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Where have all the fit and interesting men gone part 12a

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lou33 · 30/09/2009 08:39

seeing as there has been discussion about using 13

(not that it bothers me)

i feel sorry for myself my back is still playing up, and i just tripped and made it hurt in the usual lower back place

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thesouthsbelle · 19/10/2009 20:27

oh god sin is he ok?

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lou33 · 19/10/2009 20:42

i did mean to post earlier, saying maybe something had happened if it was so out of character, but got sidetracked

i hope he is ok

what thread?

what did workh say?

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 19/10/2009 21:21

jesus scl hope he's ok..and how are you feeling now?
what a terrible shock for you,hope you are coping with the news

aseriouslyblondemoment · 19/10/2009 21:24

please don't be hard on yourself here xx

sincitylover · 19/10/2009 21:31

it happened weekend before last. he didn' t go to a and e but very shook up and has got lots of cuts to face and head - said he would send me photo (as I sent him photo of my black eye lol)

he went to his dsis bf for most of week and went bk to work today.

I kept saying how guilty I felt cos I had written him off - but also said he should have told me - well he should have shouldn't he? Not sure how things will pan out now but I do feel rather bad!!

My naughty ds1 posted on a thread about the article about Stephen Gately - nothing too bad but rather weird. He has been warned never to do it again - I wouldn't do same to him when he leaves his email or social networking open.

Whbby - bit embarassing but caught me off guard - it was a comment about my physical appearance. Genuine I believe and no-one said it before. Felt like when the midwives were nice to me when dss were born. Touched!!

Janos · 19/10/2009 21:39

Oh dear SCL - sounds like he was genuine then! Hope he's ok.

I'd be feeling same, a bit guilty and then thinking well why didn't you tell me FFS ?!

As for your DS well not doubt mine will be attempting same in a few years. He's already showing a keen interest in the emoticons - 'you made a sad face mummy'

lou - good stuff

Janos · 19/10/2009 21:40

southsbelle - you are right about lists. Lists keep me calm..

(Well, calm-ish)

aseriouslyblondemoment · 19/10/2009 21:45

scl please don't beat yourself up(easily said i know!)but without wishing to seem harsh he should have told you unless this really isn't meant to be between you both.
and tbh it would ring alarm bells with me that a) his failure to tell you aft.such a long time and b) that deep down you weren't desp fussed except for your pride
i would feel awful now if i were in your shoes and tbh i feel a bit as tho i'm speaking out of turn but i know you would say the same thing to me,it's what us girls on this thread do

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lou33 · 19/10/2009 21:45

why on earth didnt he bother letting you know why he was awol ?

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 19/10/2009 21:53

second that lou
if we're wondering then god knows how scl must feel?
tbh am feeling a mixture of both annoyance and concern on your behalf
please look after yourself scl as you have already got enough going on atm

sincitylover · 19/10/2009 22:04

yes agree he can only do the shy cancerian crab for so long!!

sensitive soul

I was sympathetic but harsh(ish)at the same time.

Not really thinking anything atm.

Don't worry girls I feel on the level about this.

And ASBM don't think you are speaking out of turn at all.

sincitylover · 19/10/2009 22:13

Hope Ninah is OK

aseriouslyblondemoment · 19/10/2009 22:13

scl i know you don't,but as you know sometimes it's good to hear it iyswim so you don't feel that it's just you thinking it,
part of the beauty of this thread
so how does this leave things now?

sincitylover · 19/10/2009 22:16

don't know really.

I won't be taking my profile off site. Let's just see what happens

aseriouslyblondemoment · 19/10/2009 22:27

as long as you're sorted and happy that's all that matters really,it's not selfish believe me-divorcees united lol
im off to bed hope you sleep well x

dontouchTHEMUMMYSpecialjuice · 20/10/2009 07:54

scl - sorry about samename accident... but agree with the others... wtf not tell you???

janos - good luck with the move. will try and catch you on msn when i get chance.

thesouthsbelle · 20/10/2009 08:14

morning all.

Wonder how Ninah is getting on - hopefully it was good news as we didn't hear from her.

scl - he'd had the crash a week ago, agree thou poor form again on his part for not telling you, as you were not that bothered per se maybe this is a blessing in disguise?

Janos - DS said the same to mum last week when I was upset over gymboy, I'd told him mummy was feeling a little poorly (like when I had depression) but he apparently said to mum, why's my mummy crying, why is she sad.

anyhow, spoke to gymboy in the end for 40 mins in the end, both said we missed talkin to each other. bit unsure of my choice now, but think it's the only way forward. He's now saying 'back to drawing board re his career'

notevenamousie · 20/10/2009 08:21

Hi everyone,
Feel a bit strange writing on here on a rather packed train! But have finished my presentation and have my broadband dongle so why not.
scl - oh no! - but he should have let you know, definitely. I hope you can be concerned and cross in the right measure when you speak to him.
ninah - thinking of you. It's so hard to know what's right but no beating yourself up, ok?

I saw NM on Sunday before he flew off again with work. I have more stunning flowers - dd raised her eyebrows and said, well, they are nice mummy but I think they are going to be in my way! funny child. Looking forward to this weekend, I miss him so much and have totally fallen for him. . And he's said all that stuff too and more besides but it's too nauseating much to share!

aseriouslyblondemoment · 20/10/2009 09:27

aww..bless!
is our mousie a little bit loved up

scl how are you feeling this morning?
ninah have you both managed to sort things out?
belle as ever trust your gut
sparky all must be fine with you as well(yay!)as you've gone awol
lou's been quiet too so i guess alls good with you too?

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lou33 · 20/10/2009 10:02

i'm fine, just had stuff irl interfere with my online life

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thesouthsbelle · 20/10/2009 10:39

mousie - so glad you're so loved up.

blondie - if I knew what it was saying i'd listen lol. No I am decided. Lets see what tonight brings thou, he's still being usual self which I can handle but the wanting to kiss/hug/stop etc I'm not sure i'll be able to (hence why i'm saying no to that).

Am excited thou to be meeting up. Just gotta hope I don't scream like a big girls blouse!

sincitylover · 20/10/2009 13:36

fine this morning thanks. Samename sent me a photo. Doesn't look too bad but it is a week old and I'm sure he was shaken up.

thesouthsbelle · 20/10/2009 16:57

if u spoke during the week then wy didn't he mention it?

one text from gymboy today so don't think tonight's gonna be happening - have a suspicious mind he'll have a 'wobbler' again. in which case, I need stable people around me even as friends!

thesouthsbelle · 20/10/2009 17:09

on the plus side thou only 6 weeks till my 2 sailor friends are home

sincitylover · 20/10/2009 17:51

no we didn't speak during last week.

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