Where are all the fit,interesting and available men Pt.15

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

jesus it's still running lol...

yeah go on then lou i want to see

for a short time only

calendar or not? even tho ive not made plans to meet him

hmmm not bad although im not a huge fan of long locks lol

where did u find him then lou?

i didnt he found me

i dont usually like longer hair either

anyway im not planning on meeting him, was only chatting

i have agreed to meet batman on the 19th though,like i said i dont expect to be hearing from lb, i am not prepared to wait about, and batman may be emigrating, so we have a short time to scratch the itch again

What a vile post soupmyself - it says more about you than anyone else.

{sad]

very cowardly too!!

What a foul, poisonous message. Have reported it. Totally disgusting.

yes I have now reported it too!

Despise fishwifery!!!!!

oh dont worry about it, she seems to be confusing me with someone who gives a shit what she thinks

i feel no urge to justify myself or my behaviour to anyone about anything, and its clear from the post about my kids they dont know me

i am sure i wont lose any sleep over it

Thanks for all your good wishes and kind thoughts by the way. The move was successful and I'm now about to pass out and will post properly once I'm back online with my pc

glad it all went well janos

janos - glad your move went so well, hope your already waking up smiling at your new place and ds loves it

how did everyone elses sat night go?

enjoy your efactor.

i was supposed to be seeing knight.but he hummed and haaahed so long i just went over to irish instead. luckily i was having a sober one as my bro baby sitting and not their dad as he's away.

dd started throwing up everywhere so came home early to deal with her.

you would be proud girls... managed to stick to the 'friends' arrangement (ok ok.. probably only because i had to leave early )

did i tell you guys i went on a lunch date on fri?... really really nice guy. but here's something that i cant make my mind up on... he splits the childcare with the dc mother equally. 3.5 days each. so he doesn't pay maintenence as he feels he shouldn't have to... i can see exactly why he doesn't. but why do i feel this is wrong?.. i'm being stupid here aren't i.

i think perhaps the traditional of single mother should be getting maintanence is stuck in my head. but he has same costs as her with regards to looking after kids doesn't he? he still has to feed,clothe,provide shelter for the dc as much as her doesn't he?

juicy another fella
imo it's great that he does spend all that time with his dcs but i think a contribution towards the other 3.5 days would be good

god you've all been busy - what's been going on here then this weekend - cliff notes version..... (will look properly after)

all is OK here, totally smitten with gymboy again. (not good) had dinner last night v good. he's already making plans for xmas & when he's seeing me etc (nothing sinister just he's off and I have DS etc so trying to work it all out) thou apparently he saw my presents and thought 'I just have to get her that' so we shall see am intrigued.

i'm still trying to get over this flu, but am just about to take the boys to see their father for the afternoon

yes i am still having to drop and collect even tho he knows i am sick, he hasnt offered to take care of them for a bit either, an in fact just asked me if i would go to sainsburys for him on the way

i said no

i dont even want to go out, i cancelled seeing my friend last night because of how i felt

Well works do was good, and night ended with me bumping into bloke i was up till 4am on wed with so am rather tired and hungover today! I knew he was out with his friend but didnt think id end up bumping into him, anyway was a good night. Have said we'll see each other again in the week.

just back from nipping over to fridays lunch date for a coffee.

i was trying to drive by an old chapel that needs converting thats come up for sale.. trying to get a viewing for next week. it looks interesting. and he stays nearby.

asbm - i kinda think that. but then again...she works.....so should she not also pay him a share then for his days he looks after them??

equality and all that?.... and... when i turned up he had his baby... just 5 months old. he's more competant with a baby than half the mothers i know.

juicy-i think it's good that he has his children 50% of time, it is ususual but then if she works too then i dont think he should have to pay her maintenance.

Hello, was wondering if I might join you all?

Have finally this weekend (after being nagged to death by RL friends) joined Match. I've never done internet dating - have always been very snobby about it tbh which is totally wrong of me I know

So, thus far I've had 1 email & several winks, which am hoping is not bad going. What I have no idea about is what to do next - the email guy sounds nice but lives (literally)at the opposite end of the country, a good 500 miles away so thats clearly a non starter - but I would feel rude not replying to his email. What about the winks - 2 of them have potential...so how do I respond? also, what do I do if I see anyone else I might like the look of? Email? Wink?

sorry for all the questions, but being a novice at meeting men online I am trying not to get it obviously wrong from the word go!

hi

only rely if you think they are potentially dateable, i wouldnt feel bad about not responding to those who arent

i guess how you reply is up to you, if you cant think of anything to say then just wink, otherwise find something in their profile to ask them about maybe?

omg haven't got flu but a really nasty cold - haven't done much today just going soon to pick ds2 from cricket.

One thing I forgot to mention is that Mr Yorke said I could ring him at anytime. So that's encouraging and maybe he's actually telling the truth!

IME someone truly partnered up would be more cagey about when you could contact them.

Anyway spoke to him today for a bit. He's keen to meet again but not sure when i'm free.

yes i agree scl

he looked quite nice from what i saw

i have to go get the boys in a bit from their father, sigh