Where have all the fit and intersting men gone part 10 (part 10...already?!)

[Janos]

Yay, I get to start this one!

Anyways hey to Dee and mousie, the more the merrier I say

just popping in for a nosey!
dp you're not at all selfish far from it
we all need our me time
can't remember your exh situ has he met anyone else?
does he know about your nm?
and what does dd think?
my exh is ridiculously jealous of my dcs relationship with my nm and has reminded ds1 that he's the daddy
am expecting lots of verbal shite when they're dropped off tomorrow as ds1 has not only got a pic of nm on his phone but has been texting him thru the day too
fgs i'd be pleased if my ex met someone who was good to the dcs but hey no not him
he conveniently forgets that if he had been a better father/husband in the first place then there wouldn't be a new bloke in our lives

asbm-exh knows nothing of nm man yet and dd has yet to meet him.

was thinking I may wait until my divorce is finalised as I am having financial shit with him as he has been made redundant.

That said I don't think exh would bat an eyelid-though he may have something to say where dd is concerned.

I'm no fortune teller but I think dd will get on fine with nm, she's a confident type and he's really looking forward to meeting her.

how far thru it have you left to go?
and yes it's amazing how these exs use their dcs as weapons
mine is absolutely seething atm
and tho i'm honestly not getting off on it i just think that it's his own sorry mess and his loss
have you spoken to dd about mummy having a relationship at all?

i had an unexpected visitor last night, who i wasnt meant to see til this afternoon

my boys were delighted to see him, and had a frenzied wrestling session with him, until they were purple in the face

he says he is coming back later this evening but he is such a flake i will believe it when i see it

this is the plumber btw

happy sunday everyone,

dying a horrendous hangover today.

had a good night last night but my friends were almost disowned after thoroughly embarrassing me.

extremely fit bloke, i flirted at bar. came back to my friends and we proceeded to make eyes for a bit, all going swimmingly, just waiting for next round so i could head to the bar and flirt some more..........when my piss head friend (40+ extremely successful not a screaming 25yo) decided to go over and use the line.... "my mate fancies you"

no shit sherlock......we had already figgered that.

that was that..... completely crushed that. i couldn't even look in his direction, never mind continue any further. i was mortified and so was he... as my friend did it infront of all his friends who started taking the piss and being lewd.

awww rj you shouldve brazened it out

i told my plumber about mandolin man and his behaviour, and he was dsigusted

turns out he doesnt live that far away from him, and is going to look out for him next time he is in their local pub and have a word lol

well samename and me (I?)seemed to have got our wires crossed again. Spoke last night, all fine, about meeting for lunch I thought today but perhaps he thought next weekend.

He did say his dm was unwell but wld usually phone. I am in a weird mood (combo of pmt, saying goodbye to dcs , stressed abt job i/v tomorrow) anyway. DCs really pushing me to limit friday and yesterday and fighting this morning.

Quite hp being alone today so haven't called him. Don't think wld be very good company really.

He did say one odd thing on phone last nite, in mid of convo said "if I ever meet dcs" thought the word if was telling.

doh he was waiting for me to ring him and me him!

Apparently I said would ring him after my landlord had been round!!

He's coming round tomorrow.

that's good scl

and fingers crossed for the interview

thanks lou.

Samename is a bit passive I think. (except when it comes to coke cans lol)

I wasn't ringing him because I was being stubborn tho in the wrong. He said he'd been sitting by phone all day.

he is just trying to make you feel bad, dont let him!

I don't!

Evening ladies, hope you've all had a good day.

Have been with nm all day, he's back from his parents and bought me some lovely perfume He seemed nervous of giving it to me as he wasn't sure I would like it and looked relieved when I said it was a really good choice!

It's his birthday this week and I have been wondering what on earth to buy for him? In the end I opted for a timberland long sleeve tshirt and an Al Pacino dvd boxset. Wasn't really sure what to buy him as although I have been seeing him for 4 months I didn't a) want to look like I'd researched it for hours and b) spend silly amounts of money because-well, that wouldn't be 'cool' would it?

my lovely plumber couldnt come back cos his dd wasnt well, he ended up taking her to hospital with her mum, they think she may have swine flu, so he is gonna be there all night, she is 3

dp-that sounds fine i'm sure he'll like it and if he doesn't then tough lol
scl-fingers crossed and sending you pos.vibes for the interview
well as expected exh has been working on the dcs with mind games over the w/e

what's he been doing?

morning lou
whats the latest on the lo?
will msn you!

Morning all

I will have to read back a few pages to see what has been happening but I hope all is well and good.
My false alarm was just that (thank god). Considering I have made it this many years and never had one made me extra paranoid.
Have a date with pe teacher on Sunday and have been emailing with a another guy who seems nice and somewhat normal. That is about it on the news front for me.
Oh am off to Italy for 2 weeks soon!!!!

hi everyone and thanks to the kicks up the backside rj and asbm memo to self bf is Very Nice, and Very Nice Men Do Not Grow on Trees. There. as you were.
I really am v erratic in my feelings for him, would hate a partner like me ... will be extra Nice to him tonight OK? once I shake off the rest of my hangover that is
Is funny cos we obv have not met in rl but ths is the kind of straight talking I really need from time to time!
Turkey sounds - well, yes, Delightful, eve, glad you had a good hol
asbm what's happening post pick up of dc? do hope you ok x
on the delicate matter of what they call on here Aunt Flo - anyone else?

mine started yesterday

no news on the little girl of my plumber

the hospital are treating her as tho she has swine flu he just said, shes not v well at all

Dollparts I went to a place called Otakent (sp) Bodrum/Gumbet area, the Hotel was called Medisun and I would recommend it as a relaxing cheap allinclusive holiday.

ASBM I was wondering about holly, good to hear she is doing well.

Mumsnet is typing slowly recently, is it just me?

Turkish Delight found me on facebook and was chatting to me on Saturday night while Friends with Benefits was in the shower.

We have had a lovely weekend together. He dragged me out for a walk yesterday. Went for a meal last night with DD, had a walk by the river afterwards. DD likes him cos he doesn't smoke, drink to excess etc. Shame he doesn't see me as gf material. I always enjoy his company but have to try not to develop feelings for him as he likes to keep on the move. Also he is 13 years my junior!

he sounds lovely eve, is it just his age that makes you think it wouldnt work in any other capacity?

well i am dosed up on valium, thanks to my gp whom i may ask to run away with me (hurt my back lifting my ds and his wheelchair)

anyway i said to the kids they should probably call their father and guess what, he didnt pick up on either of his phones, and i let them try from both my mobile and the landline

and that tosser moans about not speaking to them

my plumber is back at the hospital with his daughter today

Hope your back gets better Lou, valium should help.

It's not just the age thing with FWB, we have known each other for 3 years, met a year before that briefly.

Started seeing each other but he tried again with his babies mother, just saw each other occasionally when that ended mainly just as friends but recently we have been more than that.

He is upfront that he still has dates etc. Shame as we get on well. He's going to try and make the festival if he can get a ticket which is great cos he has a superb camper van. All mod cons.

my oldest just sent me a text ( ihave sent her to the shop to get something for us for dinner fromt he lovely cook range of food), saying a random young blonde guy just came up to her asking how i was

i am wracking brains to think who it might be

lol

she said he is doing some gardening nearby and good looking

dammit i cant drive to see who it is!