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Where are all the fit,interesting and available men Pt.15

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 03/12/2009 10:34

jesus it's still running lol...

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hatesponge · 20/12/2009 21:45

hi all

well, my date on friday with Man no2 wasnt an unmitigated disaster - but I knew within 30 secs that I didnt find him in any way attractive. That seemed to take the pressure off & we had a pleasant chatty evening. He texted me on the way home to say thanks for a nice evening, but he didnt feel any attraction to me....which made me feel a bit down, dont know why especially since I didn't fancy him myself! I am truly pathetic sometimes.

Havent heard anything more from Man No 1 who clearly has broken finger syndrome! And facebook man is still chatting to me, but has made no effort to take it beyond that, so not really sure whats going on there if anything!

lou - nm sounds lovely (and his dog as well!)

thesouthsbelle · 20/12/2009 21:45

they will see thru it blondie - make no mostake.

glad you had a nice time with DP this weekend.

betty - I am indeed yes. not sure if you'll be able to add me or not (I'm suppose to be hidden on there - but am friends with eve & juicy so if you are as well should be able to find me)

thesouthsbelle · 20/12/2009 21:47

take the plunge hate - ask him for a date

Betty79 · 20/12/2009 21:58

hate-i agree with belle ask him out what u got to loose and i bet he doesnt say no!

asbm-glad u had a good weekend

belle-will have a look for u but dont want to add random people lol

lou-just seen u changed ur relationship status on facebook

thesouthsbelle · 20/12/2009 21:59

lol. well if I say my old MN log on was munz - should give you a clue.

hatesponge · 20/12/2009 22:00

belle - do you think so? I keep dithering over whether to or not....he seems interested, but then again he hasnt asked me yet

Janos · 20/12/2009 22:06

Good to see you asbm

Sorry to hear your XH is being a twunt but what's new? Hope your family sent him away with a bloody great flea in his ear.

I was certainly not happy to hear from FB bloke. He was/is a really nasty piece of work.

Glad you had a nice relaxing weekend with your lovely DP

Betty79 · 20/12/2009 22:07

hate-just say casually 'so are u gonna ask me out sometime' lol

Betty79 · 20/12/2009 22:11

belle-think ive found u lol have added u

DONTtouchMUMSfestiveJUICE · 20/12/2009 22:17

hate - go on... ask him!!

hatesponge · 20/12/2009 22:34

sods law - have just gone on to FB to ask him....and this would be the one time he's not bloody on there! lol

I could email him instead?....

Betty79 · 20/12/2009 22:39

I wud wait till he was on fb chat if it were me, cos id get a bit of chat going first but depends if ur more comfortable emailing?

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 20/12/2009 23:05

noo
let him ask you

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lou33 · 20/12/2009 23:18

yes, relationship status change

all v fast eh? but ive tried the othhr way, so why not just jump right in

hes still telling me how happy he is

hatesponge · 20/12/2009 23:21

asbm - so should I not ask then?

he is on FB now, however hasn't initiated any conversation yet. Sigh.

lou33 · 20/12/2009 23:22

sorry am v tired, ask what??

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 20/12/2009 23:26

entirely up to you sponge
if you've been chatting for a while i would have thought he'd have asked you by now

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LittleMontyontheDustyRoad · 20/12/2009 23:28

Evening all.

Lou - that's amazing. ASBM part II here! PMSL about Boris. Cute.

SCL - hmm let's hope stalker has crept back into his shell.

Belle - naughty girl with sailor lol.

Eve - good for you with two!

Janos - did you manage to block that one off your fb? As for other twunt, ignore him. It's tempting to write back an insult but not worth the energy.

ASBM - how's it going? Exh obv playing his usual tricks.

Betty - did you send your kitten to your mum's? Mine are a real handful I tell ya. Just put my tree up yesterday and I'm guarding it like a sentry lol.

Hate - chin up, NEXT! lol

Juice - lol at you and Irish. I think Boxing Day is going to be the teller here.

Hi to anyone I've missed, hope I haven't.

Nought to report here, loads more to do before xmas, just staying here with dp and dcs and then family coming on boxing day.

lou33 · 20/12/2009 23:31

I'm telling you that dog is so supercute, and impossible not to stroke cos he is so soft!

hatesponge · 20/12/2009 23:33

lou - sorry, am trying (and failing) to decide whether or not to ask my facebook man for a date.....

asbm- we've only chatted about 4 times over the course of a week,but i am horribly impatient! he has made lots of comments about how he couldnt resist me etc but no more than that...yet!

LittleMontyontheDustyRoad · 20/12/2009 23:34

Lol, he sounds lovely Lou.

I wish I had a dog instead of two stupid kittens!

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 20/12/2009 23:39

patience sponge lol
and in the meantime check out what other talent is available
if he's interested he'll be in touch esp.if he sees you're online

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lou33 · 20/12/2009 23:41

ask if he fancies a drink at some point, take it from there

i would

LittleMontyontheDustyRoad · 20/12/2009 23:43

Good idea using 'Sponge' instead of 'Hate' lol.

Question for you all.

Can I crack open the Xmas Bailey's?

lou33 · 20/12/2009 23:46

he is lovely

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