Where have all the fit and intersting men gone part 10 (part 10...already?!)

[Janos]

Yay, I get to start this one!

Anyways hey to Dee and mousie, the more the merrier I say

i agree janos, hes just a bag of wank really

hellllo everyone,

so... any dates for this wkd.

no doubt the lovely asbm will be snuggled up to actionman.

itm - seeing marathon?

ninah - hows things with bf? you've been quiet about him, assuming your all loved up again?

scl - whats happening with samename? and did you contact mrblack?

hows everyone else getting on with their fishing?

no date for me this wkd. got a packed wkd planned with the girls so no space to see bigT, will just be content with relentless texting

was snuggled up to my man last night actually

am having a weekend on my tod as dcs at their dad's and nm working
don't mind too much tbh as desp in need of some r & r after a few weeks of 24/7 dcs and the summer hols looming.
scl-????

morning all, just a quick nosey on here before I begin my action packed weekend with the dcs.

asbm, am so pleased for you that every thing seems to be going well after all those doubts you had at the beginning

I see the crown is still up in Scotland with rj, thats what I like to see, consistency

Will be seeing nm (now called grandpa) on Monday and then Friday as we will be flying out to Geneva for the weekend, so am happy to be on my own with the dcs for the moment.

Good luck to those with dates, and happy fishing to the rest of you.

weekend in geneva good on you itm!
you know me rj, I veer from loved up to pssed off ... atm he is getting on my tits, for no good reason at all
he has taken ds off with his dc today for a boys' trip, so it really is quite unfair
you know that there are things about people that wind you up, and you have to decide how far that matters in the scheme of things
when I see him again I'm sure I will feel more enthusiastic
you don't seem to run out of text convo with big T do you? I think this is one to watch
how's everyone else?

aww thanks itm
how lovely to be jetting off to geneva!
yes have to admit nm has won me round despite my laying it on the line to him at the beginning,i am still v.firmly keeping my feet on the ground here i hasten to add!!
i guess it goes to show that there are some decent ones out there but you need to meet lots of numpties first!!

Rofl @ ninah
aww bless him he's harmless!

is it just me or has anyone else got an ovulation calculator on their screen

Hi I'm back anyone miss me? lol

I've scanned but could do with an update.

Lou but better finding out now than later.

I had a fab week in the sun. Very relaxing. On the man front I sampled some Turkish Delight . He was tall, attractive, not Turkish looking iyswim and on holiday from his city job. He offered me a massage as he claimed to have done a course. I've had a professional massage before and that was nothing like it . It wasn't full on but hey I was on holiday and was attracted to him. It was his last night and I found him wandering around the courtyard looking for me to say bye the next morning. Sweet. Did I mention he was 29!

I couldn't leave DD alone for 5 mins without some Turkish boy pouncing. One from the beach was drop dead gorg but she was terrified! So not ready yet.

Friends with benefits is acting wierd. Asked me to go visit him 60 miles away. Told him I was far too busy then he asked if he could drive over this afternoon. I said OK so will have to go and get ready soon. We are going for a drink later.

Hope everyone is having fun.

i have nothing to report aside from a hideous hangover , and a string of messages from a male friend of 26 (do you remember him, i have known him for 5 yrs, before i even split with my xh, he was friends with both of us?) saying how much he misses me

he has said he will come see me tomorrow but he is such a flake i can never be sure

eve lol

oh it's him again lou?

he will always bob in and out of my life, he even deletes my number so he cant contact me, but then gets it from another mutual friend again after a while and gets back in touch

it will always be that way until he sort himself out wrt me
and actually i have a funny feeling he has moved to just round the corner from mandolin man

that could be handy seeing as he is a kickboxer lol

hahaha!

he he - I do that deleting no thing but I always have it written down on several pieces of paper just in case of emergency!! LOL

Just had another look at mrblack1 (take a look someone) and have to say I am tempted to message him back - he looks like fun!!

Not much else to report - samename and I had a brief chat yesterday - said he would ring later on but nada. He's bit laid back like that.

Not much other news - on the theme of nicknames have a nickname for exh (luxurydad) and my friend thought of one for his p - supernanny!! Bit childish I know but funny all the same.

Eve - your hol sounds great - wouldn't mind a massage from a young fit Turkish guy (dirty old lady emoticon).

I get fed up with the ones who are in and out of my life then again it probably suits me as I cannot handle a 24/7 that's why I've said OK to friends with benefits.

Do you want to see him again Lou?

lol scl

we know a lot of people in common, but usually it is the friend who came round last night he gets it from, as he bumps into her most frequently

in fact it was her phone he used to cal me in tears saying he missed me the night i was scratching the batman itch

i told him last night he does my head in (friend not batman)

at dirty old lady. I did try to disuade him and told him to go and dance with some of the lovely young girls or go with his mate to the pole dancing club but he wasn't budging so I gave in.

scl?!
is this the end for samename?

he will always be my friend even if i dont see him for 10 yrs, frustrating as he can be and the flake he is, and the fact we have fallen out from time to time

i've known him 5 yrs like i said, and yes we have had sex with each other before, but i reckon in all that time i could count the amount of nights we spent like that on one hand

so it isnt really about sex, we have spent more nights together sharing a bed and nothing going on i would say

which i have to say at times was a bit difficult on account of his wonderful physical appearance, but probably for the best at the times in question

lou - at scatches batman itch

asbm - we're all pleased you've found a decent fella. goes to show they exist. hope your enjoying your bit of peace this wkd though. are you missing him yet?

ninah - must be good that he can take ds away without you without any problems though? do you not enjoy the break while knowing he's safe and happy

eve - them young turkish delights can be tasty. not that i would know , honest i'm an angel

nothing new here. went to gla science centre today. kids had a ball.then rushed around visiting various family members, gotta send kids off for the night and going to get
ready for night out with the girls tonight.

still text big T all through day as per usual. but he's had minimal contact from me today as busy.only 4 compared to the usual 40+

scl - so is samename back in the bin again?

llaj,dp,janos and everyone else......where are you and whats your news

are you treating him mean today rj?!
yes thanks am enjoying a bit of peace this weekend but am catching up on chores lol
and yes do miss him a bit but not in a sad way iyswim
holly rang me earlier she says a big hello to everyone
she's doing just fine btw enjoying her divorcee status and getting her new business venture up and running
so here's to her eh?!

Evening all, My man has been away visiting his maw and paw so will be seeing him tomorrow. Am looking forward to seeing him as I haven't seen him for two weeks. He has just text me to say he has landed and has bought me a present

Was a near miss that I wouldn't see him tomorrow though as exh is away this weekend and my regular babysitter isn't free. Luckily, (does that sound selfish?) a friend of dd's asked if she could go over and play for the day, to the fayre etc etc so I will be free all day.

Eve-where in Turkey did you go? I have been thinking of it as a maybe for next year.