where did they all go

[toffeecupcake]

I have no social life whatsoever. My best friends were there one minute then disppeared (none had children) and suddenly I realise I have no close friends to confide in or socialize with. I know others mums to chat to when I bump into them but not to socialize with. I've just finished a year course at college which i loved going to because it meant i got to talk to other people but thats now finished. I made friends with a couple of people but one is going travelling so i wont see her and the other person i texted at the weekend but he hasnt texted or e-mailed back. Has other lone parents felt isolated and lonely at times and how did they get over it. I hate feeling like this. Maybe when i find a job i'll feel better but i'm not getting anywhere with that.

i hate hearing that people feel alone i have been feeling like that for ages and depressed which i can deal with but hate feeling it,ive gone threw some crap with people the last year whom of which i really thaught cared for me and i was wrong , people only wanna know when it suites them and i was too good , they all had double standards, the funny thing is that they thaught i needed them but i didnt, theres times when i wanna chat to someone and there is no1 to talk to. i do have 2 brilliant friends but 1works long shifts and the other lives far, ive also finished a course which kept me company. but im glad i got rid of the bad people in my life, im 1 of those people that will pamper you, understand you, i never judge and i respect also honest, i was used, the bastartds......sorrry

Ditto on the facebook dilema, wldnt know where to begin!

How is everyone doing? Am on facebook myself but to be honest don't want everyone knowing how lonely I feel.

I'm a bit funny with FB myself. I kind of feel it's sometimes too open a forum and there are some people on my friend's list who I don't really want to know how s**t I can sometimes feel.

Apart from that doing ok, feel as if I've managed to pick myself up a bit over the past week or so and feel more positive. Each time it happens I think I learn a bit more about myself and a new coping mechanism.

How are you desire?