I like a guy, now what?

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I am single, out of a controlling relationship, i swore i would never like a man again, but i do, but i dont know if he likes me, i dont know if i want a relationship, but i do like him, do i tell him or leave it be, sorry this is gibberish, any advice welcome, thankyou.

still dont get the panic, but anyway's i will enjoy my rock it is extremly comfy

thought for a minute there that you could be a local yokel

you mean joke??

nah - but fun and witty - and i expect quite cute under your rock

have exhausted me search for cars - night and sweet dreams

you too, night.

morning - this might just be a wild shot in the dark, so brace yourself before you shout at your comp - but have you thought that having a few kids may put him off a bit?

you see, when i first got to know my last gf i didnt just dive in and say 'how about it then?' - tho its what i was thinking. we chatted and got to know each other for probably a month or so before any serious flirting, and then i asked her out - and of course she said yes (this is about my last gf)

was only after we'd been together for a bit that she said she'd never thought she'd want to go out with a single parent.

if youre still keen, then despite having already blurted out your intentions - you could back off a bit and get to know each other - he may now be a complete dufuss

Hi Morning,

No i'm not going too shout, i'm not the shouting type(only if someone hurts my kids)

He is dufuss, but that's what i like about him,he's different from every bloke i have been out with, i have givin up(i think) if he want's me he know's where i am.

yeh it could be the kid's, don't blame him

O.k, i need you too stop me talking too him, i am soooooooooooooooo done, and i'm just making a fool out of myslef!!!!!!!!!!!

stop it!!!!

dont keep getting in touch with him if he's not calling you or wanting to see you. is one thing to chat as friends - but not to throw yourself at him!

most blokes like a challenge - so the easier you make it the less effort they put in. and dont mean to patronize (me also being a single parent) but considering your cirumstances he should be trying to charm you - not the other way round.

and of course - not everyone is put off by a bunch of kids - is just a case of finding a decent fella, happy hunting

It's ok, i have a date, whoop whoop whoop whoop!!!! did i say whoop??

cool

have fun

A date!

Now how did you manage that?

I just sorta easied it into conversation

no date is set in stone but we are meeting up and he knows, i was giving him the come on, think he was playin hard too get.