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I like a guy, now what?

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thesunshinesbrightly · 03/11/2009 22:49

I am single, out of a controlling relationship, i swore i would never like a man again, but i do, but i dont know if he likes me, i dont know if i want a relationship, but i do like him, do i tell him or leave it be, sorry this is gibberish, any advice welcome, thankyou.

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jamestkirk · 03/11/2009 23:14

ask him out - if he says yes then get to know each other and see where it goes - who knows - you might both be totally

thesunshinesbrightly · 03/11/2009 23:32

thankyou for replying, i thought i was alone I dunno, do i really what too get into all that, what if he doesnt like me? i'm not used to rejection, that does sound awful doesnt it

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jamestkirk · 03/11/2009 23:44

dont worry - he might like the sound of your gibberish

do a dummy run on me - see what you think

thesunshinesbrightly · 03/11/2009 23:48

i'm not really this gibberish.

cant do it,aint i awful.

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jamestkirk · 03/11/2009 23:49

youre terrible!!

i feel so let down - theres tears and everything

thesunshinesbrightly · 03/11/2009 23:50

hmm maybe, i will have some dutch courage the weekend, and who knows, oh god then i will be a gibberish drunk!!!!

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thesunshinesbrightly · 03/11/2009 23:51

non MN there, there, you should teach better then shouldnt ya

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jamestkirk · 03/11/2009 23:56

teach better? - always used to get 'must try harder' - some things never change

tho the hug has helped me get over it

thesunshinesbrightly · 04/11/2009 00:04

teach better? - always used to get 'must try harder' - some things never change

see, i cant even string a sentence together, what hope do i have, also, hope you were joking, because now i feel guilty.

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thesunshinesbrightly · 04/11/2009 00:07

See i'm terrible, i am just going too crawl back in my hole, why i am like this? very strange
it's not like i havent had my fair share of men( that isnt like how i have written)

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jamestkirk · 04/11/2009 00:13

you really should ask this guy out - or me - cos youve got me totally

and now i'm struggling to put a snetence together - must be all the feet kissing

thesunshinesbrightly · 04/11/2009 00:17

what if he pulls that face y'know the or

omg what if your him??

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thesunshinesbrightly · 04/11/2009 00:20

or what if he doesn't pull those faces and just tells me i am a raving loony!!!!!

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jamestkirk · 04/11/2009 00:23

i know - next time you think youll see him, take your mn carrier bag. just flash it at him and bat your eyelids - if he goes - then youll know its me

jamestkirk · 04/11/2009 00:26

erm....you are a raving loony - sure he wont mind - can be quite an endearing feature

thesunshinesbrightly · 04/11/2009 00:28

thankyou for your help.

ok question, what would you say if a gibberish wreck came too you and said 'how's about it love'

or even better, what shall i say? i dont normally do the asking, why hasnt he asked me? surely that must be a sign he doesnt like me??

i dont like me either i'm a nutter, i have just confirmed it, and now you will avoid threads with my name in fear i will talk too you.

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thesunshinesbrightly · 04/11/2009 00:31

oh my god! i must stay clear of caffine late at night, does nothing for me

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jamestkirk · 04/11/2009 00:37

maybe he's admiring you from afar and wouldnt think youd ever be interested so doesnt want to make a fool of himself - remember there was tears and everything earlier when i was let down with a thud

as for the 'hows about it love' - sighhh

jamestkirk · 04/11/2009 00:38

wondered what you were running on - happy skipping and sweet dreams

thesunshinesbrightly · 04/11/2009 00:43

maybe, oh well worth a shot, he can only say no, right?

you no likey the 'how's about it love' damn it, thought i had you with that one

to much coke( the drink) i have a weakness for it when i'm confused

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jamestkirk · 04/11/2009 00:50

you did have me with it - the sighhh was me swooning

try it on your fella - it cant fail

thesunshinesbrightly · 04/11/2009 00:56

Thankyou, you are a nice bloke (dont get many of them )

bid you goodnight, and i admire you for talking to a raving loony

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jamestkirk · 04/11/2009 00:59

oh shucks

nite to you too - from your fellow loon

jamestkirk · 05/11/2009 22:57

you found any dutch courage yet?

am just so on the edge of my seat waiting to hear if he turned and ran

thesunshinesbrightly · 06/11/2009 02:06

hi, no not yet have been talking to him though, but not found the courage yet, thanks for the advice the other night, and i will be sure too let you know the out come, wish me luck

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