where have all the fit,interesting and available men gone (part 7)

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

blimey onto pt. 7 here!
and im on msn to my latest cyberman
still thinking up a nickname

yay!!
that's what i like to hear pos.talk from eve!
guess the vino kicking in
and i'll be bloody annoyed if you feck off this thread,we need you here lol
btw.tho i'm not dragging myself out tomorrow nite i'm hardly excited either
is this normal??

he always put a smile on my face, i just dont know how long this one will last lol

Who's being negative now. Lou don't worry about the future just go with the flow. ASBM you haven't been that excited about the last couple, you may be pleasantly surprised with this one. Best just to think 'whatever'.

Abouteve, maybe you meet a night out on the town, you may meet someone that way which is a change to the whole internet thing.

Lol at the mills & boon romance in Cairo for RJ and NM. Will you run into each others arms at the crowded airport, oh and you will both have to wear hats (40's style!)

This is all good stuff for our book/ film!

yes i guess
but eve and lou you've both been doing this for longer than me
i'm on the dating scene again for almost 6 months
is this reaction normal?
i know that i'm able to do this without the ghost of exh etc
but i just don't understand why i'm not even remotely excited?

Asbm - why do you think you're not excited? Is something unresolved thats lurking at the back of your mind that may be holding you back?

Holly I've had more nights out on the town than many people have had hot dinners. Don't suppose its gonna happen now although something usually does. It's always fun.

ASBM I've been on a few internet dates and only actually had romance sex with 2 out off say 10. This is all in the past. I think, and I will use Lou's quote here. If he is fit and interesting and 'makes you feel funny in your pants' its been a sucessful date. .

Don't expect anything and if it happens its a lovely surprise. It's good not to get too excited.

i think i'm just not finding that spark tbh

You haven't met yet. No-one can know until you meet. Keep the faith.

its best not to get excited, i dont usually, it's only cos it is exex that i am, i dont even raise my heartbeat normally lol

i am only being practical regarding exex because i know there is a chance he is off again, so dont want to think too far ahead

make the most of what i have , dont project too far into the future

Fittie makes me feel funny in my pants but just not had the chance to whip them off yet!

asbm - maybe you will feel funny in your pants when you actually see him tomorrow

thanks eve for that
phew!!am normal then

I have just sent a message to someone on SWK!
Fingers crossed i get a reply!

just saw those other posts
thanks girls!
tortoise fingers crossed too for you
has he been in touch with you?

No. Was someone i found while doing a search!

oooh what's he like spill!

i just had one of my friends asking me to go see him again, the one who is 16 yrs younger and offered himself to me last week

he says he is sober tonight

lol does that make a difference?

he owes me money and last week he was begging to come here or me go there and saying he wanted to be with me etc, but i had flu and said no, he said if i came i would get my money

tonight he texts sayign he is sober and can i go see him
i said no i have an extra child tonight, but he can come here tho not stay as i have no room, and bring me my cash as i really need it

he says oh no better not i have work tomorrow

he said how would he get home tonight , and i said taxi or my sofa at a push (he wants to spend teh night with me i am not daft), which is why he said no

he has owed me the money for weeks and only is able to give it when he wants me to go spend the night with him, funny that

asbm He is 33 from Dorset. Quite cute! Not really expecting a reply but hey it is worth a try!!!
Looked through 50+ pages and only he stood out lol!
Now i am bored with looking!

don't talk yourself down here
tis not allowed on this thread

ffs its like pulling teeth trying to get my money from this bloke

it doesn't work that way does it tho lou
this is an abuse of friendship
i hope he pays up quick as it's not on

its fucking giving me the right arse

he has said he will turn up when i want tomorrow where i choose, so i have given him a lpace and time and he hasnt replied

ffs i have 80 quid to last til next week and that fifty will go a long way

he isnt strapped for cash, he has his own plumbing company and owns a place he lets out so he bloody knows it makes a difference to me this cash

ok he reckons he will be where i said on time, so fingers crossed eh?

i will hunt him down and have his balls on plate if he lets me down