Lol lou clearly you have something special
Oh, exbf had got in touch and we were getting on ok. He is at a party tonight with his family in Edinburgh and I was invited (obv I'm not there now for reasons which will shortly become clear).
Anyway we arranged to meet at a coffee shop and then we would head back to mine and have tea.
Not ten minutes into arriving he started inot a bitter horrible rant, which I have heard before many a time, about how you could only get a job if you had been to private school or ytour name was 'Goldberg'. Honestly I felt my heart sink as I knew he was winding up to the real unpleasantness.
NB This was all precipitated by the fact that he was not invited for interview - every bloody time he takes it very personally and gets really angry and wound up which is ridiculous. Anyway here comes the unplesant bit. And I quote:
"I end got turned down for a washing up job by a bunch of fucking p*kis"
At this point I lost my temper (no ranting and raving). I pulled some money out of my purse and told him to turn round and go back home ads I was sick of listening to his filth and didn't want to spend any more time with him. My parting shot, not nice I admit was "Maybe you wouldn't have such a problem finding work if you weren't such a chippy arsehole".
I then went out and left him to it.
TBH I have tried, tried and tried with him and made so many excuses but I have come to conclusion he is just a bitter, miserable individual who is not actually interested in making any effort to change and I'm wasting my valuable energy and free time being nice to him.
Blimey, that turned into a real rant didn't it. Good to get it out tho.