inthemist - do you not feel sexually "phwoarr"? or just a bit neutral about it? or does that thought give you heeby jeebies.
if its either of the first 2, but get on in every other fashion then it is possible that those feelings could come later as he "grows" on you.
but if its the 3rd option and you really cant imagine being sexual then this is going no where in a relationship terms i would say. it will stay a friendship.
the slow burning relationship where its their personality that you like that eventually makes you atrracted to them in all senses are the longest lasting and most stable i find.
those ones with fireworks and passion often are too highly charged to sustain a lasting relationship.once then high energy start wears off and things settle. you often feel it's a struggle if you aren't drawn to their personality as much as the fireworks.
very very rarely fo you find couples who have the combination of adoring each others personalities, and great fireworks, without having arguements to go with those fireworks.
"chemistry" is as much a mental state of mind for a woman as it is a physical attraction.
mind you....... i talk a lot of bollocks sometime...infact... most of the time.