Right, epic catch up time...
frazzled The paranoia has well and truly hit. I've only done a week and I'm already desperately hopeful one second and terrified the next. I'm not sure how my legs will carry me into the hospital to have a scan. This HAS to work this time. I don't think I could take anymore grief.
I'm glad the funeral went as well as it possibly could, despite the stupidly insensitive comment about sons. Have to say I disagree. Girls want their Mums but boys always need their Mums if my own limited experience with boyfriends is anything to go by. Any sign of the oven? Hope it gets sorted soon. It will be worth it in the end. Easy for me to say, I know, but it does seem to be a fitting mantra generally for this thread.
Lunatic My other boob has now joined the party. It's only really noticeable if I have a good prod , but I've reached the point where non-stop trips to the loo is not cutting it in terms of believeing this is real yet, so I'm probably just making stuff up. With DS, I was puking my head off, pretty much from the outset. I'd almost feel comforted by that, although I'm a lot less anxious about having a baby this time around, so the majority of the sickness could have been anxiety related. I actually feel insanely well, which is worrying me. 2 weeks to go. I can't believe how slowly the time is dragging.
How are you doing? Iron perking you up? Hope the discomfort is easing a bit too. I'm most impressed at you handing over the OPKs and HPTs by the way. Talk about strength! Sorry to hear about the ear infection. Never rains but it pours (or snows) eh?
mumatron I have no idea what a cosmofer transfusion is I'm afraid! Hope it goes well, regardless.
banana Have you had another scan yet? Glad your consultant was able to alleviate your biggest fears. Would be good if AF would clear everything out. Much less traumatic than further procedures. Fingers crossed for you.
Coconuts We have a choose and book system at my hospital too, but I was pleasantly surprised to get an appt very quickly. All in, it's taken me about 5 months to get seen and treated which, historically, seems really good, but at the time it was the longest wait of my life. We do have a maximum referral time here though, so not sure if that made it a bit easier for me. The best of British luck to you. Make sure you take a list of questions with you when you see the gynae, so you don't leave with unanswered issues.
LAF Like you, I spend much of my time thinking there is no live baby in there and that it's not going to happen. I'm also trying to take one day at a time without going too insane and hoping and praying that this is my turn, so to speak. I haven't told anyone in RL yet apart from my DH and lovely sister. I simply don't trust my Mum to keep quiet. I know that sounds awful, but if I tell her it mustn't go any further, she'll tell someone else the same thing and then probably blab. She has a slight problem in terms of social etiquette too. I've endured a couple of absolutely cringeworthy occasions where she's told our hairdresser and the woman from whom we rented a holiday cottage about my miscarriage. I can't bear the thought of telling her, then miscarrying and discovering she's told half the family again. Frankly, I doubt I'd ever forgive her. I don't think she has any comprehension of how scared I really am.
Welcome lulu although I'm afraid I can't be of any help. Hopefully the other ladies here will have a better idea in terms of advice.
hairy Great news on the referral!
battery I think anything goes with the first period, but your lining should be thinner after an ERPC so lighter sounds perfectly normal to me.
Julez Sounds like you are having a rubbish time. It's hard to avoid rows when you are at such a low ebb. Hang on in there though. You don't have too much longer to go. Sorry about your friend. However, it's virtually impossible for you to 'be there' for her right now. You have a battle of your own to deal with. I know it's awful, but you need to focus on you right now. With the best will in the world, you won't be able to change her situation. I appreciate that is no comfort though. Hugs.
digi I'm so sorry you're feeling so low. It's such a shitty situation and if I could wave a magic wand for you, I so would. Also completely understand your feelings about the loft conversion. Is there any chance you could label the room something else for now? Maybe 'the study' or 'the den' or similar. I know you will always know that it's going to be for a another baby, but there's nothing to stop you from enjoying your home and the added space and value you'll get from an extra room. Having said that, I'd feel exactly the same as you if it was me. Hugs.
Hope that's everyone?
Having a bit of a weird day. I thought I'd feel a bit less hostile towards my pg friend once I'd got pregnant but, if anything, I find her news even more irritating now. She's just announced it on fb and keeps sending me texts every day under the guise of caring about my apparent infertility, but really just to complain about her pg symptoms and the fact that she can't take remedies for her illnesses because of it. I am now seriously questioning her motives. I'm trying to give her the benefit of the doubt in the sense that she's missing being able to talk to her best friend about her pg, but there's just such an air of attention seeking and I cannot work out why on earth she would consider me to be the right audience for moaning about her pg. Frankly, I think it's downright nasty to complain about something she knows I've desperately longed for so long and that she thinks I can't have.
I've decided to keep my news private for as long as I possibly can, even after a (hopefully) positive scan - and this is the really horrible, bitchy bit - to see if she really does care about my situation or if she's actually enjoying being smug about hers. Right now, I can't help but feel it's the latter. I know this is probably 110% hormones taking, but we've been here before. She got pg with her 1st child a few weeks before me and I can't decide whether it's me just feeling plain jealous about it all, or whether she's making me feel like I'm in a make believe race that I want no part of.
I've just read that back and it sounds like the evil ramblings of a deranged lunatic. I don't want to feel this way, but after her questionable behaviour surrounding her pg announcement - having told me she was back on the pill - I'm struggling to know how to feel.
Hopefully, I'll stop being such a cowbag and feel better if/when I see a hb. I'm not sure how I'll feel if this one goes wrong too. Thanks, as ever, for putting up with my ranting!