Scan is at 2.15 - will know in 4 hours....

Purplefrogshoe · 24/10/2013 10:34

Thinking of you baking

TinyTear · 24/10/2013 10:37

Good luck! Fingers crossed!

TinyTear · 24/10/2013 13:53

AIBU to really get pissed off at people going on about oooo do I TTC now or wait one month, I don't want an August baby, oh they will be behind in school, oh dear

Fuck the fuck off for a) think you will conceive straight away and b) thinking that a BFP means a baby at the end of it...

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhrghhh
Deluded naive blooming people

(yes I know I am being unreasonable but just sensitive about it all)

butterfly86 · 24/10/2013 14:40

Not at all Tiny I feel the same if only pregnancy was that straightforward for the rest of us eh!

Then they announce it on facebook the day after they find out....I would love to get the chance to announce it at all stupid people.

Bakingtins · 24/10/2013 15:56

All ok. Baby measuring bang on 8 weeks and with strong HB. There is an area of bleeding around the sac so been told to take it easy, but will be rescanned in a week. Much more positive than prev 8 week scans anyway.

TinyTear · 24/10/2013 15:58

That is great Baking

If things were ok with me we would be similar due dates (I was supposed to be 8+4 today)

The June 14 group is a good one if you want to join them. tell them I say hello

Bakingtins · 24/10/2013 16:00

Nowhere near ready to join an antenatal thread! Even the ladies on TTC after MC must think I'm batshit crazy.

Bakingtins · 24/10/2013 16:01

And no you are not mad to be pissed off with them. I have colleagues at work in their mid-thirties who talk about TTC a few years down the line and just imagine it will happen in month 1 Hmm

nearlyreadytopop · 24/10/2013 16:24

great news baking Smile

Purplefrogshoe · 24/10/2013 17:04

Good news baking, take it easy

butterfly86 · 24/10/2013 17:48

Fantastic news baking :)

Justonemoretime · 24/10/2013 18:18

So pleased for you, Baking! x

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donttrythisathome · 24/10/2013 22:52

Tiny, sorry to hear your news and fingers crossed. It is so hard isn't it.
I think we all have a tendency to take things for granted until they are gone, although even in my first to trouble free pregnancy I did feel worried to be fair. Posting BFP on facebook the day you get it just sounds bizarre to me, but posting eveu detail of your life is what DA YOOF these days do...

Congrats to Baking and Butterfly!

Squiz, any news on the weird AF?

waves to everyone.

I'm on hols in sunny land at the mo-is fab. AF due tomorrow and tested today but got a BFN. So expecting AF tomorrow but still hoping. Is 5 months since last MC now, but finding the disappointments each month less frustrating.

TinyTear · 25/10/2013 11:33

Confirmed missed miscarriage. Will have my ERPC on Wednesday as they have someone already on Monday and don't do them tuesdays...

Hopefully some closure

butterfly86 · 25/10/2013 17:44

I'm so sorry Tiny :(

LateBloomer414 · 25/10/2013 18:01

Tried posting this AM but my message got lost in the void again. Sending tight hugs to you Tiny. Hope it all goes smoothly for you, at least as smoothly as the horrible procedure can go.
Baking, very reassuring news for you! Hope you are feeling well and that you can relax just a teeny tiny bit Smile
Had my RMC appt yesterday- all tests normal, my lady bits are in good nick. I'm just old Confused. St Mary's next week, will be interesting to see what they say.
Hugs to all, hoping wonderful weekends ahead.

TinyTear · 25/10/2013 18:10

Thanks. Had one in 2010 on MC2 and it wasn't too bad. I prefer it to having to wait naturally or bleeding at home...

Bloomer I went to St Mary's and even though all came back normal it meant that when I fell pregnant again they saw me at 6, 8 and 10 weeks (and that one worked)

LateBloomer414 · 25/10/2013 18:38

Thanks Tiny- totally agree, better to have the procedure quickly once it's been confirmed. I waited too long with my second MC and suffered the most atrocious cramps and bleeding and had to go to A&E. I hope your freezer is loaded with ice cream. I believe it has medicinal powers.
I sure hope there is a next time for us (BFP that is...). DH and I have had a hell of a year and feel some good news is due.

Purplefrogshoe · 25/10/2013 21:43

So sorry tiny, good news bloomer, good luck next week