Where are all the fit,interesting and available men Pt.15

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

jesus it's still running lol...

Hi all

am going to try and keep up ... but am easily confused (see my other thread).

@SCL, sorry to hear it didn't go too well at your mum's but intrigued by your boobs looking like Susan Boyle ....

@ juice - the new partner thing is always a bit of a mare - luckily my x is now out of the UK but I remember when he was still here and the kids told me about 'daddy's new friend' ...

I'm sure your man will phone - and if he doesn't and is put off by you having had a life before him - and its associated complications - probably wasn't right man for you anyway.

@ lou and asbm - should we buy hats? And maybe you should write a book on successful dating for single mums?

Well I can assure you they are not LOL. I have no idea what she was talking about.

She does have a track record of saying very odd things (last time she said my mouth was like Ronnie from eastenders) but this was quite extreme. I can't dney it hurts but that's because its never countered with anything positive.

despite being rather prim as well she bought me cosmo and referred me to an article about sex. (confused emoticon)

SCL - Welcome 'home' and enjoy your wine. In fact, I recommend you have another. lol. What a mare. (As in nightmare lol).

KDK - rofl at you joining the hat brigade.

Juice - that's nasty what happened to you. Has Irish contacted you yet?

Lou - dd has same bday as my dgn .

Eve - great news abt dd lol. Get the gladrags on girl.

Janos - ds back ok?

Sponge - at date with younger bloke. Go for it.

There's a certain bday girl from on here who is very quiet today!

All quiet here, went to see my new dgn today, he's really lovely. I'm very proud of my dn, she only had gas and air, I told her I take my hat off to her. (hat hee hee)

Forgot to say Hi to everyone else, am so excited about dgn, thanks for all your congrats.

Oh and rofl at electra and bloke taking a rest.

Belle- you're quiet!

Betty - go with your gut feelings.

lol dont buy a hat just yet, i am not inclined to ever go down that route again

we have had birthday cake and a takeaway, dd2 wanted to wait until the mechanic arrived to have it, which i thought was really sweet of her

i did tell her she didnt have to but she insisted

monty, it's a good day to be born

Lou - never say 'never'.

I'm so chuffed with that boy, I never usually do photos on fb. Did you see them?

yes i did he is lovely

hey all,

i'm here have had a busy busy day today - trying to keep busy & not think about gymboy being away (sad I know lol) he's v restless at the minute about coming home - doesn't want to - the daily grind huh - but we all gotta do it. still it's been really sweet that he's rung every night still and usually during the day as well. not for long granted but still nice to hear his voice. (puke emotion) sailor's developed a case of broken finger syndrome - ah well never mind wasn't that fussed anyhow. 6 more sleeps to go - god it's worse than waiting for santa to come! lol.

right off to catch up now......

angel/kdk - hi and welcome to the gang.

sponge - FB man - knobend. forget him plenty more fishies in the sea - how presumptuous that you'd wait until feb - what a knob. one word for that one and it's NEXT!!!

Lou - glad DD had a lovely b'day and all of your lot like the mechanic.

dusty - did you take in the youth baby smell?

sin - damn good to have you back girl, what's happening in your world atm then?

betty - some of them were new yes that i'm getting rid of, but mostly they're ones which i've only worn a few times (oops!) since being back at work again i've developed a thing about clothes along with a real deep fear about running out of food. (we have more than sainsbo's but anyhow) hope all is well your end - any news from you at the mo?

eve - ooh good on DD getting invited out to a NYE party. have you decided what you're doing yet?

what's everyone's plans then for NYE? i'm off out tomorrow night with the girls not sure yet if a meal & pics & drinks or what so don't care tbh as will be a night out. but in on NYE never mind.

(and who is the birthday girl amongst us?? come on which one of u is it?!?

oh juicy did irish contact you at all?

sorry to anyone i've forgotten again

thank you

am off to bed now, tired after long day, mechanic is already snoring lol

oh I say how very rude of him - give him a poke in the back or a cold cuddle - that should stop the snoring.

Yeah, get rid of facebook man hatesponge and as for the other date have more confidence in yourself!

The sex thing refers to men who do a maximum of like 20 minutes and then say 'I...need.....to.....just.....' haha and this man hadn't even come yet

Anyway I am already getting stressed about guy 3 ffs. He has done a good job of starting to get me emotionally involved and the last thing I need at this moment in time is some git breaking my heart.

He has a similar sense of humour to me and we like the same music and can have good conversations. He doesn't take drugs and has a high sex drive like me and I have a good time with him......but I'm a bit concerned his affection for me isn't genuine and I'm going to get sucked in by it only for him to bugger off somewhere.

oh and he got seriously done for drink driving - that's a little concern I suppose. In fact he's lucky to be alive.....

electra - am not liking the sound of no 3's drink driving but possibly this is just me having my lawyers hat on; was it quite recent, or some act of drunken stupidity bravado when he was much younger? it would ring alarm bells for me in terms of anything serious, but if you just want something more casual with him poss not so much of an issue.

