Chester sounds like you had a lovely day! You did really well for a birthday celebration glosses over the wine hopefully the scales won't bite back tomorrow!
nowitsenough sorry I'm sort of going backwards through the thread. I know you've already had lots of replies, but I just wanted to chime in! For many of us the transition between our 'regular diet' and 'Bootcamp' is hard. I'm 'lucky'
in that I have another 'incentive' than weightloss, in that it controls my blood sugars so I don't have to be on medication for my diabetes. I can see the blood sugar levels coming down. However, this morning they've gone high again and my first though was 'Oh fuck it, I'll have a croissant then!' But I got a grip of myself and asked 'and how is that going to help exactly?*.
I'm fine once my body has transitioned, but in this in between phase it's one meal at a time, don't think too far ahead! I buy low carb food etc so the fridge is ready, but I don't think 'oh god this is forever/ x weeks'. It's just 'this meal' and I do my best to make the food nice.
Your DH has to get his head around the fact that this is different to any other 'diet'. You are training your body to use fat as it's primary fuel. You screw it up entirely giving it too many carbs. Then you yo yo between the carb burning and fat burning, the worst of all ways to be and you will put on weight.
You can have 'carbs' again, just not now.
[of course we are having carbs! but from veg etc! not 'carbs' bread/rice/pasta etc]
You can do it. You just have to get through the first couple of weeks.