OK, shouldi. I'm going to be a bit brutal here. But first, I do understand how frustrated you must feel. But you also should understand how frustrated I feel reading your posts. You've admitted to cheating all the way through Bootcamp.
There are no two ways about it. If you don't follow the rules, it won't work!
And in answer to your post earlier:
^I've had a perfect week eating wise (e.g. yesterday: B: eggs and spinach with loads of butter L: home made scotch eggs, D: roast courgette, cabbage and chorizo, plus a tablespoon of coconut oil)
Loads of water.
How much? I keep asking you to list out food/drink but you are never specific.
I even had severe diarrhoea as an added bonus.
I'm really sorry to here this. It's not pleasant at all! But why would drinking loads of water mean that you had severe diarrhoea?
I have cheated at times in the past 8 weeks, but I have also had other perfect weeks too, where nothing came off.
So? A perfect week doesn't compensate for a cheat week. Low carbing isn't a very forgiving way of eating, and from week one I have posted about this and warned about the dangers of cheating.
I also bloat very easily
This means you're not drinking enough water.
I was bloated after my breakfast this morning which was a home made scotch egg, a boiled egg and some tender stem broccoli with butter. Lunch today is pork belly with roasted cauliflower.
This sounds lovely!
I have cooked all my own meals bar 3 in the past 8 weeks,
Great!
I have cut down coffee
From what to what? Are you taking milk in it?
honestly, i have tried everything that was suggested on here and other online discussions.
But you haven't followed the rules, have you?
I'm hovering around having lost a pound or two at the moment. But i've done this on other weeks and it's popped straight back up again.
Probably because you keep cheating!
I'm still 2lbs heavier than my lightest a few weeks ago. I think I was dehydrated then, because two days later (no cheating) I was back to my starting weight. Effectively, I'm hovering with a range of about 4- 5lbs. And it doesn't seem to drop below that.
If you're dehydrated then you haven't been drinking the water. It's one of the key rules of Bootcamp. It's really important.
I started on 3 Jan so I'm 3 weeks ahead. I'm pretty sure I'm fat adapted because I hiked for 4 hours last week without needing any food at all. My appetite is diminished and I have consistent energy all day. It took about 3 weeks. Maybe my body just needs to heal for while first before it will drop the fat.
I think you just need to do something consistently, stop cheating, and follow Bootcamp rules. Please don't tell me that Bootcamp isn't working for you, when you're not following Bootcamp.
I might lurk, but I'm not going to post any more because you don't need to hear my pity-fest! I feel trapped in a fat body and whether or not I am, I feel powerless to do anything about it. But I will persist - because what else can I do? I'll eventually crack it.
You are not powerless to do anything. You can take charge by not cheating, and by following the rules properly. Stop the pity fest that way.