Scl- am at your mum. Poor you. Still at least you are home now & presumably dont have to go and visit again for a while!

Belle - that is so sweet you counting the days til gb is back I remember the days when I used to do that [wistful emoticon]

lou - glad dd had a lovely bday, hope you managed to get the mechanic to stop snoring! (I am most intolerant of noise when I need to sleep, have even told the DC off in the night for snoring before!)

You are all right I think about fb man, he is a total knob - tonight he has been posting stuff about wanting to go to the pub & having no-one to go with Am not going to delete him, that might make him think he is important, but I will just ignore him from now on! Am certainly not holding my breath for a date in Feb though.

Electra, I know I should be more confident in myself, I am getting a lot better than I was (after 8 years with my tosser of an Ex who constantly told me how fat and ugly I was....conveniently failing to notice that I'd put on 5 stone while I was with him because of him constantly belittling me & making me unhappy ) but I am still very overweight (size 20) & the younger guy is so gorgeous. Even in my thin days I wouldn't have thought he would look twice at me. am just hoping that seeing me in the flesh isnt a horrible shock for him!

electra - had a chap like that once - and only once. didn't go back again. I like men to be men when it comes to the bedroom. am v lucky that gymboy likes doing the whole foreplay bit as much as I do and the main act as well but the first bit can go on hour hours

drink driving - was anyone else involved, think that would worry me slightly.

sponge - bin him off, he's a disrespectful nob who's over whelmed by his own self importance. ho hum. lol. up to you thou.

(also for those on my FB did DB's cake last night, for his 30th) 3 layers of choc sponge, creme jam & goooey icing)

he woke up when i went to bed

sponge, enjoy the young man, stop worrying, get rid of the fb one tho

well i'm just back from work and have the house to myself for the night as mum offered to keep girls overnight working tommorow too tho And I still need to have a good tidy up, have now got 4 friends plus 3 kids coming over tommorow night all staying over i think so should be fun

didnt hear from mrjack all day yest again so was starting to wonder but then got a text at bedtime decided to make him wait and text him bk today at 12, i dont normally play games but really cudnt be arsed texting him last night. he has said he's not too well today tho amd im in his bad books because it's my cold he's got well i didnt make him snog me ha ha

electra-think i wud be a bit worried about the drinking thing, do u know how long ago it was?

belle-more yummy food, will go and have a look for cake pics in a mo!

sponge-def ignore fb man, and go for it with the other bloke u never know!

lou-so still all loved up then

juice-did u hear from irish? how u feeling about the whole thing now?

scl-thats some strange comments from your mum

hi to everyone else, hope you are all ready for new year fun!

yep its all still going well thank you

he jokingly asked me to marry him last night

i hope it was a joke anyway cos i laughed loudly at the thought

he may be joining us for dd2's birthday dinner, depending on what time he finishes work, other wise he will meet us here afterwards

Hello all, yes DS got back ok and thrilled to bits with his presents. Spent most of today putting up his complicated lego thingy which has left me worn ahhht however he loves it.

Plus dealing with the behaviour issues that come out whenever he has spent time with his dad - eg he has been told it's ok to be mean to cats (I have a cat) as they are not as important as dogs, usual shite.

Right off to check up on news!

Juicy - sorry to hear your news about exp that must have been a shock for you. Try not to worry about Irish being put off. He doesn't sounds like the sort to be easily put off! It's hard though isn't it when you start to become emotionally involved and you are worried about what they are thinking/how they feel.

Lou - glad things are still on the up and up with mechanic. He really sounds fab. And if the kids like him well then..

electra - the drink driving thing is a big concern. It also depends when it was and what his attitude is to it..a dear friend of mine was married to a man like this and he's the biggest arsehole going. Are the initials AT?

hatesponge - hope you have a fab time on your date. And FB man does sound like a tosser. Ignoring sounds about the right option.

scl - your mum sounds very stressful, and your DS's not being allowed to play outside in case they mess up the lawn? Bizarre.

thank you janos, he is lovely

i took the kids for the birthday meal for dd2, he met us there and the boys went in his van for the drive back, which they loved (he put the flashing lights on and all that jazz for them)

ds2 is currently clambering all over him playfighting

Aww how lovely. Boys and cars eh? My DS loves all that stuff too

yep

i looked in my rear view mirror when we pulled up at lights, and all 3 of them were laughing and grinning madly

What a lovely note to close this thread on and start number 16