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Where have all the fit and interesting men gone part TWELVE

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lou33 · 07/09/2009 17:38

starts here

why would you bin off gymboy before asking about it?

he may well just have been checking mail or hiding a profile or something, talk to him before you dump him

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lou33 · 20/09/2009 17:02

hello monty

i dont get to meet up with lb v often, what with one thing and another, but we keep in touch every day somehow

most days we catch up for an hour or so in the evening on msn

its good that irish seems better suited to your life though

what will you say to bb?

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Monty100 · 20/09/2009 17:10

Hi Juicy, that's why I did the with the RJ bit I figured you were Juicy lol.

Quite a few loved up here. Good to see.

DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 20/09/2009 17:10

my sister thinks i should use words like "unavailable time resources "... and other odd phrases that suit his work

try and keep it friends and that we will see how we are placed in a few months time

aproblem will be meeting with him... will be difficult to resist having the "final fuck"

gosh.... the phrases my female friends and i use between us is appaling aren't they.

its good you get decent chat on msn. i really only get 10-20 mins on msn in morning with bb and perhaps 1 text. calls about once a week.

thesouthsbelle · 20/09/2009 17:12

juicy/lou - ah thanks girls never thought maybe he liked using it himself! apologise profusely thou am thinking it's ok now but still feels a little weird - but prob as we're both totally knackered right now.

juicy - like the sound of irish. as you say natural selection - did you reply to beachbum yet, are we going to promote him just yet?

might well let NS stay over but am cautious as DS wakes in the night. (no need to worry about the orgasm front - he has that bit well & truly covered )

monty hello & welcome back.

thesouthsbelle · 20/09/2009 17:15

I guess i'm quite lucky with the calls front - althou y'day was a bit much - I have prob 2 texts a day plus 2 calls at least of about 20 mins. and FB chat as well if we're both around together, plus seeing each other - god that's loads actually!

better not screw it up lol. althou he's been going on about his family's businesses y'day/cars etc. I did say at one point I wasn't interested at all as it's him I like not the family but bit worried he might think i'm only after his money. (totally not btw)

DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 20/09/2009 17:22

i was worried about the night waking. but irish snored his way through it

typical male.

but when he asked, i fully explained all possiblities that could occur. and that i was concerned if they happened on his first night over he might run a mile. and explained that he would be strictly hidden.. and could not under any circumstances make his prescence known when we are so early on in getting to know each other.

wont promote him to NM just yet. beachbum text in the early hours of this morning. irish never said anything.... but could see him wondering. only replied to him about an hr ago.

notevenamousie · 20/09/2009 17:27

Hi everyone, I've had a busy domestic day with dd today. Still thinking over Friday night a lot. He is so genuinely gentle and kind, no-one has ever treated me like this. I am still overwhelmed by the flowers!
I think I am falling too fast again, no change there...

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lou33 · 20/09/2009 17:29

i just remembered i pulled out a pack of condoms on friday night in public thinking they were my cigarettes lol

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notevenamousie · 20/09/2009 17:34

Oh, and I have lube and condoms in my house, would not expect anyone to judge me for them!

DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 20/09/2009 17:55

mousie - are you prone to falling for them too quickly.. or jumping in too quickly.

lou - rofl...at condoms

thesouthsbelle · 20/09/2009 18:16

I guess, shouldn't have been so hasty to judge.

mousie - glad you're sounding loved up as well.

lou!!!

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lou33 · 20/09/2009 18:34

just as well i do nnot get embarrassed eh?

i offered them as well, said do you want a fag?

looked down , realised, said oh not those they are condoms

and got the fags out

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notevenamousie · 20/09/2009 18:57

My message just got eaten!!
Anyway, I think it said, lou, good for you, I would have been , am struggling to talk to tT about sex despite having worked in gynaecology for a few years. Hope the condoms were put to their right use later on

RJ - both I guess, really good question to think about though. I can do casual, and not really think, but as soon as I let my emotions engage a bit it seems to be all-or-nothing. And I am really so very taken with tT.

Dreading work tomorrow, sigh.

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lou33 · 20/09/2009 19:01

yes he is an accomplished balloon sculptor

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Remotew · 20/09/2009 19:16

Hi everyone, welcome back Monty.

I'm back from my date. It went well I think. He's nice, very down to earth, I'm was trying to get over his accent although I've chatted to him over the phone a few times.

Also he mentioned on his profile that he was tactile, well he wasn't kidding. lol

notevenamousie · 20/09/2009 19:20

What accent, eve? Glad you had a nice and snuggly time!
lou glad to hear it. When do you see him next?
rj so what are you going to say to beachbum?

Remotew · 20/09/2009 19:24

Just to say we are in the posh part of the north and people with his accent are usually from the wrong side. Just need to remember that job wise he is on the right side.

OK no more cryptic clues, hes a scoucer!!(sp).

thesouthsbelle · 20/09/2009 19:42

ooh my guiddy aunt eve a scoucer!!! lol.

althou they're nice people.

glad it all went well for you thou, do we have a second date on the horizon?

lou.

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lou33 · 20/09/2009 19:47

oh i am glad it went well eve

not sure when we will meet again, we havent fixed a date, just that we will

it didnt feel like we had to iyswim

i need to talk to him about something tonight so maybe we will discuss it then

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giveupfornow · 20/09/2009 20:02

am a lurker, just wanted to ask your girls advice on what you do when you suddenly get a bit down about being on your own.

ive been on pof for a while, and have met 3 blokes, one for sex, who did say would call me but didnt ( hardly a surprise, but i dont regrett it as it was a good shag!)
two this weekend, both were terrible and i wanted to leave after about 30 seconds.

Id been talking to this other guy for hours and hours online, he got the huff with me as i wouldnt agree with something he said ( idiot)

i just sort of feel a bit dispondent and have hidden my profile on pof... does anyone know how to delete it? its the same old faces, same messages time and time again, and i cant be doing with it anymore.

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lou33 · 20/09/2009 20:14

you should be able to hide or delete it from the same link on your profile setting, there is something that says, to delete your profile click here iirc

mine has been hidden for ages now, i got sick of it too

i have a message waiting for me but i cant be arsed, i know who it is from and have no inclination to even read it

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Remotew · 20/09/2009 21:31

giveupfornow, just hide your profile for a while if you are feeling despondent. Settings let you do this. I know the feeling. Then when you are ready again unhide go on it often and see who seeks you out.

Yes, another date is on the horizon for next Saturday night, this time for a meal, I have offered to sort him out with accommodation, not at mine but a friends guest house. Will see how it goes.

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lou33 · 20/09/2009 21:37

should be seeing lb friday week, if all goes to plan

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Remotew · 20/09/2009 21:46

Good Lou, glad it's going well.

Mousie, do you know many scousers then?

Remotew · 20/09/2009 21:48

Sorry Mousie, meant to say Belle. lol

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