Wow!
What a day this has been for you all!
Sorry I wasn't around but travelling from SILs (no wifi) to take MIL out for lunch, then travelling back from there, so have been mostly in the car today.
Thank you all for posting and sharing. @JiminnyCricket thank you for wielding the big stick in my absence. I know it might have pissed some people off, but I agreed with every word of your post. Yes, it was harsh - but support isn't about saying 'never mind, you'll be fine'. It's about delivering the words that people need to see what they're doing (good or bad
@shittymctwatface I hope you're still here, reading if not posting - and I hope you didn't give into the pizza! One thing that nobody said to you that's really important you couldn't have gained 4lbs of fat overnight!
It's far more likely to be water retention in this heat, or dodgy scales, or your scales were on carpet instead of a flat surface, or just one of those irritating daily fluctuations that you'll see. If you can't bear the daily changes, then please don't weigh every day - leave it till once a week.
@c4pinkwheels it's easy to say, but I hope you'll see us all here as your friends. I can't believe that your own friends have abandoned you
I'd be honoured to be your friend, and come and support
@OldBooks from what you've written there, I'd say that you have a problem with dairy - you're having a lot. Also, you're snacking on almond milk a lot - which would suggest to me that you're not getting enough fat - or protein - in your main meals, as you shouldn't really need to snack by now.
There's really not much meat or fatty meat in your diet, which I think could be a problem - and I doubt that you're getting enough fat altogether.
I've had a bit of a mixed week - I finally got back into Bootcamp after a horrible few weeks with work, and saw a loss of over 3lbs this week - but the weekend at my SILs hasn't been easy, so I'm not weighing tomorrow. I'm going to leave it until next Friday. What's worked for me has been doing 16:8, which I've found surprisingly easy - as well as dropping had become a very calorific 'yoghurt and peanut butter' habit each day!
We move tomorrow onto week 5, and hopefully the scales will start to be kinder to everyone.
I'd like to scoop you all up and give you all a huge hug, and say 'don't worry, KOKO, and you will see the results that you want! Let's look to tomorrow as a fresh start, and put all the slippage and cheating behind us, and paint on a happy face. Remember the adage - 'fake it to make it'! 