Welcome @JengaCupboard! Looking at your day suggests to me that a) you're not really doing Bootcamp (not sure if you want to be, or if you're just looking for help though) and b) you're probably eating too many carbs. But here's my critique, for what it's worth:
So the first week I dropped to 12st 5.3lb which was great (although I get the whole water loss thing etc) and then period week went back to 12st 8lb which I read was normal. Weighed myself after – back to 12st 5.3lb… and then every day since I’m back to 12st 7.5lb, then today, 12st 8.5lb – although I had had coffee!??!
Coffee won't be the reason for re-gaining the weight. Other factors will be at play here
Typical food (I work a 9.5 hour desk/site job) breakfast – 10% fat Greek yoghurt (2-3 tablespoons) with berries and about 8-10 walnuts and about a teaspoon of honey just to take the sour edge off
Berries and walnuts will be adding too many carbs - and honey is absolutely forbidden during Bootcamp - actually even if you're trying to low carb generally, the combination of fruit, nuts and honey adds up to too many carbs!
One of the key principles of Bootcamp is to re-train our tastebuds, so that we don't want sweet things. By adding the fruit and honey you're just 'feeding' that. Honey is just sugar. And sugar has no place in a low carb way of eating!
I drink black coffee with or without sweetener throughout the day or sugar free squash
Again, you're using sweeteners to enable a sweet tooth. Artificial sweeteners are also not allowed in the first two weeks of Bootcamp, and are generally advised against.
Maybe something egg-based at the weekends…
Perfect low carb/Bootcamp food!
Lunch would be some sort of cheese/ham/cold meet/egg mayo/avocado/boiled egg salad situation (not all at the same time!) and dinner would be either meat and veg or salad (broccoli/green beans/cauliflower cheese) (chicken breast with bacon and cheese/chilli/curry made from scratch/sausage with swede or celeriac mash/steak…etc) very little snacking
All this sounds great but doesn't give me any indication of how much fat you're eating - Bootcamp/low carbing is a high fat way of eating - so hopefully you're frying food in either butter, lard or oil and adding butter to your veg and oily dressings to your salad?
^Maybe some cherry tomatoes or a few salted peanuts/some biltong…
Few glasses of dry white wine over Friday night/the weekend (a bottle max)^
Nuts aren't allowed in the first two weeks of Bootcamp and neither is alcohol.
Trying to stick to 50g carbs a day but to be honest I think I’m usually under this? Or maybe I’m not!!?? Either my expectations are wrong or I’m doing it wrong… either way, any advice would be great.
Firstly, on Bootcamp we don't count the carbs (or calories). By following Bootcamp rules you should be losing. To be honest, it sounds to me like you're eating too many carbs - whether or not that's 50g or more. The thing you need to understand is that we all have different levels of carbohydrate that we can tolerate. If you're not losing, then it suggests that you need to go lower.
As you all know, this is quite a big lifestyle change and as much as I’m 100% up for it, the lack of results is a little disappointing… thanks
OK - here's what I suggest:
Cut out the fruit, nuts, alcohol and honey.
Ditch the artificial sweeteners
Make sure you're adding/using plenty of fat
And finally - water. How much water are you drinking? At your weight you should be drinking at least 3 litres a day.
Hope all of this helps you - but jump on board and we will all be here to support you!