good evening all - isn't it a jolly day hmmm.... lol. have just seen gymboy, arranged a date for tomorrow and got a really cute smile as well - am a happy chappy, oh and he sent me a text after to say (and I quote ' you looked well hot in the gym then' ) ahhhh all together now. date tomorrow i'm picking him up from his so will take the opportunity to pounce and see what his moves are like!
Having fun - i'm size 14 - well jsut sliming into a 12 but only with a muffin top, and am 5'2, I always wear smart jeans, boots and a smart dressy top for a frist date, second date has the same but not such a smart top, third date - well that's tomorrow, erm not sure, suppose i'd better carry on making an effort! it looks fine thou, the heels will slim line your body a bit more if that makes sence, at least that's waht I find as it makes your legs look longer instead of stumps (like mine!) agree first date should be when you're child free, (or at least can be home after 11 with free babysitters) and also agree somewhere public, tell at least 2 people where you're off to with his number as well as getting them to ring you (or at least I pop out to the loo every half hour/hour just to text my mate that all is going OK and am safe) she's fully used to it now dating rules, not really any from me, jsut don't expect that they'll be the same in RL as they are online/over the phone, i've been on plenty of dates where they're the total opposite, and if you don't get on be honest about it with yourself as well. no point settling for second best when our prince is out there somewhere. Re family baby sitting, I ask mum to sit (I know this will sound stupid) but mum sits and I say to her i'm out with a friend, but always say where I'm going, then I tell my friend that mums sitting & that i'll text her, usually then i'll come clean to mum and tell her - I usually go to a place 2 mins away and also drive myself so don't have to worry too much, plus friend's other half usually is v good and will come down if needed)
scl - agree witht he others make him suffer a bit, n milk it! but only in a jokey way. also are we not meant to only be after these men for their bodies then? are we suppose to like the mind bit as well?? - bummer!
Lou - OMG 30 mins of badgering you - did you not ask him if he was desperate or anything, cos I know usually you're not one to mince your words! it's horrid when men do that.
Janos - fingers crossed for your new chappy.
rj - OMG seriously MIL types don't think that do they?? i'm of the view take me as you find me or bugger off (but obv more politely than that! ) diplomacy & tact of course but you get the jist. ho hum... will see, apparently his dad's not right keen on english people so could you imagine his eldest boy, son n aire being corrupted by an english gal! lol.
Anyhow hope everyone's having a good night.