Where are all the fit, interesting and available men pt 16

[Janos]

Yep, it's still going....

Part 15 still lurking about, I believe.

wooohooo a snog.

asbm - 1 guy was a virgin who i never met.. because.. em... he was a virgin
1 guy was from fife - was messaging him from halloween when broke up from irish originally. he knows the full story with tht and is angling for a date now i'm free again i think.he's kinda sweet. real nice guy type. we had made several dates. which were cancelled with him being ill or me being ill, or our kids being ill. lol.
1 was bluebell.. who's dad passed away last night also .
1 was another guy who also chatting to from halloween.. he's also angling after a date now i'm single again. lol. also knows full story with irish. but very full on.

ninah - yup, i could easily be dragged down the wrong path. i'm very aware with a drinker i get into it heavily and my lifestyle suffers. and my bank balance... but with other types who are not big drinkers... i lead a very normal life, have loads of cash. and am generally a much happier person. i can swing very up and down depression wise when drinking alot.

i look at the neck

i'll look at everywhere and grab a feel of whatever i can

So it's finding someone who isn't a pisshead but still is fun,and that's the dilemma.
Same here.
Sounds like you have plenty of options atm!
after h1 I went out with teetotallers, and that wasn't quite right. There has to be a middle way, and you are right to avoid the real drinkers.

ohh lou

mechanic is a moderate drinker, doesnt like getting bolloxed for the sake of it, knows when he has had enough

which is how i drink too so thats good

dont act like i just surprised you asbm

am off to bed now, bloody tired i am

night all

me too nn

poor bluebell
and without wishing to sound all MN-ey patronising here as some self righteous do-gooders do
i think that's really brave of you to post that juicy

Good grief, I take my eye off the ball for an hour and I get back and you're all getting horny silly about my fascinator!

Sponge - sounds like snog date went well.

ASBM - you're on form tonight!

Lou - one more sleep and you'll see him. lol

Juice - glad you had a good day. Don't envy you driving in the snow. Shocked about Irish and the alc thing. Eejit!

Kdk - pmsl at donkey story

Belle - its all been said above. You look after yourself. You owe him nothing. Not one thing. GB promised you nothing and he gave you nothing. Grrrr

Hi everyone else. Getting in the barf, back soon.

lou i've gone beyond being surprised anymore
off to bed too
nn all

with luck one more sleep yes

and the schools are shut tomorrow again, so no early rising for me !

well, just got a text from him to say he's made it home, to thank me for a great evening & to say he's like us to stay in touch as friends but no more.

that might be a good thing tho if there was no real spark

ive stayed friends with a fair few and its been the best decision

Thank goodness there wasn't a spark for you. More friends the merrier I say.

Lou -

it has just raised all my ongoing insecurities about not being sufficiently thin, attractive or charming enough to ever meet anyone, all the things my ex used to tell me i was (or wasn't I should say)

@ sponge - as a fellow sporadic sufferer from low self esteem particularly around my size, please don't do that to yourself! As everyone says on here, chin up, tits out and tomorrow's another day and hopefully another date ....

@ monty - donkey was a good one but oddly not one of mine - I get dogs, fishes, declarations of undying love and offers of rides on electric scooters!

agree with you Lou about drinking - strangely enough I used to be a pretty heavy drinker and could lose days to it ie go out on Friday evening and get home late Saturday night - but these days with one thing or another just can't do it. Probably a good thing too - think some of it is linked to packing in the fags which were inextricably linked to boozing ... now just got to lose the second stone I put on after stopping .

Haven't messaged birdman yet to arrange a drink - will probably only take another 8 months to do that!

sponge-glad u had a good time on date, dont be discouraged about the friends thing, i think that was nice of him as u did say you weren't sure if there was a spark or not and a lot of men just dont bother texting/ringing ever again!

sponge
please don't talk yourself down

dont talk like that sponge, some people click and some dont, it will be nothing more than that and not because of how your ex made you feel i promise

everyone has their hang ups, between us we have all felt that "he's nice but no spark" thing loads of times, but i certainly havent felt badly about them or pulled them apart

dont let it put you off, that is an order

the mechanic says he reckons he should be able to get down to me tonight, but of course that could all change if the snow starts again

i am going to cobble together some kind of contraption to be able to take ds2 out for a slide about the snow, as his wheelchair wont make it, our sledge has disappeared , and he really wants to get out in it for a bit

aside from that its a day of chores i suppose

well he says he is definitely coming down , he asked what was for diner

i posted some pics on my fb to those who are on there, showing my cobbled together sledging for the disabled invention

it has buggered my back tho but ds2 loved it

@ lou - can I be your fb friend so I can see mechanic your disabled invention which sounds bloody fantastic by the way!

sponge - listen to the other girls they know what they're saying.

I've had contact from GB today incl some out of order emails. I have as of now text him & asked him to never contact me agian. it's breaking my heart but it has to be done. Mum will be over in a bit so I will be back prob tomorrow in work.

hope everyone is ok.

oh and juicy - stay away from irish you don't need him in your life with the kids. trust me I know alcoholics.

course you can, search for me by my email

morticiatsf at googlemail dot com

and belle, good for you well done !

belle-you are doing the right thing and you will get over him! he is a nob who thinks far too much of himself