Miscarried yesterday..................

[Northerner]

And feeling a bit low tbh. I was 9 weeks and last night I actually passed the feotus and I can't get the image out of my head.......

Have great support here, but it's always good to talk to people who have been there.

Am off to bed soon so if I don't answer I'll be back in the morning.

Thanks for listening.

we luv ya!

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It gets easier, I promise.

I am so sorry.

So sorry to hear this Northerner. Let yourself cry and grieve for the baby, let it all out on here. You've got our love and support.

i lsot mine at 8wks, and saw it. i know what you are going through.

my advice (and what helped me) was to get some rest and keep my mind active with other things......

cx

hey northerner
so sorry to hear your news.
Lost one at 5 weeks myself back in November. It does get easier.
Anything I can do just let me know.

seen you online
hope you are ok sweetie
xxx

Just been out for lunch with dh. It's nice to have time to ourselves as ds is at preschool today.

Am off for an afternoon siesta now.

Have loads of rest. I slept for about a week after mine and it really helped.

Sorry to hear this northerner.

I was also on the Nov 2006 thread and mc about 2 and half weeks ago when I was 8 weeks. Would have been having my scan today .

Harrogatemum has my email if you want to CAT me.

Feeling very sad to hear your news Northerner.

northerner, only just spotted yours.
thanks for posting advise on my thread despite your own loss :) Hope you had a good siesta

Oh, I'm sorry, Northerner.

northy....I have posted on the April thread for you. Thinking of you sweetheart, all the girls on the ttc thread send you their love x x x x x

i'm so so sorry. Go easy on yourself.

So sorry to hear you very sad news, i have been where you are now i had a mc in nov 2004 i felt like it was the end of my world i cried & cried, i promise you it does get better. I fell pregnant about 5 months later & i now have a beautiful 3 month old baby daughter, keep your chin up & have some "me" time. xx

Thinking of you, Northerner. XXXXXXXX

I'm so sorry for you :(

Northener ... I know what you are going through ... . I lost a baby at 12 weeks 3 and a half years ago.
Mumsnet was a great support to me ...
Thinking of you {{{}}}

Having a bit of a wobble today. Thought last night I was feeling stronger and was looking forward to a day on my own today as ds is at pre school and dh back at work, but then I woke up to an empty house and didn't quite know what to do

Also my letter arrived from the hospital confirming my scan date and booking in appointment, had to phon ethem to cancel and snotty receptionist said 'can I ask why you are cancelling?'

it is hard when 'normality' hits and you realise that life jsut goes on. but u will get stronger and more able to get on with things. your DS will see to that!

maybe get a magazine, cup of tea and a nap?

cx

oh Northerner, poor you. And you really just don't need that from the hospital at all, you'd think they'd have some care.

Is there anything nice you can do for yourself - have a lovely bath or wallow with a book and a cake? Or a friend who will ply you with afternoon wine? Although I have to say, I did find going to bed and weeping oddly theraputic for the first week or so. It is OK to feel this bad, and much better to grieve than pretend everything's fine.

northerner-im so sorry, this has happened to you.
i have lost several babies, the most recent being at 23 weeks in october.
its only just happened so be kind to yourself, let yourself cry, the hardest time for me has been the due date, once i got past that stage, i felt i could move forwards in my grieving process.
{{hugs}}}
so sorry that you had the added trauma of your booking in appt coming through.

thinking of you