where have all the fit,interesting and available men gone?[part 8]

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

oh jesus lou
it's turn your phone off time
but then why the hell should you have to?

i think it is more coincidence that they have all pitched up together wrt my situation

they are all nice guys but i wont hold my breath, if that's ok

Thank you lou. By god I was really steaming mad on Friday.

I'm such a gentle easy going soul and it takes a lot to make me angry!

Nothing wrong with plain old nice guys at all. I hope you have some well deserved fun

oh i dont blame you at all for your reaction

as for these guys, i am not convinced i have enough energy to do anything about them, though number 3 guy always cheers me up when i feel gloomy, definitely a huge flirt but in a nice way, and made it v clear today he would love to see me again

spanish guy i have less contact with but have known him the longest iyswim,also very nice and a bit cheeky, he is the oldest of the bunch, just, he has a bit of a naughty look in his eye which is quite appealing

and the other guy is probably the most average joe of the lot,

he is the one i have spent most time with, but just as friend, although somehow we have ended up agreeing to give some thought over the weekend as to a proper date

none of them live that close to me, which i like , 2 in london and one in reading

asbm what a shame - tho good you found out before date - what was it? or would you rather not say
janos but you did the right thing, comment included

hi all
thought id posted earlier but obv i didn't lol probs with site i think
ninah its not a story that can be posted here have told a few of the girls who are on my msn etc,if i had yours would tell you too
basically i had a v lucky escape from what is an obviously messed up man with drink and drug issues

God alot has been happening since Friday and not much of it good it seems

Lou - am speechless

ASBM - sounds like a lucky escape but not pleasant either and disheartening to find out another one is not up to much

Janos - again not good. Sounds like a twat.

Ninah - am back to having the odd cigarette so know how it feels

As for me well I spent from Fri night to this morning with Samename1. He joined me and some of my workmates on Friday evening. The wine we were drinking was really very strong and the end of the evening was quite hazy.

Yesterday we went for a walk around my local area, went to the pub (I wasn't drinking) and then had a takeaway in the evening.

It all went well though I did find it strange to be in such intmate adult company for that length of time. I have simply got out of the habit.

We have quite alot in common and on the whole we get on well. Two minor irritations on my part - he kept going on about getting my digibox set up (on another TV) I haven't had time and got a bit ranty in the pub.

Seeing him again on Bank Holiday (just one day). I think its OK for now.

i was too scl, but at least its over with now , i feel calmer today

will mail you scl,eve and lou
and monty have sent you your usual weekly too lol

Aww thanks you lot.

scl - I know exactly what you mean about not being used to extended adult company. It feels a bit weird doesn't it!

Am I feeling a tad bruised and a bit sad but nothng worse than that. Nothing can make me feel too bad today though as DS is back from hols

lou - I've just read back a few posts back and seen your link. Didn't realise what was going on with your ex. What a an absolute arsehole. Have you got practical help to sort it all out?

asbm - just had a quick catch up and sorry to hear something wasn't quite right with indieman - but better to find out now than later i guess.

lou - your ex is a topclass knob jockey and I bet you are glad you aren't with him anymore. i would get the stuff cleaned up, value any damage and send him the bill via your solicitor!

janos - also sounds like you are well rid.

what is it with these guys latey?!?!

went on a date weds night, which was 'nice'. went for a few drinks, talked and then back to his flat - which was very nice. i know i keep saying 'nice' as it was but just weird getting back into this dating thing whilst taking things slow and getting to know someone! Maybe I'm holding back a little, which ain't too much of a bad thing! he has been in touch since via text to say we should do it again sometime so we shall see.

hi MH!
yeah i consider myself one v.lucky woman indeed
am glad to hear that you enjoyed your date and it sounds as tho he did too which is great

Hey MH

They way I look at it is, at least one of us had a good date. Nice sounds like just the right word, actually!

I'm currently cooking us a roast dinner. Can I save some roast spuds for anyone ?

mh - on a good date. fantastic. thats what we like to hear on this thread.

yes please janos

i've tidied it up pretty much, i just need to shift the units back inside, but it's been pouring today and they are really heavy

i will get to it though

i have to speak to my solicitor tomorrow so will mention it then and see what they say

hmm nice man NOT
did you get your email lou btw?

yes i just read it

how awful for you and what a tosser!

how you feeling?

oh i'm ok now trying not to think about it tho was obv shaken yesterday
have blocked him thru every poss way i can tho i admit to being a bit nervous in case i see him again

chuck any spare roasties this way (though don't tell my fat club leader...)

Ah I have a few left so I'll scoff them all save some for you asbm and MH.

Went down a treat, i do love a nice roast dinner even if it isn't great for my waistline.

BTW signed myself back in to POF on Friday when I was feeling tipsy, now I wish I hadn't bothered. Have a few messages and am thinking 'meh'. Just can't summon up enthusiasm!

my possible saturday date is going to confirm tomorrow, though he is pretty sure he is free

will be some kind of family thing if he cant make it

and i have also been invited away overnight for the following weekend by one of hte others lol

Morning one and all
I hope you had lovely weekends with not to much stress and drama.

Well I went out with sideshow bob on Sunday. I was so nervous I thought I was going to vomit. It was even worse then job intervie nerves. I have forgotten to to talk to men. I spend so much time with women and kids that I think that part of my brain has evaporated.
We went to the zoo! He didn't have any 'emergencies' to go to after 30 mintues and we spent about 5 hours together and at the end he said he would call to arrange another date. He could have said 'it was nice to meet thanks' but he didn't so phew!

llaj
that's brilliant news
how you feeling about it all today?