wait wait wait wait..... did he tell you he was worried about your fiestiness too.
wtf..... belle....?????
why are you still talking to him. sorry to be harsh.
but he's spinning you bullshit.
pof... who gives a toss if he's still limited. if he was genuinely interested (albeit confused as he puts it), he wouldn't be entertaining talking to anyone on POF.NO MATTER WHAT
stop making excuses for him please. even if it genuinely is this chat about hockey or whatever he spun you before (is that right... it was hockey he told you he was chatting with someone before??)
he would give them his PM as to not upset you.
this is crap, he has no consideration for your feelings at all!!
he's stringing you along and still looking online.
he's single and has been for 4 years because he likes it that way.not because he's shit at relationships. just because he's a shit.
come on belle.
shake yourself and look from the outside. why oh why are you letting any man get away with messing you around like this.
are you going to let this slide to the point where he's going to be cheating on you, as i know you wont see anyone else, but he will be while he "sorts" his head.
here's a list of things i have seen so far.
he's unreliable (doesn't call or show when supposed to)
he's lying/diceitful (being back on pof)
he likes to use you as an emotional crutch. hence he wants you to hang on till he finds someone without DC. giving him attention and sex/emotional support as he doesn't want to be single.
self absorbed. (cancels on you to do things he wants to)
come on ladies... surely there's some i've missed but too angry to think of.