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where have all the fit,interesting and available men gone PT20

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Betty79 · 18/04/2010 18:08

Has no one beat me to it with a new thread yet?

OP posts:
DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 28/04/2010 16:39

no no... i'm definately not having any plans for sex

lou33 · 28/04/2010 16:40

is it wrong i immediately thought

"you are such a liar"

DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 28/04/2010 16:50

i've got to start out the night with good intentions.

i am single again technically

but... if i dont remember it... it never happened is the rule remember

lou33 · 28/04/2010 16:55

have you told him then?

how did he react?

a good rule to abide by is "what goes on tour stays on tour"

DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 28/04/2010 16:59

ssssssssssssshhhhh stop it lou - i'm going to the ski-ing in bulgaria.. so far one male member of gang is going.. and there's talk of coventry man going [trembles at knees].. that could be hard to resist.. and blooming forces has said if he's on leave he will be there even as friends if not more!!

motorola - to him to give me space. he agreed. but still send some general msg's today. .... not really having a break for space is it?

lou33 · 28/04/2010 17:06

i would say giving space would mean no contact for a bit

he sounds a tad insecure and a bit clingy

but it could be that you are just overwhelmingly desireable?

DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 28/04/2010 17:20

ok... so yeah.. he knows i'm seriously pissed off. told him to back off. haven't officially dumped him.

i'll get round to it. but there's a stack of stuff he has conviently left here which will need to be returned.

it will be a tactful face to face finishing. with delivery of goods, done at his house so i can leave, and dont have to awkwardly turf him out if i do it at mine.

gosh overwhelmingly desirable... no... in most cases it has been said i am incredibly annoying and they cant fathom why they want to spend time with me ... i say its all in the bj technique

honestly

i'm a pain in the arse .. everyone agrees .

people laugh at me more than with me

piratecat · 28/04/2010 17:22

shop asked how old i was by text yesterday, which i avoided in my reply.

i text him few hrs ago, as he has text me couple chatty ones today, and i told him.

i think he may possibly be shocked!!!

At least with online dating, your details are THERE!!!

lou33 · 28/04/2010 18:13

juice

pirate, he probably cant believe his luck, how many men have an older woman fantasy?!

i can quite confidently answer this one and say LOADS

dont put yourself down so, make the most of it woman!

piratecat · 28/04/2010 18:19

lou !!!

really?, well i guess you'd know best

i do hear it on the sites, dating ones, but never come across anyone in rl.

i can't guage how old i look, really, or what he may have expected!! I go where he works a fair amount, and my god i have prob looked shocking on some occasions!!!

yet, i do think that for some men the whole kids thing would be an issue, if they want them that is.

i am 41, this guy is 30.

has mechanic got children lou? (apart from yours now i mean!!)

lou33 · 28/04/2010 18:43

i had a 9m relationship with that age gap, was great , the age thing was not an issue

mechanic has no kids, he cant have them, but would have made a fab dad

ds2 says he is like his stepdad

piratecat · 28/04/2010 19:23

thats good, glad it's going well.
just been texting, discovered he has kids, which is great i think.

but he's working till friday now and away for a week so won't be able to see him for ages. Unless i guess i go to buy some milk!!

lou33 · 28/04/2010 21:16

oh look , you seem to have run out....

kdk · 28/04/2010 21:30

PC darling, I've run out of milk - be a darling and go and get me some would you ... and some biccies and, let me see, some sliced white, jam .... off you go, don't worry about rushing back ok!

thesouthsbelle · 28/04/2010 21:34

right gonna catch up now properly.

just watching super daddy first thou - is it me or is the dad making it all about him and his bruised ego where as the mum is trying to be about the child but ultimatly the dad isn't seeing the child cos the mum won't give him his stuff & the mum won't give him his stuff cos he doesn't see the boy? - is it all about points scoring then this separating lark?!!?

anyhow.... lets have a read back.

lou33 · 28/04/2010 21:37

I have no idea what you are talking about belle lol.

Pirate I need fags too please

kdk · 28/04/2010 21:45

I'm with you lou - explain yourself Belle - or have you been at the cooking sherry or something?

thesouthsbelle · 28/04/2010 21:58

pirate - and when you're done for KDK i'll have some milk, some cadburys, er... some beans and again take your time i'm in no rush... it's not that big an age gap - 11 years - go for it!

juicy - he likes the chase?! glad it was only 5 messages but still 5 too many lol. hope you mmaced and irish - remember don't remember it didn't happen - oh and he's in a different post code usually so not cheating! ref ex - no I never sleep here when he's here.

mrsm - ahem yeah don't think that's the right site lol. but get on and start talking/emailng - how's smooch for you can you get on that one?

sm - get a sitting on those hands ref older guy. what site are the emails on?

eve - can't beleive athletic - cheeky git. think you should take lou's advice & get mech over there. as if he should be allowed to use your hosue as a doss place!! quite on your behalf.

hi lou, ninah, pirate - did you get DD sorted?

date's deffo on for tomorrow now - off for a drink & bite to eat (read that as i'll eat before I go then have a starter only - food ishooos!) bless him says he's excited - he'll learn lol. meeting by the front. yay. planner has text today as well quite a bit - still nothing from him ref a coffee or anything.

Remotew · 28/04/2010 21:59

Lou, step away from the fags, oh that's Juicy that has quit.

My Op is next Wednesday then I'm out of bounds for a few weeks. Won't be difficult in my case but Lou, take it easy.

My Saga hasn't ended just yet, it beggars belief.

Think I could write a book about this but no-one would believe it.

thesouthsbelle · 28/04/2010 21:59

lol. no I haven't sorry on living TV jeff brazier is doing a show called superdaddy. the parents were well - that's what they were like.

thesouthsbelle · 28/04/2010 22:01

eve - what's he doing/your op for?

lou -fas step away from - and I hope you're taking it easy/being pampered as well over there.

Remotew · 28/04/2010 22:02

Isn't the acceptable age gap half your age plus seven. Or if you could have given birth to them. That's a bit debatable though as technically that could be 11 years younger but I think it means as a adult, so 18'ish. Not that I practise what I preach but will in future.

thesouthsbelle · 28/04/2010 22:05

see I thought the whole half +7 is the age which is best suited to the bloke? in my case that would be 21 - hmm... not good I don't think.

piratecat · 28/04/2010 22:05

haha, i have quite a list

oops forgot something, will have to go back!!!

it was quite funny how this all transpired yesterday. me and my trolley, him and his 'wares'

lol

Remotew · 28/04/2010 22:07

Belle, I'm not being a drama queen but cannot say, hopefully this will be over soon.

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