Another tiny wristed person here. Is there some link?!
I have been overweight my whole life and my metabolism is clearly very slow. I ate too much when very young, and I can see my daughter not only doing exactly the same and developing the exact same figure (all weight on her/my stomach) which worries me.
In my teens I slimmed down quite a lot and was a size 14 which would probably be a 10 now (looking at photos of myself). But then my mother died, my father was drunk, and I stopped eating for a year. (Even then I had a stomach, when I was pretty skeletal everywhere else - eg hurt to sit without a cushion.) When I started eating again, I ate and ate and ate and put on 4/5 stones in about a year. When I went to university I would eat large bowls of pasta with whole loaves of bread for dinner.
The last 20 years have been an up and down battle with my weight, but I'm currently at a weight which my GP has proclaimed 'fine', BMI of 27/28, and can buy clothes from normal shops. I'm not 'thin' - I do have a smallish bone structure and am flat chested with a large stomach - but I'm not fat in a way that bothers me other than when I see photos.
However, I am heading for menopause, and some of my physical health markers (blood pressure/blood sugar) are hovering at the top of normal and won't be going downwards without some intervention. There's a history of high blood pressure - my mother died of a stroke at a young age - so that bothers me. I could easily sit at this weight without too much effort, but I can't see it getting better. My body is so very comfortable around my current weight that I am pretty pessimistic about moving much further downwards however much I KOKO.
Really sorry, epic post, tl:dr