Where are all the fit,interesting and available men Pt.15

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

jesus it's still running lol...

well I got fed up of waiting for him to initiate a convo on FB so have logged off. Will sleep on it & no doubt he'll be on there tomorrow, he is most nights lol, so might take the initiative & ask about a drink....at least then I will know if he's at all interested.

monty - it is practically Xmas, therefore you are more than within your rights to crack open the xmas baileys!

since when have you needed our permission monty

and i knew your sainsbo's specials wouldn't last long

Baileys

Thanks Sponge - I've done the deed and poured myself a very large glass.

I'll be talking wedding hats to Lou and Juice in a mo. lol

Thanks ASBM. Lol lol

no hats please, not going there ever again ta!

ooh monty are you going to push out the boat and get a new one for each wedding
think you said you'd got a fascinator for mine

lol @ lou
think i said something similar myself once

PMSL @ fascinator lol.

Hey that means there should be a hen night?

Lou - never say never.

it's a hen night every night on here lol

'Tis indeed ASBM. Mmmm this Baileys is luverly. That was a really good idea. (Won't be saying that on the train in the morning).

ouch no!
will leave you to enjoy your nightcap lol
nn x

Think I'd better hit the sack now.

Nite all. x

hen nights - did I miss something - was only gone a hours!

betty - have added you.

hatesponge - get and ask him - althou tbh I do cringe when a bloke says about not being able to resist me/keep his hands to himself etc. do we have a name for him at all yet?

monty glad all is well with you.

still debating on seeing the sailor later. mostly cos i'm really missing gymboy - and nothing romantic will happen withthe sailor but feels like i'm cheating on gymboy even for coffee! (prob cos gymboy doesn't know i'd arranged it)

i missed all the talk about weddings and hen night too lol

monty-mmm baileys, i might have to go get some today as for the kitten it went to a friend of a friend, so my trees is safe!

belle-not sure i'd meet the sailor if u feel that way, esp as u havent told gymboy.

sponge-i wud still ask him lol

morning everyone else, i really need to get of the house today am getting cabin fever but it's still thick with snow on the roads and im scared lol was meant to be going out with mrjack tonight but my sitter isnt well so he's coming over instead

there is no wedding or hen night to be seen, go about your business ladies!

my mechanic is still a happy chap, his mind is not on his work he says

belle - i've been thinking about this.. i think you should go.. find out if you do really like gymboy or just the company someone iykwim.

i have a sneaking suspicion you will really enjoy a date with sailor!!

lets face it gymboy hasn't exactly been a saint. so just go for it. dont lie. but you also dont need to tell him do you if he doesn't ask.

sponge - i wouldn't ask him after hearing what you say. some fellas like the banter and online and chatting up etc... but when it comes down to it they aren't actually interested in the RL date thing. i have a feeling he's one of those. specially if he's coming online but not speaking to you. have you not even got to the swapping of phone number stage yet?

asbm and monty - what did you get bf's for xmas...

and put your hats away.my only childfree night for next fortnight is xmas eve. asked irish if he fancied doing something. said he'd already planned a night out with the lads. he was then pressing for me to arrange another night before the wkd. but i've sidestepped. i'm going to leave it at that. if he wants to see me he'll come off his bender and head over here, or invite me out on xmas eve with his friends(that would be a huuuuge thing if he did though). i'm not going to arrange a sitter or go out my way... it seems to just "happen" in past. so i'll just sit back and see what happens.

i didnt realise you hadnt exchanged numbers, in which case id just let it go

mechanic is now coming round tonight under the excuse of bringing me tea bags to save me going out

so i am now going to manically dash about tidying up and pretend i dont live in a health hazard

lol what an excuse lou!

i know, will take him nearly an hour to get here from work lol

LOL at weddings and hen nights.

Meant to working so will b quick.

Most of us seem in festive mood - tbh will be glad when its all over.

I have got my Baileys though and have almost drunk my original supply of Xmas wine!!

Had two txts yesterday from the drama queen so not off the hook yet.

Also have been crying tears of frustration after convo with knob that is exh. He's so manipulative.

Originally agreed he wld have dcs tomorrow during the day and then for sleepover Wed night. Because he and newp now decided they want to travel Wed eve he wanted to change to tonite.

As you know ds2 has issues about going over there anyway (doesn't want to go). Asked both boys they said no. So told exh - could tell he was pissed off. Said ok well you MUST collect them at 11 on the dot on Thurs.

So now boys will be in the way while they're getting ready for their Xmas trip.

I also told him I might not be driving if weather gets worse which always throws him - he cant or wont drive - its his big secret!!

He is soo creeepy when he's being so manipulative it feels horrible to be on receiving end of it.

Its times like this when I feel I do need a partner to lean on.

I don't feel like going out either Lou.

we did travel to surbiton yesterday by train and bus - it was freezing [cold emoticon]

ds1 is asking if he can go to town with em, which means the others will want to as well, and mechanic is telling me its freezing out stay ion and he will bring what i need later

i look like ive been dragged through a hedge backwards

aside from the state of my chin, ive got no make up on , hair scurfed back and am wearing an old pair of ds1's jeans to do cleaning

house is looking better but it wont be perfect, as long as i can see an improvement though thats the main thing

Juicy - tbh I know it's gymboy I really like & not just the company. the sailor is starting to annoy me a bit as he's starting to get a bit too in your face for me (3 texts y'day when I didn't reply - was sleeping.) I know gymboy's not been easy but as I say - he's were my heart lays tbh.

anyhow will catch up properly tonight at home - oh and my car was broken into last night as well - wankers.

afternoon!
blimey lou you must be keen if you're going mad on the housework lol
scl friggin exh's i'm soo sick of mine would be the best xmas pressie ever if i never saw him again, and tho it's nice that i do have dp tbh it doesn't make it much easier except exh no longer abuses me on my doorstep partly because ds1 told him to leave me alone and also and prob.more likely as he's scared of dp!!
but just like yours he still finds lots of twisted little ways to undermine me or be unhelpful
belle i agree with juicy give sailor a whirl after all gb has mucked you about for ages.as for cheating this would only be the case if you were in a commited relationship with him
juicy fair play to you!but i kindof expect that you'll see him pre-xmas tbh.and i've just got dp some books,dvds and cds that he's wanted as well as a few bits from the dcs.
betty enjoy your evening!hope the snow situ eases round your way